Njengakwezinye iinkalo zobomi, isibini sidlula kuthotho lwezigaba eziphawula umjikelo wobomi baso. Ayiyiyo yonke into eya kuba mnandi kwaye kuqhelekile ukuba ngokuhamba kwexesha, kuvela ubunzima obahlukeneyo kunye neengxaki ekufuneka zisonjululwe ngokudibeneyo nangokudibeneyo.
Isibini ngasinye sahlukile kwaye ayingabo bonke abaya kuphila isigaba ngasinye okanye inqanaba. Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha ngomjikelo wobomi isibini esidla ngokudlula kuwo.
Ukudalwa kwesibini
Inqanaba lokuqala isibini esithile esidlula kuso lelo lokuthandana kunye nokucinga okwenzeka ngokufanayo. Umntu omthandayo uba yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini kwaye ithatha ingcinga zakho nganye. Ukuba eli nqanaba liphuhliswe ngokufanelekileyo, kukho ukuzibophelela kwamaqela omabini ukuseka ubudlelwane obunokuhlala ixesha elide. Iprojekthi yenziwe apho ijonge ukomeleza amaqhina ngokweemvakalelo kwaye uthando loyisa nayiphi na enye imvakalelo.
Ukusekwa kosapho
Ukuba isibini siyamanyana, inyathelo elilandelayo liya kuba kukwakha intsapho. Ngenxa yoku, unyana ufunwa ukunceda ekudaleni usapho lokwenyani. Ukufika komntwana kwesi sibini kuya kuba kuphambi nasemva kwazo zonke iinkalo zobomi. Usana luya kuba ngumbindi wobomi besi sibini, nto leyo enokubangela ezinye iingxaki ekuhlalisaneni.
Nangona usana lufuna okuninzi kuzo zonke iinkalo, kukwabalulekile ukunyamekela ubudlelwane besibini. Ngoko ke kuyacetyiswa ukuba usebenze njengeqela elithembekileyo ukuze eli nqanaba kubomi besibini, yiba ngomnye wabona bantu bonwabileyo nabamangalisayo kubo bobabini.
Ukuhlala nolutsha
Inqanaba elilandelayo lelokuhlala nabantwana abafikisayo. Linqanaba elinzima ngokwenene ngenxa yotshintsho oluqhubekayo abantwana abadlula kulo. Kweli nqanaba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba isibini sihlale simanyene ngokupheleleyo ukuze sijongane ngaphandle kokuthandabuza zonke iingxaki ezidla ngokuziswa kukufikisa.
Ukukhululwa kwabantwana
Inqanaba elilandelayo kwikamva lesibini lixesha apho abantwana bazimele kwaye balishiye ikhaya. Linqanaba elinzima kakhulu kwisibini kuba i-nest syndrome engenanto ibonakala. Nangona kunjalo, nangona kunjalo, esi sibini sidibana kwakhona kwaye sinandiphe ukuthandana okwesibini. Bobabini abantu abanalo uxanduva ngokubhekiselele kubantwana kwaye lo mzuzu ubalulekile ukunandipha ubomi kwakhona ngokubhekiselele kumntu othandekayo.
Ngamafutshane, ukuba neqabane kuthetha ukuba kufuneka ujamelane nothotho lweengxaki ezibonakala kubomi babo bonke. Intsebenziswano ingundoqo kwisibini ukuba somelele kwaye sikhule ngokuhamba kweminyaka. Asiyondlela ilula efuna amaxabiso anjalo njengokuthembana, ukhuseleko, uthando okanye uvelwano.