Uninzi lwabazali luyabavuza abantwana babo xa beziphethe kakuhle. iliso! Umvuzo awufani nokunyoba. Kwimeko yokuqala ngumvuzo okanye indumiso ngokuziphatha kakuhle, kwaye okwesibini ngumvuzo wokuyeka isimilo esibi kwangoko. Eyokuqala yeyona isebenza ngokwenene ukufundisa abantwana kwaye ifunde izakhono ezitsha, okwesibini endaweni yoko, nangona ilinga ngakumbi, ijika kuphela abantwana babe ngoozwilakhe abancinci, abakhohlisi kunye nabaphethe kakubi.
Kukho abazali abacinga ukuba akufuneki bavuze abantwana babo ngokuziphatha kakuhle kuba luxanduva lwabo njengomntwana. Ngokwenyani, abantwana bafuna inkuthazo yokufunda izakhono ezitsha, ngakumbi xa kufikwa ekuphatheni ezona mvakalelo zingonwabanga. Xa abantwana bekhuthazwa ukuba benze ngcono, ngokuthe ngcembe indlela abaziphethe ngayo iya kuphucuka phantse ngokungathi ngomlingo. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba uyathandabuza?
Kuthekani ukuba andinamali yaneleyo yokuhlawula amabhaso?
Uninzi lwabazali banembono ephosakeleyo yokuba imbuyekezo kufuneka ixabise imali, kodwa akufuneki ibekho, kude kuyo. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba abayibizi imali, baya kuba yimivuzo engcono. Imivuzo yasimahla kunye nenkuthazo ngokubanzi inokubonelela ngenkuthazo enkulu kubantwana. Oku kunokulala kamva, ukhetha umdlalo oza kuwudlala, ukhetha idessert oyithandayo ...
Imalunga nokwenza ubuchule ngemivuzo ukuze ungatyali imali eninzi. Mazi unyana wakho kunye nezinto anomdla kuzo kwaye ngale ndlela uya kufumana umvuzo ofanele ubuntu bakhe kunye nezinto anomdla kuzo. Vumela umntwana aphumelele kamva ngexesha lokulala, khetha isidlo esikhethekileyo, okanye ukhethe umdlalo oza kuwudlala. Ungacela umntwana wakho ukuba aveze uluvo lwabo malunga nokuba zeziphi izinto abafuna ukuziphumelela. Into elula njengokuthi 'usuku ngaphandle komsebenzi wekhaya' ivawutsha kunye nenkuthazo eyaneleyo yabantwana.
Ngaba ukwenza inkqubo yomvuzo inzima kakhulu?
Uninzi lwabazali luyalibala eyona nto ibalulekileyo xa kufikwa kumba wokukhulisa abantwana: ukujonga ixesha elide. Nangona iinkqubo zemivuzo zifuna umsebenzi owongezelelekileyo, zinokwenza umahluko omkhulu ekuziphatheni komntwana wakho ekuqaleni. Ukuba uchitha ixesha elincinci ngoku, oko kuya kuthetha ukuba kuyakufuneka uchithe ixesha elincinci uqeqesha umntwana wakho kwixa elizayo. kwaye, ungaphelisa umzabalazo wamandla.
Sukwenza inkqubo yomvuzo inzima kakhulu. Jonga nje iindlela ezimbalwa zokuziphatha ngexesha. Ngaphandle koko, umntwana wakho uya kudideka. Inkqubo elula yomvuzo kufuneka ichaze ngokucacileyo indlela ekujolise kuyo okanye indlela yokuziphatha ozijongileyo kunye nembuyekezo enokufunyanwa ngumntwana wakho.
Kwiingxaki ezithile zokuziphatha, kusengqiqweni ukulandela indlela yokuziphatha ngexesha elithile. Umzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho asebenze ekuhlaleni ngcono kunye nomntakwabo, ungakhetha ukujolisa kule ndlela yokuziphatha kuphela emva kwesidlo sangokuhlwa, ukuba kulapho uninzi lweengxaki zibonakala zikhona. Gcina inkqubo yemivuzo ilula ukuze wena nomntwana wakho nicace ukuba iza kusebenza njani.