Ukuhlalisana ngamaxesha okuvalelwa bodwa

Ukuhlala nabantu abafanayo kuhlala kukhupha ukungavisisani okuthileNokuba usekhaya, emsebenzini, eyunivesithi, esikolweni, njl. Oku kuyonyuswa ngexesha elingalunganga lokuvalelwa sisodwa esijongana nalo, apho kufuneka sichithe iiyure ezingama-24 ngemini nabantu abafanayo.

Kuqhelekile ukuba kubekho iingxoxo ezithile, yiyo loo nto Sikuzisa iingcebiso zokunceda ukuvumelana kosapho ukuba kusebenze Ngethuba lentsalela yokuvalelwa kwethu.

Yintoni eyenza ubudlelwane bube nzima kwezi ntsuku kukuba amalungu osapho abelana ukuba indawo enye iyafana, kwaye kananjalo abazi ukuba imeko izakuhlala ixesha elingakanani. Oku kukhokelela kuxinzelelo, uxinzelelo, ukungaqiniseki, indawo efanelekileyo yokuzalela iimood kunye neemvakalelo zethu ngokubanzi ukuze ziphume ziye kubuncinci.

Unokuba nomdla kwi:

Kufuneka siyiqonde into yokuba abantu esiphila nabo kwezi veki bathetha ntoni. Kunye nosapho lwethu simanyene zizibophelelo zeemvakalelo ezibaluleke kakhulu kunye nobudlelwane obunzulu kunye nokuthembana, okusivumela ukuba siyeke kwaye sibe thina xa sikunye nabo. Esi sisibonelelo esihle kubomi bemihla ngemihla, kodwa ngexesha lokuvalelwa yedwa kufuneka siqonde ukuba konke kuyichaphazela njani kwaye sime kwaye sicinge ngaphambi kokwenza.

Kwimeko yangoku, ukungaqondani, amagama aphuma kwithoni, ingxolo xa umntu efuna ukuphumla okanye ukusebenza, izandi ezahlukeneyo kunye nezenzo zelungu ngalinye losapho ziyaqokelelana kwaye zibeka ikhaya ngalinye kuvavanyo kule mihla yokuhlalisana ngokusondeleyo.

Ungenza ntoni ukuze ufezekise ukuhlala kunye ngexesha elifanelekileyo njengangoku?

Chitha ixesha nosapho

Ubomi bethu buphazamisekile okanye benze iinguqu ezinkulu, umsebenzi, izinto esizithandayo, njl. Yonke into kufuneka yenziwe ukuba unako ekhaya. Nangona kunjalo, ilungu ngalinye losapho lineemfuno kunye nezinto abazithandayo. Ngaloo ndlela Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukulungelelanisa, kufuneka kubekho ixesha lokuba kunye kunye nexesha lokuba umntu ngamnye enze imisebenzi abayifunayo okanye ekufuneka beyenzile., njengoko kunjalo ngezifundo okanye ukusebenza ngomnxeba. Kodwa… Ukwenza njani oku ngendlela eyonelisayo?

1. Hlonipha iiyure eziqhelekileyo

Es Kubalulekile ukugcina iiyure apho ubomi obuqhele ukwenzeka kusapho. Ukususela kumzuzu wokuvuka nokuba nesidlo sakusasa, ixesha lokuphola kunye, kude kube kuyokulala. Oku, ukongeza ekufezekiseni ulungelelwaniso lomntu ngamnye, ukuthanda iinkqubo kunye nokuphumla kwelungu ngalinye losapho, kuya kuvumela imeko-bume entle ukuba ibekho xa iyonke.

2. Misela iindlela ezintsha

ukwenza umthambo njengentsapho

Kubalulekile ukuba Chaza ukuba leliphi ixesha eliza kuchitha kunye kunye nelokwenza izinto ngokuzimeleyo, kwaye ulihloniphe. Ngale ndlela onke amalungu osapho aya kuyazi into ebalindeleyo kwaye imeko yokuphumla iyabulelwa ngenxa yomyalelo.

