Sele uyazi, uqaphele ukuba awulithandi iqabane lakho langoku kuba uthandile nomnye umntu. Ayisosiphelo sehlabathi, kodwa kuya kufuneka uthathe amanyathelo ngokufanelekileyo ukunqanda ukwenza umonakalo okanye ungazisoli kamva. Ukushiya iqabane lakho ngenxa yokuba uye wathandana nomnye umntu akukho lula.l, kodwa ukuba ucacile ngayo, yinto ekufuneka uyenzile.
Cinga ngokuhlala
Xa usebudlelwaneni kodwa unomntu omthandayo, into elandelayo onokuyenza kukucinga ngokuhlala apho ukhoyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, awunakufuna ukuyenza loo nto ... kodwa cinga ngayo. Kutheni le nto uneemvakalelo ngomnye umntu? Ngaba kungenxa yokuba ulwalamano lwakho luye lwadika kwaye lwaneliseka? Nabani na oya kucinga ngokushiya iqabane lakhe emntwini oqaqambileyo ukuba bachitha ubusuku bonke besitya kwaye bebukele iTV. Ayonwabisi loo nto… Cinga ngokuthetha nento onokuyenza ukuze ulwalamano lwakho lusebenze kwakhona.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubekho nalo mntu ngesizathu esithile, akunjalo? Kwakukho into eyabatsala omnye komnye kwaye kufanele ukuba kubekho isizathu sokuba babe kunye namhlanje.
Thetha neqabane lakho langoku
Nangona kunokubonakala kunzima kakhulu ekuqaleni, kungangcono uthethe neqabane lakho nivule. Ukongeza, ubudlelwane buhlala buhleli okanye busweleke ngokuxhomekeka kunxibelelwano lomntu ngamnye analo. Usenokuba uvile ukuba unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo sisitshixo sokuba nolwalamano olufanelekileyo nolusempilweni ... Kwaye kule meko, lelo lizwi elidumileyo ngesizathu esivakalayo.
Xelela iqabane lakho ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Ukunyaniseka, eyona nto unokuyenza kukunyaniseka kwaye ubone indlela asabela ngayo. Kodwa musa ukuxoka okanye ukufihla ulwazi ... Kwaye kunjalo, sukungathembeki kuba oko kunokubangela amanxeba ekunzima ukuwalungisa phakathi kwenu. Ungatsho, ukuba uziva njalo, ukuba ufuna ukwenza izinto ziphume kwaye unokuzibophelela kuye kwakhona. Iya kuba yeyona meko ilungileyo, akunjalo?
Lungisa
Ukuba iimvakalelo zakho zinokubetha, lumka, kuba ukuba awuzenzi kakuhle izinto, ungaphela ungabinalo iqabane. Uthando loonxantathu lunokuba yingozi. Nangona uphela ungenalo iqabane, sukufumana uxinzelelo ... kungangcono kuwe nakwabanye ... Amathuba kukuba, awuzange wenzelwe ukuba ube kunye nabo bantu.
Yonwaba ukuba uyazi inyaniso kwaye ukuba eli xesha lididayo ebomini bakho liphelile. Gxila kukuphila ubomi bakho, ube nguwe, kwaye uzilungiselele ixesha elizayo xa uthando luza. Kwaye ngeli xesha, iya kuba yeyokwenyani. Eyona nto unokuyenza kukuthatha amanyathelo ngokukhawuleza ukuthintela ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Logama nje unokukwazi ukuphatha le nto njengomntu oqolileyo onguye, kuya kufuneka ulunge ngokupheleleyo.
Gcina umbono wenyani ejikeleze wena kwaye wenze ngokufanelekileyo. Ngale ndlela kuphela apho unokwenza izinto kakuhle ngaphandle kokuzisola kamva.