Xa ufuna kakhulu uthando, ungaphelela ekudimazekeni kwaye uphoxeke. Usenokuba uzithembisile amaxesha amaninzi ukuba uza kuyeka ukuthandana naye wonke umntu odibana naye. Baninzi abantu abakwimeko efanayo, mhlawumbi kudala ungatshatanga kwaye unqwenela ukuba nomntu okhethekileyo ebomini bakho.
Lixesha lokuba uyeke ukucinga ukuba utshata umntu wokuqala odibana naye ebomini bakho kwaye uyeke ukuthetha ngothando emva komhla wesibini. Ukuthandana nomntu osandula ukudibana nayo kungonzakalisa intliziyo yakho. Ngesi sizathu, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuzinika ixesha elaneleyo lokwazi umntu ngethemba lokufumanisa ukuba ngaba lo mntu ngokwenene ungulowo ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elixabisekileyo kunye naye. Ungaphoswa ziingcebiso zilandelayo ukuze ungathandani nabantu ongabaziyo, iya kukhusela intliziyo yakho kwaye nengqondo yakho isempilweni.
Cinga ngale nto uyifunayo
Bhala into oyifunayo kunye nento ongayifuniyo emntwini, ke uya kuyazi into oyifunayo emntwini. Inkangeleko yomzimba ayisoloko iyinto ebaluleke kakhulu, Kuya kufuneka uyithathele ingqalelo imigaqo yokuziphatha oyifunayo komnye umntu. Ukuba umntu omaziyo akahlangabezani neemfuno zakho okanye ubuncinci uninzi lwabo, kungcono uqhubele phambili ebomini bakho.
Yinyani kwaye uyeke ukuhlala kumnandi
Ewe, unokuba namehlo amahle aluhlaza okhe wawabona okanye une-abs emangalisayo, kodwa lixesha lokuba ususe iiglasi zakho ezintle kwaye ujonge inyani. Uthando lunokukwenza wenze izinto ezingenangqondo ke uya kuthandana nawo wonke umntu omtsha odibana naye.
Thatha umoya kwaye ubuye umva ngaphambi kokutsiba kwiingalo zomntu omtsha. Ngaba uyafuna ukufunda indlela yokuyeka ukuthandana nawo wonke umntu omncinci obaziyo? Yenza okusebenzayo ngakumbi kwaye uyeke ukucinga izinto ezingenangqondo.
Funda ukuthi hayi
Funda ukungavumi kwinto oyixelelwa yintloko yakho kunye neehomoni ngamanye amaxesha. Inyani yile yokuba banokuxoka. Iihomoni zakho zinendlela ehlekisayo yokwenza ukuba ukholelwe into engeyonyani. Ngenxa yoko, uphela usenza izinto ebekungafanelekanga ukuba uzenze kunye neempazamo ngenxa yokuba ucinga ukuba uyathandana. Kulungile ukuthi hayi ngamanye amaxesha.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uthandane nabo bonke abantu abajonge kuwe. Ngokuqinisekileyo akufuneki uphuze wonke umntu othenga ukutya kuwe. Kuphephe ukuba kukukholisa abantu kuba uqhele ukuhlala u-ewe kuyo yonke into.
Umthetho weenyanga ezintathu
Umthetho weenyanga ezintathu unamandla okusindisa iintlungu ezininzi, ukudideka, kunye nokuzisola ngobomi bakho bonke ongenakukubuyisa xa sele ukwenzile. Kuqukethe ukunika inkwenkwe ithuba lokulingwa kweenyanga ezintathu ngaphambi kokutsiba ebhedini kunye naye
Ukuba uzimisele ukulinda iinyanga ezintathu ngaphambi kokuba ulale nawe, kufanelekile. Oku kuyakuvumela ukuba nobabini ninethuba elininzi lokwazana kwinqanaba lokwenyani, endaweni yento emnandi, eqhutywa yinkanuko enokuqhuma ngokulula kwaye ikuphoxe.