Ubudlelwane kufuneka busoloko busekwe kukuthembana nokuhloniphana. Nangona kunjalo, ngelishwa namhlanje baninzi ubudlelwane obunetyhefu kunye nobubi. Enye yezona ndlela zixhaphakileyo zokuziphatha zihlala zinjalo kukungakhathali.
Iqela elichaphazelekayo alazi nto ngalo kwaye uthobela ukuphathwa ngomnye umntu ofumana oko akufunayo ngeendlela ezingathandekiyo kwiqabane.
Zeziphi iimpawu zokungakhathali kulwalamano
Njengoko besesitshilo apha ngasentla, abantu abaninzi abaqondi ukuba bahlala ngokupheleleyo kubudlelwane obunoburharha. Ubundlongondlongo bukho kwaye buhleli ngaphakathi kwesi sibini, nangona kubaluleke kakhulu kunokubonakala ngathi akukho. Luhlobo lobundlongondlongo olungenabungozi ekuqaleni, nangona luphela lusenza umonakalo omkhulu kumntu ova ubunzima kulo.
Kolu hlobo lobudlelwane, ukuba ndlongondlongo kwenzeka, nangona kunokubonakala kumsulwa ngoko ke kuyityhefu kunye nolwalamano olungenampilo. Umntu oxhatshaziweyo kufuneka ayiqonde le nto kwaye ayiphelise ngokukhawuleza.
Injani indlela yokuziphatha kubudlelwane obungenalusini
Okulandelayo siza kunika iinkcukacha ngokuziphatha okwenzeka kolu hlobo lobudlelwane:
- Ukunyanzeliswa luphawu olucacileyo lobudlelwane obunobundlongondlongo. Inxalenye yeqabane elinetyhefu yenza ukuba omnye umntu azive enetyala ukuze bazive bengalunganga. Umntu onolwazelelelo usoloko elixhoba kwaye akaze aphosise nantoni na.
- Kuhlala kukho ukwehla kwenye yeenxalenye zesibini. Kukho ukugxekwa okungapheliyo okubangela ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo. Ekuqaleni, oku kugxekwa kwenziwa ukomeleza ubudlelwane, Nangona kunjalo, ekuphela kwento enegalelo yityhefu kwesi sibini.
- Impumelelo yomnye umntu ayinikwanga ukubalulekaoh eyona nto ibalulekileyo yile nto yenziwe yinxalenye yesiqhelo. Ngale nto, nawuphi na umsebenzi womntu ophantsi uyathotywa, ubaphatha kakubi ngendlela yengqondo.
- Kuqhelekile ukuba umntu onobukrwada asebenzise isiqhulo okanye isigqebelo phambi kwabanye abantu. Luhlobo loburharha olukude nenyani kwaye oko kuveza umntu oxhatshaziweyo.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni kulwalamano olungenamdla
Okokuqala, qaphela ukuba ubudlelwane abuphilanga kwaphela. kwaye kubalulekile ukuba uluphelise olu hlobo lokuziphatha olungaluncedisiyo naliphi na iqela. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba uhlale phantsi uthethe ngayo kwaye ufune uncedo kwingcali eyaziyo indlela yokuphelisa ubuthi phakathi kwesi sibini.
Kubalulekile ukufumana umthombo kunye nonobangela wokuziphatha okunje kwaye ukusuka apho, lungisa ingxaki ngaphambi kokuba itshabalalise ubudlelwane. Akunakwenzeka ukuba uqhubeke nokuphila nolu hlobo lokuziphatha kuba ekugqibeleni iphelisa ukutshabalalisa iqabane ngokwalo. Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba uyilawula njani yonke imvakalelo yakho kwaye qinisa ubudlelwane eluthandweni nasekuhloniphaneni.