Ngokuqinisekileyo isimilo somntwana siqala ukukhula ukusuka kwiminyaka emithathu. Le minyaka yokuqala yentlalontle inokuba sisiseko sophuhliso lokuziphatha ebuntwaneni kamva. Abaxhasi bale ithiyori bacebisa ukuba abantwana abazijonga "ngokulungileyo nangokuziphatha" bathambekele ekubeni nenqanaba lokukhula kwindlela yokuziphatha yokuziphatha kunye neempawu ezimbalwa zokuziphatha gwenxa.
Ukufakwa ngaphakathi kunye novelwano
Ekukhuleni komntwana, kuyaziwa ukuba zimbini iindlela eziphambili zokwazisa kwangoko: ukwenziwa kwemithetho yokuziphatha kunye nokuthanda abanye, njengezinto ezinokuthi ziqikelele ikamva lentlalontle, uguquko kunye nokuziphatha okufanelekileyo.
Ukufundwa kwabantwana kwimithetho yomzali ngamnye kunye novelwano ngokubhekisele kuxinzelelo lomzali ngamnye kwaqwalaselwa ukusuka kwiinyanga ezingama-25. Le ndlela yokuziphatha eguqukayo, enobuchule, yokuziphatha kunye nokungaziphathi kakuhle kukalwe kwiminyaka emine ubudala.
Ukongeza, abantwana abanembali eyomeleleyo yokufaka ngaphakathi imithetho yabazali abaneminyaka eyi-25 ukuya kwi-52 yeenyanga Bazibona benesimilo ngakumbi kwiinyanga ezingama-67. Okwesithathu, abantwana ababonakalise eyona nto inamandla yokufaka ngaphakathi phakathi kwe-25 kunye ne-52 yeenyanga beza bazibona ngathi banesimilo ngakumbi kwaye "balungile." Ezi mbono, nazo, zaxela kwangaphambili ukuba abazali nootitshala baya kuwukala njani umgangatho wabo wokusebenza kunye nokulungelelanisa ukusebenza kwiinyanga ezingama-80.
Imithetho yosapho
Imithetho yosapho isebenza kakuhle xa wonke umntu eyazi imigaqo kwaye eqonda ukuba kutheni imigaqo ibalulekile. Ngokwenza oku, abantwana abanakufane bafumane imiyalezo edibeneyo malunga nokuba yintoni elungileyo kwaye yintoni Yintoni engalunganga kwaye ngenxa yoko baya kuba nakho ukulandela imigaqo.
Imithetho yosapho inceda abantwana baqonde ukuba yeyiphi indlela yokuziphatha efanelekileyo kwaye yeyiphi engalunganga. Njengokuba abantwana bekhula, baya kuba kwiindawo apho imigaqo isenokungabonakali ngokucacileyo kwaye kusenokubakho nemithetho abangayifundanga.
Ke ukulandela imigaqo ekhaya kunganceda abantwana bafunde ukulandela imigaqo kwezinye iindawo. Kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana baphule imithetho kwaye uvavanye imida yakho. Ke ukubeka iliso rhoqo kubalulekile.
Ukuchaza iziphumo xa kwaphulwe imithetho kuya kunceda umntwana wakho aqonde ngokucacileyo ukubaluleka kwemithetho ethile. Khumbula, abantwana abancinci ngamanye amaxesha bayaphula imithetho kuba bayalibala. Kwaye ayisiyiyo yonke imithetho eyaphukileyo eyenzekayo kuba abantwana bavavanya umda wabo. Ke ngoko, ukwazi ukuba kutheni le mithetho ingakhathalelwanga kufuneka kuxoxwe ngayo. Zama ukungohlwayi umntwana ngokungakhethiyo okanye ngokungacwangciswanga okungabonakalisi ukugweba okuhle okanye inkathalo kwindlela abaziphethe ngayo.
Ngale ndlela, kubalulekile ukusebenza kuyo yonke into ekhankanywe kweli nqaku kokubini ekhaya nasesikolweni ukuze abantwana bayamkele imithetho kwaye baqonde okulindeleke kubo. Baya kukwazi ukuba yintoni eyamkelekileyo kwinto engeyiyo kwaye Uvelwano luya kuba yinto ephambili kuzo zonke iimeko.