Nangona ubucinga ukuba ubomi bakho bobakhe, ubusoloko ungowakho. Ucinga ukuba iqabane lakho lingumdlalo ogqibeleleyo impendulo kuyo yonke imithandazo yakho, ukuqiniseka kuwo onke amathandabuzo akho. Wawagcina ezandleni zakho amathemba akho, ukholose ukuba abayi kuwavumela amaphupha akho aphele njengentlabathi. Kodwa ngobusuku obunye obunemvula, bemka kuwe, bakhusela amaphupha akho phantsi kwengubo yakho, bakushiya ungenanto ngaphandle kwentliziyo eyaphukileyo.
Uziva iintlungu entliziyweni yakho rhoqo ebusuku nangaphezulu, xa imvula ichukumisa ifestile yakho. Mhlawumbi ucinga ukuba ubomi bakho abunanjongo ngaphandle kweqabane lakho, kodwa makhe sikuxelele, ukuba uxabiseke kakhulu kunoko kwaye kunokubakho ukuba ungangcono ngaphandle kwe-ex yakho.
Ngaphandle kwe-ex yakho, uya kukhula
Mhlawumbi ngoku kunzima kuwe ukuyibona, kodwa ngaphandle kwe-ex yakho uya kufunda ukungabinaye, uzikhulule ebantwini, ukhumbule ukuba nangona ubuhlala ungumlingane wakho, ubusoloko ungowakho. Awudingi mntu ukuba wonwabe, awudingi ukuba abanye bakonwabise. Uyakuqonda ukuba ukuphulukana naye akukubi amandla akho okuthanda, okanye amandla akho okuphumelela, okanye umnqweno wakho wozinzo.
Uya kufumanisa ukuba unomphefumlo okhululekileyo, owonwabileyo kwaye intliziyo yakho ayinawo ingqumbo okanye ububi, kuba oko kuyakungcolisa umnqweno wakho wokunandipha ubomi. Sinobomi obunye kuphela ukonwaba kweli hlabathi kwaye ayifanelekanga ukuba uyichithe kubantu abangakufanelekelanga.
Ngaphandle kwesidala sakho, uya kuphilisa
Uya kulithoba uxinzelelo lwakho, uloyiko oluhlala luhleli lokuba awusoze ulungele nabani na. Uya kufumanisa ukuba bayakufuna, bayakutshutshisa ngayo yonke into oyishiya ngamehlo: intliziyo yakho iphela, nengqondo yakho eqaqambileyo. Uya kuwuqaqambisa umzimba wakho nentliziyo ediniweyo, Ukuqokelela ithemba kunye namandla abawathabathe kuwe
Uyakuqonda ukuba eyakho yeyakho yeyakho hayi eyomnye umntu. Okokuba ngelinye ixesha, xa ufuna ukuyenza, ungabelana ngeemvakalelo zakho kodwa ziya kuhlala zezakho. Akukho mntu ungumphathi wentliziyo yakho ngaphandle kwakho.
Ngaphandle kwesidala sakho, uya kuqhubeka
Awusayi kuphinda uvumele iintlungu entliziyweni yakho zikufumane xa zinqamleza ingqondo yakho. Uya kufunda ukubalibala abantu abangakufanelanga, ngokuzama ukuzama ukucima nabaphi na abanye abantu abangafanelekanga ukuba ubakhathalele okanye ixesha lakho ebomini bakho. Ekugqibeleni uya kuzifumanisa ufuna ukwamkela ikamva leentliziyo ezivulekileyo eligcwele ulonwabo, uthando kunye nethuba. Uya kuthandana nokukhetha umntu omtsha… umntu okuhlonela ngokwenene njengomntu kwaye akwamkele ngale ndlela uyiyo. Awuyi kunxiba iimaski, unokuba nguwe, ngequbuliso yonke into iya kuhamba njengesilika ...
Abanye abantu baya kuyigcina intwana yentliziyo yakho ngonaphakade njengoko ukhumbula ubusuku obunemvula xa bemkayo ngamathemba kunye namaphupha akho abekwe kakuhle phantsi kwengubo yakho. Kodwa ntsasa nganye, njengoko ukukhanya kwelanga kufudumeza amagxa akho, uya kukhumbula ukuba mhlawumbi, uya kuba ngcono ngaphandle komlingane wakho ... Kwaye eli ibilithuba lokuhlala kakuhle ngoku.