Kukho abantu abakhetha ukuchitha ihlobo lodwa kunye nezilwanyana zabo zasekhaya kwaye akuqhelekanga. Kukho iimeko apho abantu abangabangenisi bakuvuyela ukuba bodwa kwaye ukuba kunye nezilwanyana zakho ixesha elide.
Izilwanyana zasekhaya ngabahlobo abalungileyo kwizethulo nakwabo bazama ukufikelela kumaxesha anzima, ukugula, okanye uxinzelelo. Ukuba uza kuchitha eli hlobo nesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya, nokuba uyinja, ikati, isikhwenene okanye nasiphi na isilwanyana, jonga iindlela ezivavanyiweyo zokwenza.
Yibani nemikhwa esempilweni kunye
Xa imozulu entle ifikile lixesha elifanelekileyo lotshintsho. Phinda uyicingisise indlela ophila ngayo kunye neyesilwanyana sakho kwaye ucinge ngeendlela zokwenza kube sempilweni kwaye kuluhlaza. Ungabaleka kunye kusasa ukuba unenja, okanye ukuba unayo ikati ungachitha ixesha ntsasa nganye udlala ecaleni kwakhe.
Cinga kwakhona ngokulala kwakho. Kunzima ukwamkela imikhwa esempilweni uwedwa, kodwa ungayenza ngokulula nesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya, nangona ukuhamba kusasa kusenokungabi ziindaba ezimnandi kuye.
Faka ixesha lolwandle kwishedyuli yakho yeveki
Ihlobo aligqibekanga ngaphandle kwexesha lolwandle. Ukuba awuziva ufuna ukuhamba wedwa, thatha isilwanyana sakho siye elwandle. Ngokuqinisekileyo konke kuxhomekeke kuhlobo lwesilwanyana onaso, kodwa izilwanyana ezininzi ziyawathanda amanzi. Cinga ngokuhamba ekuseni okanye ebusuku ukunqanda ukubetha kobushushu kunye nezihlwele. Ukuchitha usuku elwandle kuvakala kumnandi, kodwa kunokuba kubi kwisilwanyana sakho sasekhaya.
Yiya kumisa inkampu nesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya
Zininzi iindawo zokukhempisha ezivumela izilwanyana zasekhaya ngexesha lasehlotyeni, kwaye yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuchitha ixesha elininzi nesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya kunye nokusondela kwindalo. Qiniseka ukuba ucwangcisa inkampu yakho ngononophelo ukuze uhambo lukhuseleke kwaye lube mnandi kuni nobabini. Ukuba awunalo ithuba lokuya kukhempisha kwenye indawo, sukuhamba ngaphaya kwendlu yakho yangasemva. Ukukhempisha ngasemva kuyonwabisa nako.
Yiba nepikniki enomxholo veki nganye
Ngubani othe iipiknikhi zezabahlobo kunye neentsapho ezinabantwana? Unokuba neepiknikiki kunye nesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya. Thatha ipikniki yakho yesiqhelo uye kwinqanaba elilandelayo kwaye ucinge ukuba nepiknik enesihloko. Kukho iitoni zemixholo yepikniki enobubele, kodwa ungonqeni ukuza neyakho. Pakisha into yakho kunye nesilwanyana sakho sasekhaya nisitye kunye. Yonwabela imidlalo ethile nayo. Nokuba isilwanyana sakho asiqondi izihloko, iya kuba ngumzuzu okhethekileyo kuni nobabini.
Zama ukubhexa iphedi
Oku kuphela xa unenja (okanye ezininzi) njengesilwanyana sasekhaya. Ukuba inja yakho inokuhlala imizuzwana engaphezulu kwe-10, zama ukubheqa nayo. Ezinye iintlobo zeenja zingcono xa kukhwela iphedi ngaphezu kwezinye, ke ukuba inja yakho isengxakini, ungakhathazeki. Yithathe lula kwaye ukhumbule ukuba ukhuseleko luza kuqala.
Ukuba uziva ulilolo ngeli hlobo kwaye ungaziva ngathi ukuchitha ixesha elininzi nabantu abakungqongileyo, thatha isilwanyana sasekhaya okanye, ukuba sele unayo, chitha ixesha elininzi kunye naye. Ukuba unezilwanyana zasekhaya, kungcono ngakumbi. Cwangcisa imisebenzi yakho, gcina ikhamera yakho ikwimeko entle kwaye uyonwabele ihlobo ngokupheleleyo.