Ukuncamathela okunxungupheleyo kuziswe kwintsimi yesi sibini, Kubandakanya uloyiko olukhulu kunye noloyiko lokushiywa kwaye ushiywe wedwa. Olu hlobo lokuncamathela lufuna imvume eqhubekayo evela kumlingane, into eyenza buthathaka ubudlelwane. Abantu abanengxaki yokuncamathela okunxunguphalisayo abakhuselekanga kwaye banokungazithembi. Oku kungabikho kokhuseleko kunye nokuthembana kunempembelelo embi kubudlelwane besibini.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha nawe ngendlela ethe kratya malunga nokuncamathela okunexhala phakathi kwesi sibini kunye ukwenza ntoni ukuhlangabezana nengxaki enjalo.
Ukuzimela kubudlelwane
Ukuzimela ngundoqo kwaye kubalulekile xa naluphi na uhlobo lobudlelwane bonwabile kwaye lufezekisa intlalontle ethile. Ndiyabulela kule nkululeko ikhankanywe ngasentla, aba bantu babini banendawo yabo kwaye banexesha elininzi lokwenza oko bakuthanda kakhulu. Ukuzimela kunceda ukomeleza ubudlelwane njengesibini enkosi kukubaluleka okufunyanwa zizinto ezibaluleke njengokuthembana okanye intlonipho. Kubudlelwane, amaqela kufuneka abe nexesha lokonwabela kunye kunye nexesha lokukwazi ukuyonwabela kumntu ngamnye kunye nobuqu.
Indlela ukuzimela esebenza ngayo kubudlelwane besibini
- Kulungile ukuseka uluhlu lwemida enempilo phakathi kwesibini. Oku kufuna ukukhusela indawo yobuqu yeqela ngalinye.
- Ilungu ngalinye limele lenze izinto ngokwalo ukuze lifumane intlalo-ntle ethile kunye nolonwabo. bobabini ngokobuqu nanjengesibini.
- Kulungile ukwandisa isangqa sabahlobo ukwenza izinto kunye nabo ngaphandle kwesibini. Oku kubalulekile xa kuziwa ekuphepheni ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokuphumeza ulungelelwaniso oluthile lobuqu.
- Kufuneka ufunde ukuthi hayi ngendlela eqinisekisayo nangembeko. Oku kwala ngundoqo xa kuziwa ekukhuseleni indawo yobuqu phakathi kwesibini.
Ukuzithemba kwisiqu sakho nakwisibini
Xa kuziwa ekufumaneni ulonwabo kunye nokuphila kakuhle kubudlelwane, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba iqela ngalinye lizithembe ngokwalo nakwisibini. Emva koko sikunika uluhlu lwezikhokelo xa usebenza ekuthembekeni kubudlelwane:
- Amaqela kufuneka aziveze ngokucacileyo xa ethetha ngeentlobo ezahlukeneyo zoloyiko kunye noloyiko. Oku kwenza ukuba inkxaso ihambelane kwaye ubudlelwane buqina.
- Kufuneka uqale ngokusebenza ngokuzithemba kwamaqela. Ndiyabulela koku, isibini siziva sikhuselekile kuzo zonke iinkalo kwaye kukho ukuthembana okukhulu phakathi kobudlelwane.
- Kufuneka unyaniseke kwaye unyaniseke kwiqabane lakho. Le yinto ephindaphindayo ngendlela elungileyo ekuthembaneni.
- Kufuneka kucace ukuba akukho mntu ufezekileyo, ngoko wonke umntu uneziphene zakhe kunye nezinto ezintle. Kubalulekile ukwamkelana ngendlela efanayo kwaye ukusuka apha ukuqinisa ukuthembana phakathi kwesibini.
Ngamafutshane, xa kufikwa ekonwabeleni ubudlelwane obunempilo, kubalulekile ukulungisa ezo nkalo zibalulekileyo ezifana nokuzimela kunye nokuncamathela okunexhala. Ukuxhamla okuxhalabileyo kunokuba nzima kwaye kube nzima naluphi na ulwalamano, kodwa ngoncedo lomgqirha olungileyo kunye nomdla wamaqela, unokunyangwa ngaphandle kwengxaki. Ngokunxulumene nokuzimela, yinto ephambili kubudlelwane obusebenzayo kwaye buhlale ixesha elide.
Akulunganga ukuchitha iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku kunye neqabane lakho, kuba kubalulekile ukuba ube nexesha lakho. Ayisiyonto ilungileyo ukuhlala nomntu okhathazwa kukuncamathela okunxunguphalisayo kuba ukuzithemba nokuzimela kuncitshisiwe, kubeka esichengeni ubudlelwane ngokwawo.