Kulula ukuba abantwana bachithe ixesha xa benembopheleleko. Basenokukhetha ukwenza ezinye izinto ezifana nokubukela umabonwakude okanye ukudlala ngezinto zabo zokudlala. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba abantwana bakho bafunde into yokulibazisa okanye Ukuba nomkhwa wokulibazisa ixesha akuyi kukuzisela nantoni na elungileyo.
Nangona kuyinyani ukuba ukuzibekela amangomso izinto, nokucinga ngendlela yokwenza izinto kamva akuyonto imbi, kwaye enyanisweni kuyacetyiswa ukuba uyayazi indlela yokuyisebenzisa kakuhle, kukwayinyani ukuba ukusebenzisa kakubi ukubekel' amangomso kunokwenza abantwana baba ngabantu abangamavila. Kodwa unokubanceda njani abantwana bakho bayeke ukuzibekela amangomso izinto?
Yiba nolawulo
Xa abantwana bakho bebancinci uyakwazi ukulawula ikamva labo kunye nexesha labo, ke ngoko, Kuya kufuneka uyilawule ukuze ube ngumzekelo omhle. Mncede afikelele usukelo lwakhe, afunde ukuzilungelelanisa, azi ukuba yintoni na into yokuqala afanele ayenze noko afanele ayishiye kamva... Emva kokuba efunde oku, unokuyeka ukulawula uze uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba aqhubele phambili. ngokuzimeleyo, kodwa esazi ukuba ukuba ufuna wena, uya kuba ecaleni kwakhe ukumnceda.
Yahlulahlula kwaye woyise
Ukwahlulahlula imisebenzi emikhulu, ebonakala inoxinzelelo ibe ngamaqhekeza amancinci, alawulekayo yindlela entle yokwenza inkqubela kumsebenzi obuwuphepha. Into eyenzayo kukubeka kwindlela eya kwinkqubela phambili, kwaye ikwenza uqaphele ukuba ungayenza.
Yibeke kwikhalenda
Ukuba umntwana wakho uzifumana eqhubeka ebeka iprojekthi, kuya kufuneka ubafundise ukuba bakwazi ukubekela bucala ixesha lokwenza ukuba kwenzeke. Ukuba ngokwenene ucwangcisa kwikhalenda yakho uya kwazi ukuba kufuneka uyenzile kwaye uya kukwazi ukucwangcisa ixesha lakho.
Ukuze isebenze kufuneka ube nobuchule xa udweliswa. Ukuba umntwana wakho unemveliso ngakumbi kusasa ke imisebenzi efuna ingqalelo kufuneka yenziwe ngeli xesha.
Iqabane elinoxanduva
Isenokuba ngumhlobo, wena njengomzali okanye utitshala wabucala. Ingongoma kukufumana umntu onokuthembela kuye xa uziva ubambekile. Loo mntu unokukunceda ngeendlela ezimbini: Basenokukulandela ukuze baqinisekise ukuba uyenzile loo nto bebethe uza kuyenza, yaye banokunikela ingqalelo ukuze nithethe ngayo. Ukunciphisa kunye nokukhupha izinto esifubeni sakho kunokuhamba indlela ende yokwenza uzive ungcono. kwaye ujonge kwakhona kumsebenzi okhoyo.
Yenza inkqubo yokuvuza
Ukuba umntwana wakho unenkqubo yokuvuza, unokuziva ekhuthazekile ngakumbi ekufezekiseni iinjongo anazo engqondweni kwaye ayeke ukuzibekela amangomso. Umvuzo uxhomekeke kwinto ebalulekileyo njengesipho somntwana wakho. Mhlawumbi ufuna ukuthatha ikhefu ukujonga Instagram okanye uhambe uhambo. Okanye inokuba yi-manicure okanye amatikiti emuvi. Kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba yinto ekhethekileyo kwaye engaqhelekanga…. Oku kungundoqo ekusebenziseni inkqubo yomvuzo kunye nokwaphula umjikelo wokuzibekela amangomso.