Inkwenkwana egona ethuthuzela intombazana ekhathazekileyo ehleli esofeni, umnakwethu owole udade odakumbileyo ecela uxolo okanye ethuthuzelayo, ubuhlobo babantwana bakowenu, abantwana abasaqalayo ukuya esikolweni ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nombono wenkxaso (Inkwenkwe encinci iyanga ithuthuzela intombazana ekhathazekileyo ehleli esofeni
Kukho amabinzana esinokuthi kubantwana bethu, ngaphandle kokuqaphela, bandise ukungakhuseleki kwabo. Nangona ukuba abantwana abakhuselekanga okanye akunjalo kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi zangaphakathi nangaphandle, ngamanye amaxesha abazali Banokukwandisa oko kungazithembi ngokuthi bathethe amabinzana angcono ukuba ungawathethisi.
Apha ngezantsi siza kukuxelela amanye amabinzana omele uwaphephe ukuze abantwana bakho bangakhuli bengakhuselekanga. Qaphela!
1. Ndiyancama
Mhlawumbi esona sixhobo sibalulekileyo sokufundisa ukomelela kukumodela. Ngaba umntwana wakho ubona ngathi unikezela msinya okanye ucaphuka xa uzama into entsha, okanye umbona ezolile xa ejamelene neengxaki? Kubalulekile ukuvumela umntwana wakho akubone usokola kwaye akubone ukuba ulungile. Zama ukufunda isakhono esitsha kunye ngoko banokubona ukuba le nkqubo iphazamisayo maxa wambi ayipheleli nje ebantwaneni, ukuba wonk’ ubani ujamelana nobunzima xa efunda into entsha.
2. Zola
Sifuna ukufundisa abantwana bethu indlela yokuzola xa becaphukile, kodwa ukuthi “zola” akuyondlela yokwenza oko. Zama ukuthi, “masiphefumlele phezulu kunye” endaweni yoko. Okanye ujonge umntwana wakho emehlweni kwaye phefumlela phezulu kwaye uzolile.
Kancinci kancinci singakwazi ukuxhobisa abantwana bethu ngeendlela ezithile zokulawula iimvakalelo zabo. Oku kusenokuthetha ukuqhelisela ukuphefumla nzulu kunye, okanye ukucela ukuwola okanye ukuwola isilwanyana esithandwayo. Kunokuthetha ukuphuma ngaphandle ukuze uthathe ikhefu kwimeko ethile kwaye ube namava okuthomalalisa imiphumo yendalo.
Nceda umntwana wakho aphuhlise ezi zixhobo xa engacaphukanga kakhulu ukuba angakumamela. Ekugqibeleni baya kufunda ukuguqukela kuwe xa beziva ukuba izinto zisengxakini.
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3. Yiyekele kum!
Ukwenza ubomi bube lula kakhulu kubantwana bethu kubahlutha ithuba lokujongana nemingeni emincinci kunye nezinto ezicaphukisayo ezinceda ukwakha ukomelela ngokwemvelo. Unokunceda umntwana wakho ngokuthe ngcembe athabathe uxanduva kule misebenzi.
- Kumntwana oneminyaka emi-3 ubudala, unokubakhumbuza ukuba bathathe umenzi wesandwich kunye nobhaka baye emotweni kusasa, endaweni yokubaphathela izinto zabo.
- Kumntwana oneminyaka emi-6 ubudala, kunokukhangeleka njengokwenza uluhlu lokutshekisha lwazo zonke izinto ekufuneka bazikhumbule kusasa, kodwa ubabeke uxanduva lokujonga uluhlu lokutshekisha.
- Umntwana oneminyaka engama-9 unokuthatha yonke imbopheleleko yokukhumbula izinto zakhe, kodwa oku, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuxhomekeke kumntwana.
Ukwandisa umlinganiselo wabo wembopheleleko ngokuthe ngcembe kuya kubanceda baphumelele. Siyabathanda abantwana bethu, ngokuqinisekileyo sifuna ukuba bazive bekhululekile kwaye bonwabile kwaye babe nosuku oluhle yonke imihla, kodwa ekugqibeleni, kubaluleke ngakumbi. baxhobise ngezixhobo abazidingayo ngeentsuku ezingezizo.
4. Oko kunzima kakhulu kuwe
Abantwana bazama ukwenza izinto abangazilungiselelanga ngalo lonke ixesha. Basenokujonga iphazili ye-1.000, banokufuna ukukunceda "ngomsebenzi wabantu abadala." njengokwakha ishelufu entsha okanye ukulungisa into ethile emotweni.
Kulula ukuxelela abantwana ukuba kukho into enzima kakhulu kubo, okanye ukuba abakakulungeli ukwenza into ethile, kodwa endaweni yoko, zama ukubanika umsebenzi ofanele iminyaka yobudala.
Unokuthi, "Kuthatha ixesha elininzi lokuziqhelanisa ukulungiselela iphazili enamaqhekeza ali-1.000, kutheni singazami umdlalo omtsha onamaqhekeza ali-100 niwenze kunye?" Okanye: “Andinakukuvumela ukuba usebenzise izixhobo zam zombane, kodwa mandikubonise indlela yokusebenzisa ihamile kwaye unokuqhelisela kwesi siqwenga somthi.” Ukuthetha la mabinzana kukhokelela abantwana kwinto abanokuphumelela kuyo, ngaphandle kokuthumela umyalezo esicinga ukuba abanakukwazi.