Mhlawumbi unobudlelwane obuhle neqabane lakho kwaye uyayithanda loo nto, kodwa uye waqonda ukuba emva kokudibana nosapho, ubudlelwane nonina ayisiyiyo le nto ungathanda. Usenokude uve ukuba umama wakhe ukucaphukela kodwa awazi ukuba kutheni. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka kuwe kwaye ufuna ukuphucula imeko ukuze ingachaphazeli ubudlelwane bakho, unako yenza ezinye izinto ukuze izinto zingabi mbi kakhulu.
Izigqibo ezinokwenzeka
Ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo kuwe okanye kuye, kukho izigqibo. Umama wesoka lakho angakuthanda njengentombi ngaphandle kwexesha. Ezi ngcebiso ziya kukubonisa indlela Jongana nale meko kwaye umama okuzondayo uba ngumama weqabane lakho elikuthandayo.
Thetha ngemeko enzima neqabane lakho
Kufuneka uqaphele ulwahlulo onalo nomama wakho. Sondela koku ngobunono; Ukungahloniphi umama wakho akwamkelekanga. Injongo yeqabane lakho kukudibana nonina, kwaye ukuba uyakhathala, uya kuzimamela zombini ezi zinto zixhalabisayo. (bobabini bobakho nabanyoko) kwaye baya kuphakamisa ukuvumelana.
Thetha oku nomama wakho
Uya kuba yibhodi enesandi sokukhathazeka kwakho. Ngelixa kungachanekanga, izimvo zakhe ziya kuvula amehlo akho kwindlela avakalelwa ngayo yena okanye umntwana wakhe.
Mphathe ngobubele
Logama nje umama wakhe ekucaphukela, awunyanzelekanga ukuba umthiye. Ungayihoyi inzondo kwaye ubeke uncumo ebusweni bakho. Phendula kwizinyeliso nakwizikhalazo ngentlonelo nokubabaza. Oku kwenza ukuba umama abonakale engenambulelo phambi komntwana wakhe ngelixa esenza umntu omkhulu.
Yiba nobubele, kodwa ube nenkani
Ungamvumeli unina ahambe ngaphezu kwakho. Ukuba iqabane lakho alikumeli, zimele ngokwakho. Hamba ngononophelo ngokuzithemba kuba oku kungalicaphukisa iqabane lakho. Hlonipha izimvo zikamama kwaye uveze ezakho. Isenokungakuthandi uqhankqalazo lwakho, kodwa iyazi apho umi khona.
Ukuba konke okunye kusilele ...
Uzame ngako konke okusemandleni wakhe ukuqinisekisa umama wakhe ukuba uyamthanda, kwaye nomama wakhe usandizonda. Okwangoku, isisombululo asikho. Unina unenkani kwaye soze atshintshe. Ungamlinda atshintshe ingqondo, kodwa liphupha elo. Qhubeka unobubele kunina, umphathe kakuhle unyana wakhe, kwaye ube nguwe.
Ubudlelwane bunokuphila ngaphandle kwemvume kamama. Ungaqhubeka ujola naye usazi ukuba umama wakhe akakuthandi? Ezi ngcebiso bezingayi kuba yimfuneko ukuba oomama babo bonke abakhwenyana bayawathanda amaqabane abo. Ngelishwa oku akunjalo. Nokuba kungasiphi na isizathu onokucinga ngaso: Umama wakhe undithiyile ngokuqinisekileyo, uzama ukutshintsha ingqondo.
Nangona kunjalo, sukumnyanzela okanye umcinezele ukuba akuthande. Yamkela umohluko kwaye uhlale ngoxolo (ubuncinci ukusuka esiphelweni sakho). Mbonise ukuba uzimisele ukuhlala kunye nokuba akenzi njalo. Ayizukuba lula ngexesha lomtshato nabantwana okanye xa uzimase iindibano zosapho, kodwa ubuncinci uyazama.