Iingxaki zobudlelwane azinakuphepheka kuba abantu abafani. Kodwa ukuba ubukhe uneengxaki zobudlelwane kwixa elidlulileyo, ungabathintela ukuba zingaphinde zenzeke kwixesha elizayo ngokugcina izinto ezimbalwa engqondweni. Landela la manyathelo kwaye yonke into izakulunga.
Qiniseka kwaye unciphise iingxaki
Ngokuqinisekisa iqabane lakho malunga neenkxalabo zabo, uxinzelelo kunye neminye imiba, uya kubanceda baphakamise umthwalo wabo, ekufuneka ubancede babuyele kwindlela abaqhele ukwenza ngayo. Nangona usenokungakwazi ukuyilungisa okanye ukunceda ngayo yonke into ekukhokelele ukuba wenze ngokwahluke ngokupheleleyo, isaza kukwenza uzive ungcono noko. Nje ukuba wenze oku, uya kubona ukuba iqala ukubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo.
Nangona kunjalo, umsebenzi wakho njengesibini esizinikeleyo, esinothando nesithembekileyo awukagqitywa. Uya kudinga ukumnceda, umqinisekise, kwaye uqiniseke ukuba uziva ezolile kuba uzakufuna ixesha lokudideka. Oko kukuthi, ivumela yonke into ukuba ibuyele esiqhelweni ukunqanda iingxaki kwixa elizayo.
Yenza okuqhelekileyo
Nangona oku kunokuvakala kulula, kunokuba nzima kakhulu. Emva kokuba uqikelele ukuba wenzeni xa iqabane lakho liqala ukusebenza ngokwahlukileyo, kwaye emva koko usombulule iingxaki, emva koko kuya kufuneka ubuyele esiqhelweni.
Nobabini kufuneka nithethe, nihleke, nigxeleshane, niphumle, kwaye nenze into eqhelekileyo, eyonwabisayo, eyonwabisayo, kwaye emele nina nobabini njengesibini. Nje ukuba wenze oku, uya kulinceda iqabane lakho nangaphezulu kunokuba sele unalo.. Uya kuthi kwakhona uqinise ubudlelwane kwaye wenze ubudlelwane obukhulu ngakumbi nobungcono kunye nonxibelelwano.
Ngokwenza oku, uya kubonisa iqabane lakho ukuba uyabathanda, ubakhathalele, ubaxhase kwaye uya kuhlala ecaleni kwabo. Emva kwakho konke, ungumlingane wakhe, umhlobo wakhe osenyongweni kwaye ukunye neqabane lakho nokuba kwenzeka ntoni phakathi kwenu nobabini.
Kuthintele ukuba kungenzeki kwixa elizayo
Eli candelo lilula kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kuthatha ezimbini ukuya kwi-tango. Oko kukuthi, nobabini kufuneka nikulungele ukuzama ukusebenza kunye, ukunxibelelana yonke into nokuxhasana. Ayilombono mhle ukucinezela iimvakalelo okanye iingxaki.
Endaweni yokuba nobabini nidibane kwaye nabelane ngeengcinga, iimvakalelo, izikhalazo, iimvakalelo, izinto ezikhoyo (nokuba zirhabaxa) kunye neengxaki omnye komnye. Ngale ndlela, ngekhe kubekho nzondo okanye uxinzelelo oluza kutyisa nobabini, kwaye niyakukwazi nobabini okwenzekayo phakathi kwabo. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba isitshixo soku kukukwenza yonke into kakuhle kwaye ngendlela ekhulileyo kunye nengqiqo.
Nje ukuba uyiqonde yonke le nto, uya kuba nakho ukunceda iqabane lakho, ulixhase ngokupheleleyo kwaye ngokwaneleyo, kwaye ubekhona ukuze ulincede. Ngokwenza oku, uya kuthintela nokuba omnye wenu enze ngokwahluke ngokupheleleyo, ngaloo ndlela kuthintelwe iingxaki kwixa elizayo. Uya kufumanisa ukuba ukuvuleka kakhulu kuya kuvumela ubudlelwane bakho ukuba bukhule kwaye nobabini niya kusondela ngakumbi kwaye nomelele kunakuqala. Siyathemba ukuba oku kuyanceda, kunceda iqabane lakho kwaye komeleze ubudlelwane bakho.