Kukho abantu abacinga ukuba kufuneka benyamezele yonke i-date nokuba iyahamba gwenxa, kodwa ngokwenyani ukuba kudlule imizuzu eli-10 kwaye awuphilanga, ke ... kungcono ushiye. Akukho sizathu sokuhlala ukuba izinto azihambi kakuhle. Ukwenza amadinga kunokuba mnandi kakhulu ... Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana amaxesha amabi okanye ukuthula.
Ngamanye amaxesha nangona kunjalo, usuku lokuqala alunangxaki kodwa luyothusa. Ke, uza kwenza ntoni? Hlala umva usele iwayini yakho ebomvu kunye noncumo ngelixa ucinga ukuba ungathanda ukuba sekhaya esofeni yakho ubukele iNetflix. Ngokuqinisekileyo oko kunokuba kukujolisa, kodwa awunyanzelekanga ukuba uhlale. Funda ukuze ufumane ukuba ungawushiya nini umhla wakho xa kuqala imizuzu eli-10 iphelile..
Ukuthukisa okanye akungxolise
Ungangacingi ukuba umntu uza kukuthuka okanye akungxolise ngomhla wokuqala ... kodwa niyaphazama. Abanye abantu bayoyikeka kwaye baziphethe kakubi nokuba bakuphi okanye bathetha nabani. Abanangxaki ngokwenza into entle yokuqala okanye ukuzama ukuba ubathande.
Ukuba umntu uyakungcikiva, kutheni ungafuni ukuhlala? Awuyi kufuna ukuyibona kwakhona, ke unokubeka ityala le-10 le-euro (yewayini oy-odoleyo kuba ufuna ubuhle kwaye unakekele umfanekiso wakho) ugoduke. Akukho sizathu sakuhlala apho kwaye uthuke.
Xa uziva ungazithembanga
Ukhuseleko luyinto ebaluleke kakhulu xa kufikwa kumba wokuthandana. Ukuba uziva ungakhuselekanga uhleli phambi komntu, kuya kufuneka umamele amathumbu akho kwaye uye ekhaya. Ngamanye amaxesha usuku lwakho luza kuthetha into ekoyikisa ngokupheleleyo kwaye uya kuziva ungonwabanga kakhulu ukuba uhlale kumhla. Ngamanye amaxesha, iya kuba yimvakalelo onayo.
Unokuziva ngathi uyaphambana okanye uyinqaba ngokufumana ukungalunganga okunje kumntu othe wadibana naye ngokunyanisekileyo kwimizuzu elishumi eyadlulayo. Awuphanyi okanye awothusi. Yinto ekufuneka uzixelele yona rhoqo okanye amaxesha amaninzi kangangoko de uyiqhele. Ukhuselekile ngcono kunokuzisola, akunjalo? Phuma ngokukhawuleza ulibale malunga nomhla wakho. Akayonxalenye yobomi bakho kwaye awusoze uphinde umbone…. Ndiyabulela ukulunga!
Xa uthetha kuphela okanye uthetha yena yedwa
Ukuthandana kufanele ukuba kudibane kwaye kube nencoko. Incoko ifuna abantu ababini ukuze baqhubeke. Ukuba nguwe wedwa othethayo, ayisiyiyo incoko yokwenyani, sisimilo sodwa. Ewe, ukuba nguwe wedwa othetha ngomhla wokuqala, kungenxa yokuba umhla wakho uyala ukuthetha (kuba uyadika okanye akafuni nje) okanye uneentloni kakhulu ukuba ungathandana. Ayilotyala lakho kwaye ayisiyonto onokuyilawula.
Ukuba umhla wakho kuphela othethayo, ngokuqinisekileyo bazicingela bona bodwa. Abakhathali nokuba uza kuthini, abafuni ukuva kuwe kwaye abakubuzi nayiphi na imibuzo. Ngaba uyafuna ukuya kumhla wesibini nomfana onje? Ngokuqinisekileyo akunjalo ...