Yamkela ubuhenyu bomlingani; Yenye yezona zinto zinzima kwaye zinzima ezinokuthi zenzeke kubudlelwane. Izinto ziba nzima ngakumbi xa kukho ukungathembeki okuninzi. Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ngaphambi koku, inxalenye ekhohliswayo ineengxaki ezinzulu ezingokweemvakalelo.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela ukuba ingxaki enjalo kufuneka ilawulwe njani kwaye yintoni onokuyenza ukuze uphephe ukubandezeleka okunjalo.
Kutheni ukungathembeki kwenzeka
Umntu olahlekiswayo uhlala ebuza. yintoni ebangela ukuba ukwazi ukuva ubunzima obunjalo bokungathembeki kwiqabane lakho. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba umntu angathembekanga kwiqabane lakhe:
- Inyani elula yokwenza into engalunganga kubudlelwane kwaye luhlobo oluphezulu, Ibangela ukuba abantu abaninzi baphele bengathembekanga kumaqabane abo.
- Ifunwa ngaphandle kwekhaya into engekhoyo phakathi kobudlelwane, njengonxibelelwano oluhle okanye uthando oluthile.
- Akukho thando phakathi kwesibini kunye Oku kubangela ukuba elinye lamaqela lingathembeki kwelinye.
- Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukungathembeki kubangelwa yimpindezelo okanye isohlwayo uveliswa luhlobo oluthile lwengxabano phakathi kobudlelwane.
Kutheni umntu ekhohlisa iqabane lakhe amaxesha amaninzi
Ukungathembeki kube kanye kunzulu njengokukwenza ngokuqhubekayo. Ukungathembeki kukuhlasela okuthe ngqo ekuthembekeni nasekukhuselekeni kobudlelwane ngokwawo. Kwimeko yomntu ongathembekanga rhoqo, izizathu zinokwahluka:
- Esi sibini sigqiba ukuxolela ukungathembeki okunjalo kwaye umntu ongaphandle kobudlelwane akazi ukuba umqhathi uneqabane.
- Iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ukuba uzifumana ngaphandle akanazo neqabane lakhe.
- Ubudlelwane bugugile kangangokuba akukho mdla nokuba iqabane lakho liziva njani.
Yintoni enokuyenza ebusweni bokungathembeki okuqhubekayo kwesi sibini
- Into yokuqala ukuyenza kukuhlalutya ngokuzolileyo imeko kwaye qwalasela ngokweenkcukacha isizathu sokuba kube nokwenzeka ukufikelela kwinqanaba elinjalo. Kuhle ukucinga ngezinto eziyimfuneko ukuze isigqibo esithathwayo sibe sesona sifanelekileyo.
- Iingcinga ezimbi kufuneka zibekwe ecaleni kwaye Musa ukuzibeka ityala nangaliphi na ixesha ngenxa yokungathembeki kwesi sibini ngasentla. Ngamanye amaxesha, ityala lokungathembeki lithe libangela ukuba ukuzithemba kube phantsi kunye nazo zonke izinto ezimbi ezibandakanya.
- Ukuba emva kwayo yonke into eyenzekayo, ucinga ukuba kufuneka uqhubeke kunye nesibini, kubalulekile ukuba uhlale phantsi kunye nabo thetha izinto ngokucacileyo, ukuze kungenzeki kwaloo nto.
- Enye inketho kukuphelisa ubudlelwane. Umntu oqhathiweyo ukhululekile xa kufikwa ekwahlukaneni nesi sibini. Ukuba ucinga ukuba kunye nokungathembeki okunjalo, ukuthembela kuye kwaphulwa ngonaphakade, lilungelo lakho ngokupheleleyo ukuphelisa ubudlelwane ekuthethwa ngabo.