Ihlobo liyafana nezinto ezintle ezinjengeeholide, iiyure zokukhanya ezininzi emini, ukonwaba ngakumbi nosapho okanye abahlobo kunye Ewe umnqweno omkhulu wokunandipha isondo kunye neqabane lakho. Ubushushu kunye namaqondo aphezulu obushushu enza ngaphezulu kwempahla kuyo yonke indawo kwaye umzimba ubonakale kakhulu kunangexesha leenyanga zobusika.
Oku kuyakuba nefuthe elihle ekuzonwabiseni neqabane lakho, ngakumbi kwinqanaba lezesondo. Kwinqaku elilandelayo sicebisa izimvo ezintlanu okanye izikhokelo ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo xa usonwabela isondo neqabane lakho ehlotyeni.
Chitha ixesha elininzi kwisini
Ngamanye amaxesha ukwabelana ngesondo akufuneki kucwangciswe kwaye kuyonwabele xa kuvela. Nangona kunjalo, ngexesha leenyanga zasehlotyeni kunye nokuba nexesha lekhefu, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ube nakho ukukulungiselela kwangaphambili kwaye ufumane elona xesha lifanelekileyo lokuziqhelanisa nalo. Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kangangoko kunye nesibini kunye nokukwazi ukutshintshiselana ngeemvakalelo zazo zonke iintlobo ezinceda ukomeleza ubudlelwane.
Hayi ukuwela kwisiqhelo
Ngoku isibini esinexesha elininzi simahla, lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba sibeke ecaleni isiqhelo kwaye sizame izinto ezintsha ebhedini ezinceda ukuphucula imeko yesini sesibini. Kuhlala kulungile ukwenza into entsha nokuzama into entsha enceda ukuphucula ubudlelwane bezesondo.
Ukubeka iminqweno ethile yesini
Iinyanga zasehlotyeni lelona xesha lilungileyo lokusebenzisa naziphi na iingcinga zesondo ezinokubakho kwesi sibini. Kulungile ukuhlala ecaleni komnye umntu kwaye uphakamise uhlobo oluthile lwefantasy, loo nto yenza umzuzu wesenzo sesondo into eyonwabisayo, emangalisayo kwaye yahlukile.
Ukwabelana ngesondo akupheleli nje ekungeneni
Ungonwabela isondo ngeendlela ezininzi nangeendlela. Ngaphandle kokuba neentlobano zesini, esi sibini sinokonwabela ukubulela ngakumbi kwimasaji elungileyo okanye ngokuthambisa umzimba wonke. Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukuziva omnye umntu mhlawumbi ngokwange okanye ngokuchukumisa ulusu ngobunono. Akukho mfuneko yokuvala ibhendi kunye nokwenza isondo kuphela ngokungena.
Ukuxhokonxa iqabane
Kwiinyanga zasehlotyeni esi sibini sihlala sichitha ixesha elininzi kunye kunethuba lonyaka. Oku kubalulekile xa kuziwa ekubeni nakho ukonwabela isenzo sesondo. Elinye icebo kukuvuselela abantu abatshatileyo emini. Ukusuka kwi-caresses yamalungu ahlukeneyo omzimba ukuya ekuthandeni ngothando okanye ukuthanda. Nantoni na ihamba ukuze umzuzu wesenzo sesondo simangalisa kwaye sikhetheke.
Ekugqibeleni, kuyinyani ukuba isondo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yalo naluphi na ulwalamano kwaye oko kufanele ukwenziwa unyaka wonke. Nangona kunjalo, iinyanga zasehlotyeni zilungile kwaye zilungele ukonyusa idangatye ngakumbi kwaye intlantsi enokuvela ikwenza wonwabe xa usabelana ngesondo neqabane lakho ngakumbi.