Ubudlelwane besibini obuthobelayo lobo apho omnye wabo enikezela kuyo yonke into ecelwa ngomnye umntu, efunga ngentobelo enkulu. Nangona kude kube yiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo lo mfazi wayengumntu othobekileyo kubudlelwane, Namhlanje kukwakho amadoda athobekileyo phakathi kwesi sibini. Ubudlelwane obuhlelwe njengobuthobelayo bubudlelwane obuyityhefu njengoko kungekho bulungisa phakathi kwamaqela.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha nawe ngokweenkcukacha yolu hlobo lobudlelwane kwaye zithini iimpawu zayo.
Ukungeniswa phakathi kwesibini
Ulwalamano lwesibini olugqalwa njengoluthobelayo lunokuhlalutywa kwiinkalo okanye kwimiba eyahlukeneyo ezifana nezentlalo okanye ngokwasengqondweni. Ukuba inkalo yengqondo ithathwa njengesiqalo, kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba olu hlobo lokuziphatha okanye ukuziphatha okunobuthi kunokukhokelela kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo ezigxeka ngokwenene, ezifana nokuxhatshazwa kunye nobundlobongela.
Omnye wamaqela uhlaziswa ngokuqhubekayo kwiqabane, ukunciphisa izimvo kunye nezigqibo zabo. Yiyo loo nto olu hlobo lobudlelwane lungenakuvunyelwa phantsi kwayo nayiphi na imeko. Uthotho lwemiba ecacileyo ludla ngokubakho kubudlelwane bezibini ezizithobayo:
- Amandla lelinye lamaqela ukuba lithobe isibini.
- Yahlukile imifuziselo ngokwesini ngokwentlalo.
- Impembelelo eya kuba nayo imizekelo yesini sentlalo kubomi bemihla ngemihla.
Iinkcukacha ekufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo kubudlelwane nokungeniswa
Kulolu hlobo lwezibini, elinye lamaqela lifunga ukuthobela ngokupheleleyo elinye kwaye liyayamkela imiyalelo eyahlukileyo ngaphandle kombuzo. Oku kubangela ukuba inxalenye ezithobayo ibe neengxaki ezinzulu zokuzithemba kunye nokuzithemba. baze balahlekelwe ngokupheleleyo kuko konke ukuzimela kwabo. Kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, umntu ogula kakhulu ubonakala ngokulandelayo:
- Ungabandezeleka ngokugqithisileyo kumgangatho wengqondo kunye nomzimba.
- andinakushiya ikhaya inyathelo lakhe.
- Ulahlekelwa luqhagamshelwano olupheleleyo neyona ndawo ikufutshane nawe njengabahlobo kunye nosapho.
- Phila kulawulo olupheleleyo ngaba babini.
- ulahlekelwe eyakhe ukuzimela nokuzimela Imihla ngemihla.
- akanambeko kwaye ufumana ukuthotywa okuqhubekayo.
Ingozi enkulu yolu hlobo lobudlelwane obunobuthi kunye nobungenampilo kukuba kukho iimeko apho amaqela athobelayo beza kuthethelela ukuziphatha okubalaseleyo kweqabane labo. Umntu othobekileyo uye abone indlela yokuziphatha yeqabane lakhe njengento eqhelekileyo.
Iintlobo zobudlelwane obuzithobayo
- Isifo somongikazi omanzi Luhlobo lobudlelwane apho elinye iqela liziphatha njengomzali lize elinye liziphathe njengomntwana. Uyise wenza nemiyalelo kwaye unyana uthobela ngaphandle kokuphinda enze.
- Isimbo seGeisha ubudlelwane bokuzithoba. Kolu hlobo lwesibini, inxalenye ezithobayo ixhalabele ngokuba mhle kwinxalenye elawulayo kunye nokwanelisa yonke iminqweno yabo.
- Isimbo sokugqibela sokungeniswa sisimbo solawulo lomqeshwa. Isibini ekuthethwa ngaso sisebenza ngokungathi kukho isivumelwano phakathi kwamaqela. Kukho umphathi oyalelayo nonika imiyalelo kunye nomqeshwa owugcinayo aze awenze.
Ngamafutshane, ubudlelwane besibini apho ukuhanjiswa kuqhutywa ngomnye wamaqela Inokuthi ithathwe njengetyhefu okanye engekho mpilweni. Kwisibini kufuneka kubekho ulingano kunye nokulingana phakathi kwamaqela, kungenjalo amaxabiso abalulekileyo anje ngentlonipho nokuthembana ayalahleka. Ngokuhamba kwexesha kwaye ukuba ukungeniswa okuthethiweyo akulungisi, kusenokubakho ukuthotywa okuthile komnye wabachaphazelekayo okunokukhokelela ekuphathweni kakubi ngokupheleleyo. Ngoko ke, phantsi kweemeko akukho mntu unokuvuma ukuba kubudlelwane omnye wamaqela uyalela kunye nemiyalelo kwaye omnye uyathobela ngaphandle kokuqhubeka.