Kuninzi lobudlelwane, xa ufuna ukucela uxolo okanye ukuxolela omnye umntu Sisifundo esikhohlisayo esihlala siphela kumlo okanye ungquzulwano. Into eqhelekileyo kukuba ukuba oku kuyenzeka kwaye esi sibini sinesiseko esisempilweni, umba awuqhubeki, nangona kunjalo ngelishwa ayisiyonto iqhelekileyo leyo.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela izizathu okanye izizathu zokuba kutheni kunzima ukuxolela kwaye ucele uxolo, ukongeza kwiziphumo ezibi ezinazo ngekamva lesibini.
Kutheni kunzima kangaka nje ukucela uxolo
- Uninzi lwabantu luziva luhlaselwa ngamaqabane abo ukuba baxelelwe ukuba benze kakubi. Baziva besoyikiswa kuba bezithembile kancinci kwaye ukuzithemba kwabo kubuthathaka.
- Esinye isizathu yinyani yokubona umhlaba ngendlela egqithisileyo ngaphandle kokwamkela umhlaba ophakathi. Nokuba yeyiphi imhlophe okanye imnyama kodwa ayinakuba ngwevu. Abakwazi ukwamkela nangaliphi na ixesha ukuba banephutha ngokupheleleyo kwaye esi sibini sikhululwe kulolo tyala.
- Aba ngabantu abacinga ukuba xa begqiba ukucela uxolo, Kuya kufuneka bayenze nanini na xa kuvela uhlobo oluthile lwengxaki okanye ungquzulwano.
Abantu abangaziyo ukulixolela iqabane labo
- Njengokuba kukho abantu abakufumanisa kunzima ukucela uxolo, kukho nabanye abakufumanisa kunzima ukuxolela. Ezi ntlobo zabantu zinoluvo oluphosakeleyo lokuba ukuxolelwa kuthetha ntoni. Ukuba umonakalo uxolelwe, awucinywanga kwimemori, kodwa kuyanceda ekupheliseni indlela yokuziphatha enokwenzeka kunye nekamva elibi elinokuphelisa isibini.
- Inxeba kunye nomonakalo obangelwe kukuziphatha okuthile kwenza ukuba umntu ekufuneka exolele afune ukohlwaya iqabane lakhe kwaye limenze asokole. Kule meko, uxolelo ekudala lulindelwe noluyimfuneko kulwalamano alufiki.
- Esinye isizathu sokuba kuhlala kunzima ukuxolela iqabane lakho Kungenxa yenyani yokuziva ubuthathaka kwaye usesichengeni phambi komnye umntu.
Iziphumo zokungazi ukuba ungaxolela njani kwesi sibini
- Inqala eyoyikekayo iqala ukuvela ewenza buthathaka umanyano phakathi kwabantu bobabini.
- Esi sibini uthotho lweemvakalelo eziyingozi ziqala ukubakho Njengomsindo, umsindo, okanye ukuphoxeka.
- Inxalenye engaxoleliyo ihlala icinga ngokwenzekileyo, ukushiya bucala impilo yabantu abatshatileyo.
Ungalucela njani uxolelo?
- Into yokuqala kukuthatha lonke ityala kunye noxanduva ngaphandle kokubeka i-buts.
- Kuhle ukuhlala kwindawo ethe cwaka sithethe ngayo yonke into eyenzekileyo. ngaphandle kokukhangela iinkcukacha.
- Uvelwano lubalulekile xa ucela uxolo kwiqabane lakho. Kuhle ukuzifaka ezihlangwini zomnye umntu ukuze uve intlungu.
- Umntu kufuneka anikezele ukulungisa imeko ukuze umonakalo owenziwe unyamalale.
- Iqabane akufuneki linyanzelwe ukuba lixolele kwaye Yinto umntu ekufuneka ayenze ngokukhululekileyo nangokugqibeleleyo.