Kude kube namhla, kusekho izifundo ezingafunekiyo eluntwini, ezinje ngesondo. Kwimeko yezibini ezitshatileyo, esi sihloko sinokubanjelwa kwaye sikuphephe ngawo onke amaxesha. Oku kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki ezithile kwaye kwenzakalise kakubi esi sibini.
Ukuthembana kubalulekile kulo naluphi na ulwalamano kwaye kubalulekile ukuba uthethe ngawo nawuphi na umxholo ngokukhululekileyo nangendlela evulekileyo.
Ubunzima xa uthetha ngesondo
Ukuba umba wesini awuqwalaselwanga kwisibini, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ekuhambeni kwexesha kuya kuba yingxaki enkulu. Akukho nto yenzekayo ukuba uthethe ngokuphandle ngesondo kunye neqabane kwaye ucacise amathandabuzo kunye nokudideka okuthile okunokwenzeka. Ukwabelana ngesondo yinxalenye ebaluleke kakhulu kubomi bemihla ngemihla besibini. kwaye kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthanda izinto zesondo kwilungu ngalinye lobudlelwane.
Abantu abaninzi bahlala bedida isini kunye nokwabelana ngesondo kwaye ukusuka apho iingxaki zinokuvela. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngumbono obanzi oquka isini ngokwaso. Ukuze ubudlelwane busebenze, umba wesini kunye nokwabelana ngesondo kufuneka ubekhona ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye ungabahlukanisi kubomi bemihla ngemihla. I-taboo kwisini akufuneki inikezwe kwaye icacise onke amathandabuzo anokubakho kwihlabathi liphela lezesondo.
Ungathetha njani ngesondo neqabane lakho
Ukuba unengxaki ezinzima xa uthetha ngesondo kunye neqabane lakho, kulungile ukuba uqaphele uthotho lwezikhokelo ukuba sihlomle apha ngezantsi:
- Ukwabelana ngesondo ngumba ekufuneka ube yinxalenye yobomi bakhe. Kubalulekile kwaye awukwazi ukunceda ukuthetha ngayo.
- Bobabini abantu kufuneka baqonde ngalo lonke ixesha ukuba ngumba obaluleke ngokwenene Oko kufuneka kulungiswe kwaye ungakuvumeli kudlule ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa.
- Unxibelelwano lubalulekile kulo naluphi na ulwalamano. Kulungile ukuhlala kunye neqabane kwaye uthethe ngokuphandle kumxholo wesini, ushiye ecaleni ezo zinto zingafunwayo.
- Kuya kufuneka ubeke ecaleni ihlazo kwaye ubuze yonke into oyifunayo kwesi sibini. Ukucacisa ukungathandabuzeki kuyanceda ukujongana nesondo ngaphandle kwengxaki sele iphucula ubudlelwane kuyo yonke imiba.
- Isibini sakhiwe ngokuthembana kunye nokuhloniphana. Akunakubakho taboo subject engenakuxoxwa. Ukuncokola ngesondo ngokuphandle kuya kuqinisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwaba bantu babini ngakumbi.
Ngamafutshane, Nangona kusenokubonakala kuyinto engenakwenzeka, izibini ezininzi namhlanje ziyala ukuthetha ngesondo. Nokuba kungenxa yeentloni okanye ukuthozama, umba wesini ushiywe ecaleni kwaye awuphendulwa ngokungathi wenziwa ngezinye iintlobo zemicimbi. Oko kunokubonakala kungabalulekanga ekuqaleni ekugqibeleni kunokuba yingxaki enkulu. Eli lelona xesha lilungileyo nelifanelekileyo lokudiliza iitaboos kunye neentsomi zobuxoki kwaye ujongane nomba wesini ngoncedo lweqabane lakho. Ukuthetha ngesondo kwenza ukuba kube lula ukucacisa inani elikhulu lamathandabuzo kunye nokuphucula ubudlelwane kuzo zonke iinkalo.