Kungenzeka ukuba bobabini abazali bakho kunye neqabane lakho babangela uxinzelelo kubudlelwane bakho. Kuyamangalisa njengoko ubudlelwane bunokuba njalo, banokuba nzima kakhulu. Into yokugqibela eniyifunayo nobabini ngabazali bakho okanye ngabazala bakho ukuze benze izinto zingahambi kakuhle kubudlelwane benu. Nangona kunjalo, ukuqonda akukho lula njengoko kufanelekile. Zininzi iingxaki eziqhelekileyo ezidalwa ngabazali bakho okanye abasebukhweni. Ezi ngxaki zidala ukungavisisani okuninzi, iingxoxo kunye nokungavisisani kubudlelwane.
Ukuba uziva ngathi abazali bakho okanye abasebukhweni ngandlela thile bangena endleleni yobudlelwane bakho, funda ukuze uthintele ukuba ingenzeki.
Xa zixakeke kakhulu
Masithi abazali bakho okanye abasebukhweni banomdla kakhulu. Beza bengaziswanga ngalo lonke ixesha, bezama rhoqo ukungena kwizicwangciso zakho, kwaye bahlasele indawo yakho kunye neqabane lakho. Yikholwe okanye ungakholelwa, nangona ii-sitcom kunye nemithombo yeendaba zibonisa oku njengokungafunekiyo kwizibini, abazali bahlala bekwenza. Oku kuqhelekile.
Wena neqabane lakho nifanele nithethe ngale meko. Kubalulekile ukuba uthethe kwaye uxelele iqabane lakho ukuba ufuna ukunyaniseka kunye nendawo phakathi kwakho. Kuya kufuneka ukuba ugxininise indlela utyelelo olothusayo oluvakala luphazamisa ngayo.
Kuya kufuneka ubacele ukuba batsalele umnxeba ngaphambi kokuba bagoduke kwaye uhambe kancinci xa kukho imfuneko. Ukongeza, kuya kufuneka uyikhumbule imida kunye nemithetho, ngakumbi ukuba uziva ngathi lixesha lonke endlwini yakho. Ngale ndlela, nobabini neqabane lakho ninokonwabela ukuba nobucala ngakumbi kwaye indawo ekhayeni lakho.
Ukuba abazali okanye abasebukhweni abayihloniphi le nto, kuya kufuneka uyigxininise nangakumbi, kwaye ubaxelele ukuba bayeke ukuza okwexeshana. Ewe kunokuba nzima kwaye ngabazali bakho okanye abasebukhweni, kodwa kuya kufuneka ujonge kwaye wenze into elungileyo kubudlelwane bakho.
Izipho ezinentsingiselo ephindwe kabini
Nangona abazali bakho kunye nabazala bakho banokukunika izipho ezintle ezinjengeeholide, imali yendlu okanye izijekulo ezilungileyo, zeza ngexabiso. Ezo holide zinegumbi elingeneyo kubo, kwaye indlu abakuncedayo kuyo iya kutyelelwa ngabo yonke imihla. Nangona ungababhataleli ngemali, uyabahlawulela ngokubayeka babe ngabangeneleli kwaye bahluthe umoya.
Zintle njengoko zinjalo ezi zipho, into ekufuneka uyenzile njengohlobo lwentlawulo inembeko. Oku kuqala ukuba yingozi kakhulu kubudlelwane bakho. Oko kukuthi, wena neqabane lakho kufuneka uyeke ukwamkela ezi zipho kwaye ubaxelele ukuba ungayisingatha le meko wedwa. Koko kukuthi, Awuyi kuziva unyanzelekile ukuba uyinyamezele le ndlela yokuziphatha ibangela uxinzelelo kubudlelwane bakho.
Aningobazali benu
Abazali bakho okanye abasebukhweni banokungavumi kukhetho lwakho. KUNYEOku akuthethi ukuba ukhetho lwakho alulunganga, enyanisweni, bakude nokungalunganga. Ingxaki kukuba olu lonyulo lolona bangakhange baluthathe okanye abangalwamkeli. Le yingxaki enkulu kuba ukuba uneengxaki kukhetho lwakho, uya kuba nakho ukuva naluphi na uluvo malunga nalo. Oku kudala uxinzelelo olukhulu kwimpilo yakho, kunye nolwalamano.
Uninzi lwabantu bathi abazali babo abasamkeli isigqibo sabo ngokuxhomekeke emsebenzini wabo, apho bahlala khona, kwinto abayenzayo namaqabane abo, okanye nakwindlela abaphila ngayo. Nokuba yeyiphi indlela, oku akufuneki kube njalo. Nobabini neqabane lakho kufuneka nihlale phantsi nithethe nabo. Kufuneka ubaxelele indlela abaziva beziva ngayo xa besenza le nto, usebenzise imizekelo yoko bakuthethileyo, ze ubaxelele ukuba mabayeke.
Kuya kufuneka ubaxelele ukuba bubomi bakho, hayi obabo, kwaye ezi zigqibo zezakho kwaye ayizizo ezabo. Kuya kufuneka uphinde ugxininise ukuba uyayithanda inkxaso yabo, kwaye ukuba awunayo kuba yinto abangazukuyenza, emva koko akuyomfuneko ukuba uve nezimvo ezimbi.