Umnqweno wesondo yinto equkuqela ngokuqhubekayo kubantu abaninzi. Inokutshintshwa ziimeko ezithile zobuqu, ezinjengoxinzelelo okanye impilo yeemvakalelo. Ngale ndlela, umntu ocinezelekileyo unokuba nokungakhathali okuthile ngokumalunga nesondo okanye ufuna isini ukuze athomalalise iingxaki ezibangelwa luxinzelelo oluxeliweyo.
Kwimeko yezibini, elinye lamaqela lidla ngokuba nomnqweno wesondo ngakumbi kunomnye, odla ngokubangela iingxaki ezithile. Kwinqaku elilandelayo siyakuxelela indlela yokwenza kwimeko apho elinye iqabane linomnqweno wesondo ngakumbi kunomnye.
Ukubaluleka konxibelelwano
Ingxoxo kunye nonxibelelwano luyimfuneko kuso nasiphi na isibini. Kwimeko apho kukho iingxaki ezithile xa usabelana ngesondo, Ukuthetha izinto ngaphandle kunceda ukuphepha iingxabano ezithile phakathi kobudlelwane. Ukwabelana ngesondo akunakuba sisinyanzeliso, kufuneka kube ngumzuzu wobudlelwane obusondeleyo phakathi kwesibini esincedisa ukuqinisa ubudlelwane obudala.
Uvelwano yenye yezinto ezibalulekileyo xa kuziwa ekusombululeni iingxaki ezibangelwa sisondo. Kufuneka ukwazi indlela yokuzibeka ezicathulweni zeqabane lakho ukuqonda ngamaxesha onke isizathu sokunganakwa okunjalo kunye nokungabikho komnqweno wesini.
Imiboniso yothando nothando kwesi sibini
Ukwabelana ngesondo akufuneki kube yinto engoomatshini okanye ebandayo kodwa umzuzwana ogcwele inkanuko kunye nokuziphatha okubi okuxhokonxa ukonwabela isibini. Ngaphambi kokwabelana ngesondo, kubalulekile ukunika ukhetho kwimiboniso yothando kunye nothando kwiqabane. Ukuncamisa kunye nokusiphulula isibini kufanele kube yintshayelelo yobudlelwane bezesondo.
Hlaziya imikhwa yemihla ngemihla
Kukho inani leenkalo zemihla ngemihla ezinokubangela ukunganakwa okuthile kwinqanaba lezesondo. Ngamanye amaxesha ukudinwa, ukudinwa okanye uxinzelelo kusemva kweengxaki zesini. Ukunikezelwa oku, kubalulekile ukutshintsha le mikhwa kubantu abaphilileyo abavumela ukuvuselela i-libido kunye nenkanuko yesini. Ukuphulula amaphambili ngezihlandlo ezithile kunokunceda umnqweno wesini ubuyele kwisibini. Ukubandakanya omnye umntu kulo mzuzu kunokusombulula iingxaki zenkanuko yesini kunye nokunceda ukuvuselela i-libido. Kwimeko apho i-masturbation enjalo iba yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye ixhaphake, kuya kufuneka ukuba uye kwingcali owaziyo ukuphelisa le ngxaki.
Ngamafutshane, isondo kufuneka ibe ngumzuzu okhethekileyo kunye nomlingo waso nasiphi na isibini. Ukuba iba luxanduva lokwenyani, kunokwenzeka ukuba iingxaki ziya kuqala ukuvela phakathi kobudlelwane. Ukuba kubonakala ukungakhathali ngokuphathelele isini, kubalulekile ukuthetha nesibini ukuze kufumaneke isicombululo esiyingenelo kuso. Khumbula ukuba ukwabelana ngesondo kufuneka kube yinto yokuzithandela kwaye kufuneka ibe ngumzuzu wolonwabo kuwo omabini amaqela.