Baninzi abantu abathi xa bewela usizi okanye ukudakumba bazive bengabalulekanga, kwaye bengaxabisekanga kwihlabathi. Ngokwenyani, wenza ixabiso kwaye kuphela kuya kufuneka uzive ukuba kufanelekile.. Oko abanye bacinga ukuba kukwindawo yesibini kwaye akufuneki kubaluleke ngaphezu kokudingeka. Awunakho ukujongela phantsi ixabiso lakho emhlabeni kuba nokuba ucinga awubalulekanga uyinyani kwabo bangayilindelanga.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba awubalulekanga emhlabeni, kuya kufuneka Thatha ithuba lokufumana izizathu ezintsha zokuphila xa uziva ngathi awunakuqhubeka. Unexabiso lokungena ngaphakathi kwaye oku akufuneki kususwe kwimbono yakho. Ngokucacileyo ubomi bakho bubaluleke kakhulu kwaye kufuneka ubuxabise bona.
Ubomi bakho kunye nexabiso lakho
Sukuqiniseka ukuba ubomi bakho bobakho. Awunazo ngokwakho njengoko unento. Ukuba unenkolo, mhlawumbi ubomi bakho busegunyeni eliphezulu. Okanye ukuba awukhonzi inkolo, mhlawumbi isuka kubantu obathandayo okanye kwesona sizathu sikhulu. Unoxanduva lokuziphatha ngokwakho njengendawo enexabiso lobuthixo.
Unexabiso elingakholelekiyo lokuba nguwe. Awudingi ukwenza nantoni na ukuze ube nexabiso. Awudingi ukuba kubudlelwane ukuze ube nexabiso. Awudingi ukuba uphumelele, ufumane imali ethe kratya, okanye ube yinto onokuthi ugwebe ngayo njengomzali olungileyo. Kufuneka uqhubeke uphila. Kufuneka uqale ngokwenza ububele. Kwanele ukuba nenxaxheba ebomini kwaye ube negalelo kwabo bakungqongileyo.
Kusoloko kukho izizathu zokuphila
Ngokuhamba kwexesha, esi simo sengqondo sitsha siza kudala umfutho ebomini bakho. Ngokwendalo uya kuqala ukuqonda izizathu zakho zokuphila. Uyakwazi ukubacacisa kunye nawe kunye nabo bakungqongileyo. Ukuba ukhe wacinga ukuba ubomi bunzima kakhulu ukuba ungaphila, khumbula into enye: yonke into iyadlula. Iimeko zobomi ziguquka, zitshintsha ... zikukuhamba okungagungqiyo okungamisi nto.
Ixesha alimisi, kwaye nobomi abupheli. Oko kubonakala ngathi lixesha elibi kuwe namhlanje, ngomso kunokuba yinto entle yokufunda eyenze ukuba uye phambili ukuba kwindawo engcono. Indawo apho ukubaluleka kwakho kunentsingiselo kwaye apho unokuziva ulungile: ngokwakho.
Ukuzibophelela kuwe
Okwangoku, kufuneka uzibophezele kuwe kwaye wazi ukuba ubomi bakho banexabiso. Kufuneka uthathe isigqibo sokuba eyona miceli mngeni yakho mikhulu ibe lelona thuba lakho libalaseleyo. Kuya kufuneka uqale ukufaka isandla kubomi babanye ngokwenza ngobubele obuncinci. Ngale ndlela, ubomi bakho buya kutshintsha kancinci kancinci, bube ngcono. Ngexesha, uya kujonga ngasemva ngalo mzuzu cnjengelinye lawona maxesha aneenguqu kwaye anamandla ebomini bakho.
Ngesi sizathu, hlala ukhumbula ukuba unexabiso elininzi. Eyakho nabanye. Thatha isigqibo sokuba uza kuba nenxaxheba njani kwindalo esingqongileyo ukuze abanye bazi ukuba ubaluleke kangakanani. Yenza eyakho indima, kuba ubomi kufanelekile ukuba uphile.