"Intetho yomntwana" yokuqala ayithethi nto kwaye yenzeka kwakamsinya emva kokuzalwa. Usana lwakho lubuhlungu, lukhala, luye luceke ukuveza iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo kunye neemfuno zomzimba, ukusuka kuloyiko kunye nendlala ukukhathazeka kunye nokugcwala ngokweemvakalelo. Abazali abalungileyo bafunda ukumamela nokutolika ukukhala okungafaniyo kosana lwabo.
Kanye xa umntwana wakho eza kuthi la magama okuqala ohluka kakhulu ukusuka kusana ukuya kosana. Kodwa ukuba usana lwakho luphoswa naliphi na kwezi zinto zibalulekileyo kuphuhliso lwentetho, Kuya kufuneka uthethe nogqirha wabantwana okanye ugqirha wosapho malunga neenkxalabo zakho.
Iimpawu ezibalulekileyo zentetho kwiintsana
Kwiinyanga ezi-3
Kwiinyanga ezi-3, umntwana wakho uyabe esiva ilizwi lakho, ajonge ebusweni xa ethetha, ajike aye kwamanye amazwi, izandi, kunye nomculo onokuviwa ekhaya. Iintsana ezininzi zikhetha ilizwi lomfazi kunelomntu. Bakhetha amazwi kunye nomculo abawuvileyo ngelixa besesibelekweni. Ekupheleni kweenyanga ezintathu, iintsana ziqala "ukuva," uvuyo, ukuthamba, ukuphindaphinda, ukucula.
Kwiinyanga ezi-6
Kwiinyanga ezi-6, umntwana wakho uqala ukubetha ngezandi ezahlukeneyo. Umzekelo, usana lwakho lusenokuthi "ba-ba" okanye "da-da." Ekupheleni kwenyanga yesithandathu okanye yesixhenxe, iintsana ziyaphendula kumagama azo, zazi ulwimi lwazo, kwaye zisebenzise ithoni yelizwi ukubaxelela ukuba bonwabile okanye bacaphukile. Abanye abazali abanomdla batolika uthotho lwe "da-da" iibabbles njengamagama abo okuqala omntwana: "Tata!" Kodwa ukubabaza kule minyaka kusekwenziwe ngamalungu alandelelanayo angenantsingiselo yokwenene okanye ukuqonda.
Kwiinyanga ezi-9
Emva kweenyanga ezili-9, iintsana ziyawaqonda amagama asisiseko afana no "hayi" kunye "nokuvalelisa." Banokuqala ukusebenzisa uluhlu olubanzi lwezandi kunye neetoni zezwi.
Ngeenyanga ezili-12 ne-18
Uninzi lweentsana luthi amagama ambalwa alula njengo "mama" kunye "notata" ekupheleni kweenyanga ezili-12, Kwaye ngoku bayayazi into abayithethayo Bayaphendula, okanye ubuncinci baqonde, ukuba abathobeli, izicelo zakho ezimfutshane, ezinyathelo elinye, ezinje "Nceda ubhale phantsi."
Kwiinyanga ezi-18
Iintsana kule minyaka zithetha amagama amaninzi alula kwaye zingabonisa abantu, izinto kunye namalungu omzimba. Baphinda amagama okanye izandi abakuvayo uzithetha, njengegama lokugqibela lesivakalisi. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abakungqongileyo banokungayiqondi ncam eyona nto uyithethayo.
Kwiminyaka emi-2
Ngeminyaka emi-2, iintsana zithi amagama ambalwa kwizivakalisi ezifutshane (hayi ngaphezulu kwamagama amabini) anje ngo "bye tata" okanye "Ndifuna ubisi." Bafunda ukuba amagama athetha okungaphezulu kunokubiza nje izinto kwaye banokuthetha ngeemvakalelo okanye izimvo.
Kwiminyaka emi-3
Ngexesha umntwana wakho eneminyaka emi-3 ubudala, isigama sakhe siya kube sandisiwe kwaye uya kuqala ukudlala ngendlela engaqhelekanga. Oku kuya kukhuthaza ukuqondwa kolwimi kunye nomdlalo ongumfuziselo. Uya kuziqonda ngcono iimvakalelo kunye nengqondo yendawo.
Ngale miba icacileyo, uya kwazi kakuhle ukuba zeziphi ezona zinto zibalulekileyo ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo usana lwakho ngokweelwimi.