Hayi, awunyanzelekanga ukuba ugqibelele kodwa ungangcono kwabanye abantu, ngamandla akho kunye nobuthathaka bakho. Ngamaxesha athile, Ukungafezeki kuko okusenza sigqibelele emehlweni abanye, yabo basithandayo ngokungathandabuzekiyo yonke imihla yobomi babo: abantwana kunye neqabane. Ewe, utata wabantwana bakho angaba yiyo yonke le nto. Utata, iqabane, isithandwa, umhlobo ... eli nqaku lelabo!
Ukuba ngutata omkhulu kubantwana bakho kukwathetha ukuba ngumthandi omkhulu, umhlobo osenyongweni, umxhasi weqabane kunye nomonde ebantwaneni. Ngomnye wemiceli mngeni emikhulu ebomini, kodwa inokwenziwa.
Usapho
Xa usenza usapho imigaqo yomdlalo kwisibini siyatshintsha. Usana lwakho alukhathali ngentuthuzelo yakho okanye ukonwaba, ufuna nje ukuba wanelise iimfuno zakhe ezisisiseko, ngoku. Akukho kulinda. Ixesha nezibini ziya kugcinwa phantsi kwesitshixo kunye nesitshixo. Iimfuno zeqabane lakho ngezixhobo ezixhomileyo zeemvakalelo kunye nezoqoqosho nazo ziya kukhula ngokugqibeleleyo, kubalulekile ukuba kunye nosapho oludalayo.
Iintsana ziyazingca ngokwendalo, kodwa njengoko iminyaka ihamba, ixesha lokufikisa lifika, elingakumbi kwaye libi ngakumbi. Ukuba ngumzali olungileyo kwaye ungavumeli inkanuko ukuba idlule kunzima, kodwa kunokwenzeka. Yileyo ndlela.
Gcina ilangatye lomdla nothando luphile
Uyathetha
Thetha neqabane lakho, gcina unxibelelwano oluhle kuba yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kulo naluphi na ulwalamano. Xa kukho abantwana kusapho kunzima ukunxibelelana kwaye. Unexesha elincinci lokuyenza. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka ujonge amaxesha okwazi ukuyenza. Thetha ngezinto ezibalulekileyo kuwe: ukuba ngumzali, imali, amathemba, amaphupha, uloyiko, okulindelweyo, ukuphoxeka, uvuyo ... Thetha ngayo yonke into kunye neqabane lakho. Kubalulekile ukwenza njalo.
Mthande
Kulula ukulibala ukubonisa iqabane lakho uthando lwakho xa abantwana bakho besoloko belithatha ixesha lakho. Kuya kufuneka ube yingcali yentliziyo, umamele kwaye uyiqonde yonke into abakuxelela yona. Fumanisa ukuba kufuneka uthandwe njani, yiya kuyo. Sukuvumela iimfuno zobomi kunye nokuba ngumzali ukuba kuwurhoxise umphefumlo wakho.
Zithande
Ukuze ubathande abanye abantu, kufuneka uzithande kuqala. Qaphela iimfuno zakho kunye nemo yengqondo. Ukuba ngumzali ngumsebenzi onzima. Uyindoda ebaluleke kakhulu, ebomini babantwana bakho nakubomi beqabane lakho. Yenza into ekufuneka uyenzile ukuze uhlale usempilweni engqondweni, emzimbeni nasemphefumlweni. Bayakudinga kwaye bayakudinga ukuba wonwabe kwaye usempilweni.
I-Conecta
Kuthatha ixesha elifanelekileyo ukuba ngumzali olungileyo kunye neqabane elifanelekileyo. Abantwana bakho bayakudinga kwaye kufuneka ubekhona kwaye ubandakanyeke ngokupheleleyo. Iqabane lakho lifuna into efanayo kuwe. Beka phambili usapho lwakho ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto. Akukho nto ibaluleke ngaphezu kokubanika ixesha lakho. Ixesha lomgangatho kunye nabo lolona tyalo mali lukhulu onokuthi ulwenze. Cima iselfowuni, uthungelwano lwasentlalweni, umabonwakude ... nwabele iqabane lakho nabantwana bakho. Zizinto zakho zobutyebi.