Kubalulekile ukuba ezi nkqubo kunye neeshedyuli zisekwe ngemvumelwano, uthethathethwano phakathi kwawo onke amalungu osapho, ukuze bamkelwe ngcono kwaye baphephe iingxaki ezizayo.

Ngoku abantwana bangaphumela ngaphandle, olona luvo lulungileyo kukuseka ukuba leliphi ixesha losuku abaya kuthi baphume ngalo kwaye ngubani ozakubakhupha yonke imihla, umzekelo.

Unokuba nomdla kwi:

Nje ukuba iinkqubo zenziwe, kubalulekile ukuba wonke umntu azihloniphe, kwaye ahloniphe izithuba zomnye nomnye. Kungenzeka ukuba ngenye imini ilungu linokukhetha ukuhlala lodwa ixesha elide kunezinye iintsuku. Oku kuqhelekile kwaye kulungile, ke kufuneka kuhlonitshwe eso sigqibo, ukuvumela indawo oyifunayo.

3. Hlisa umoya, ncedane kwaye nomeleze amaqhina

yitya njengentsapho

Nguye ixesha lokuxhasana, lokucinga ngezinto ezintle kunye nokunciphisa uloyiko olunokubakho ngokuxhomekeke kubuntu belungu ngalinye losapho. 

Abantwana, umzekelo, bakuva ulwazi oluninzi mihla le olunokubenza boyike. Kubalulekile kula matyala ukubaqinisekisa, ubenze baqonde ukuba injani le meko, bancede bayiqonde indlela abavakalelwa ngayo kwaye bayamkele njengesiqhelo ngaphandle kokubathintela.

Lixesha elifanelekileyo lokwabelana, ukumamela, ukuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni omnye nomnye, ukubeka bucala izixhobo zedijithali. nokwenza imisebenzi yosapho, njengokupheka, ukudlala imidlalo yebhodi, ukudanisa, njl.

Ukwazi indlela yokumamela kwabanye sisixhobo esiluncedo kakhulu kubomi ngokubanzi. Kwaye leliphi ixesha elingcono lokuziqhelanisa kunangoku nabantu esibathandayo. Masikhuthaze unxibelelwano oluhle ukuze sikwazi ukujongana nazo naziphi na iingxaki ezinokuvela!

Yazi indlela yokulawula iimeko ezinokuvela Elinye inqaku eliphambili apho wonke umntu kufuneka enze eyakhe indima ngexesha lokuhlala kunye. Ukuchonga kunye nokungenelela ngexesha kwimeko yongquzulwano eyenzeka kusapho kunokuba yinto ebalulekileyo ukuthintela ungquzulwano ukuba lungaqhubeki. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka umamele kwaye uve.

Ukungaboni ngasonye, ​​ukungonwabi kunye nokugxekwa kuvela mihla le emakhayeni, Kubalulekile ukuchonga okwenzekayo, kutheni kusenzeka kunye nendlela yokusombulula ngokufanelekileyo kuwo onke amaqela achaphazelekayo. Ukulawula ezi ntlobo zeemeko kuya kuba yinto ephambili ekubuyiseleni esiqhelweni.

Ukusombulula ukungavisisani, kubalulekile ukugcina unxibelelwano luzolile kunye nokuzithemba ukuvumela wonke umntu ukuba aveze izimvo zakhe, abelane, abuze.

Mhlawumbi unokuba nomdla kwi:

Ngaphezulu kwayo yonke loo nto, into esinokuzama ukuyikhumbula kukuba indlela esivakalelwa ngayo ichaphazela abo basingqongileyo. Yiyo loo nto kufuneka sonke sizame ukugcina isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, kwaye ukuba siyayifuna, yazi ukuba silucela njani uncedo njengoko oku kuzakudlula.


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