Xa unomhla nomntu kubalulekile ukuba uthathe izinto kancinci ukuze izinto zingonakali ngaphambi kwexesha. Nangona mhlawumbi, ngeemovie ozibonileyo, ucinga ukuba ubudlelwane bobuxoki buhamba ngokukhawuleza. Abalinganiswa bathandana ngokukhawuleza kwaye, Nangona kukho ezinye izithintelo endleleni, ukuthandana ihlala.
Inyaniso kukuba, ukuthatha lula akukhokeleli kuthando oluhlala luhleli. Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo zokuba ungazifunda apha ngezantsi. Nazi ezinye zezizathu zokuba uhambe kancinci ayisiyongcinga ifanelekileyo ukuba ujonge ukufumana umhlobo wakho osenyongweni, iqabane lomphefumlo kunye nothando lwenene.
Anibonani ngokwaneleyo ukuba nibe nokusondelana ngokwenyani ngokweemvakalelo
Uqalile ukuthandana nomfana omtsha kwaye ubukwimihla emibini. Unokuba uhambe ngenye yezo zibini iintsuku ngeveki efanayo, kodwa mhlawumbi umhla wokuqala nowesibini wawuneveki ngaphandle. Xa ucofa umntu othile, ufuna ukumbona rhoqo kangangoko unakho. Awufuni kulinda iveki okanye ngaphezulu ... Akunangqondo kwaphela kuba ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi naloo mntu kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo.
Xa uthatha lula, awuziboni usondele ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungasondela, kwaye seso sizathu esinye sokuba le ayisiyongcamango ilungileyo. Ukuqala kobudlelwane lixesha laxa abantu ababini besazana kwaye bafumanisa konke abanakho malunga nomnye nomnye. Ufuna ukwazi ukuba zeziphi izinto azithandayo kwaye kutheni enomdla kangaka. Omnye umntu ufuna ukwazi okufanayo ngawe. Kungenxa yoko le nto kungafuneki uyeke ukucinga ngomnye nomnye kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba nifuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye.
Ukuba niyabonana ixesha elifutshane kwaye nihamba kancinci, ayizukuvumela ukuba uzive uqhagamshelene. Ibhondi oyikhohlisayo kulwalamano lwakho kwiiveki zokuqala ezimbalwa iqhelekile. Kufuneka yenzeke ukuze ubudlelwane bukhule.
Ucinga ukuba izinto azizukusebenza
Ukuba uyamkela ukuba yonke into kufuneka ihambe kancinci, ingathi ucinga ukuba izinto azizukulunga phakathi kwenu. Xa uthatha lula, inokuba ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, mhlawumbi ulwalamano lwakho lokugqibela luphele kakhulu okanye uyazibuza ukuba ingaba lo mfo mtsha uza kukwenzakalisa okanye angcatshe. Luphi ulonwabo kulonto? Ukuthatha izinto kancinci kwenza kubonakale ngathi ucinga ukuba izinto azizukusebenza, kwaye ayisiyiyo indlela yokuqala into entsha.
Ukuthandana nomntu othile kuya kuhlala kuyingozi. Oku kuyinyani nokuba ujongeka ugqibelele omnye komnye kwaye akukho flegi zibomvu okanye izinto ezothusayo ezenzekayo. Kwaye ngokunyaniseka Kulungile ukubeka umngcipheko kuthando Kufanelekile kwaye nabani na othandana naye angavuma.
Endaweni yokuzibuza ukuba izinto azizukuhamba kakuhle na okanye uyakuqhekeka ngenye imini, kutheni ungacingi ukuba ubudlelwane buya kuphumelela kwaye lo mfo uya kuba luthando lwakho lokwenene? Esi sisakhelo esingcono kakhulu ukuba silandelwe. Ukuba uhamba ngesantya esiqhelekileyo okanye esikhawulezayo, Uya kuya kulwalamano ukusuka kwindawo efanelekileyo. Kwaye ekubeni uthando luyimvakalelo enjalo, kubonakala ngathi yinto efanelekileyo.