Kunqabile ukufumana utata oqondayo ukuba uyityhefu emntwaneni wakhe nokuba indlela akhuliswe ngayo ayanelanga. Ukuba ngutata olungileyo kuxhomekeke kakhulu kwimilinganiselo enikelwa kumntwana wakho ngexesha lenkqubo yemfundo yomntwana. Utata kufuneka amncede umntwana akhulise ubuntu obufanelekileyo kunye nokuziphatha okufanelekileyo.
Ukuba akunjalo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uyise akaqhubi kakuhle kwaphela yaye ugqalwa njengotata onetyhefu. Kwinqaku elilandelayo sichaza iinkcukacha iimpawu abadla ngokuba nazo abo baziwa njengabazali abayityhefu kunye nendlela yokusombulula ukuze inkqubo yobuzali ibe yeyona ilungileyo.
Ukuzikhusela ngokugqithisileyo
Ukukhuselwa ngokugqithisileyo yenye yezona mpawu zicacileyo nezicacileyo zikabawo onetyhefu. Umntwana umele aphendule ngeempazamo azenzayo njengoko oku kuya kumnceda ngokuthe ngcembe ukubumba ubuntu bakhe. Ukukhuselwa ngokugqithiseleyo kubazali akulungile kuphuhliso olufanelekileyo lomntwana.
Kubaluleke kakhulu
Akuncedi ukubagxeka nokubagxeka abantwana bakho ngalo lonke ixesha. Oku kuthoba ngokuthe ngcembe ukuzithemba nokuzithemba kwabantwana. Okulungileyo kukubavuyisana nabo ngempumelelo yabo kunye neenjongo zabo. Ukugxekwa ngabazali kwenza abantwana bazive bekhuselekile ngamaxesha onke yaye bazive bengento yanto ngayo yonke into abayenzayo.
Kukuzingca
Abazali abanetyhefu badla ngokuzingca kubantwana babo. Abaziniki kubaluleka iimfuno ezahlukeneyo abantwana abanazo kwaye bacingela iziqu zabo kuphela. Ukuzingca kudla ngokuyichaphazela kakubi imeko yeemvakalelo yomntwana kwaye kunokubangela amanqanaba aphezulu okuxhalaba kunye nokudakumba.
Igunya
Igunya eligqithisileyo lolunye uphawu olucacileyo lwabazali abayityhefu. Abaguquguquki ngokuphathelele nayiphi na ihambo yabantwana babo yaye banyanzelisa igunya labo ngalo lonke ixesha, nto leyo ebangela ukuba abantwana bazive benetyala. Njengoko ixesha lihamba, aba bantwana baba ngabantu abadala abaneengxaki ezininzi ezingokweemvakalelo. ezinefuthe elibi kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
Babeka uxinzelelo kwizifundo
Awukwazi ukunyanzela umntwana ukuba afunde into angayifuniyo. Kukho abazali abaninzi abanyanzela abantwana babo ukuba bakhethe umsebenzi othile ngaphandle kokucingela eyona nto bayifunayo.
Engalunganga kwaye awanelisekanga ngehlabathi
Abazali abanetyhefu abanelisekanga ngamaxesha onke kwaye abonwabanga bubomi ababuphilayo. Oku kugxeka kunye nokungabi nathemba kwamkelwa ngabantwana nazo zonke izinto ezimbi ezibandakanya. Ngokuhamba kwexesha baba ngabantwana abadakumbileyo nabangonwabanga abanganelisekanga nantoni na.
Ngamafutshane, ubuthi babazali buphela bufunxwa ngabantwana, into eba yinyani xa ufikelela kwinqanaba labantu abadala. Abazali kufuneka bakhulise abantwana babo bethathela ingqalelo uthotho lweenqobo ezisemgangathweni ezinje ngentlonipho okanye uthando ukubenza abantu abalungileyo kwixesha elide. Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bakhule ngokupheleleyo kwaye bangabathinteli ngendlela ebaxhaphazayo.