Kuqhelekile ukuba abazali bangxolisa abantwana babo ngenxa yehambo engafanelekanga okanye ukuziphatha kakubi. Ukukhwaza kusenokuwonakalisa ngokunzulu ukuzithemba komntwana. kungoko zimele ziphetshwe.
Nokuba akunamsebenzi, hlala ungxolisa umntwana Inokubangela uthotho lomonakalo weemvakalelo kunye nowengqondo wexesha elide.
Ukukhwaza njengokuxhatshazwa ngokwasengqondweni
Nangona kunzima ukukholelwa ekuqaleni, Ukukhwaza luhlobo lokuxhatshazwa ngokwasengqondweni kumntwana. Abazali kufuneka bahlale bezolile ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye bakuphephe ukukhwaza ngenxa yokuziphatha okungalunganga okuvela emntwaneni.
Asifanele sigabadele ngolo hlobo, ekubeni umntwana ubandezeleka ngaphezu kokuba esenokubonakala xa efika nje xa efika kuqala, ngokukhala kwabazali. Akuncedi ukumkhwaza kwaye emva kwemizuzu embalwa ucela uxolo, ekubeni umonakalo wenzekile.
Ingxaki yokukhwaza kukuba namhlanje ithathwa kakuhle ngokwembono yentlalo. Akukho mntu umangaliswayo xa ebona utata ekhwaza unyana wakhe. Nangona kunjalo, kuye kwangqinwa ukuba ukukhwaza kunempembelelo embi kubantwana. Iingxaki zininzi, nokuba kukwinqanaba lesikolo okanye kwindlela yokuziphatha komntwana ngokwakhe.
Iziphumo zokungxolisa abantwana bakho
Kuqhelekile ukuba xa umzali ekhwaza ngokuqhubekayo, ukuzithemba nokuzithemba komntwana kuyancipha. Oku kuya kukhokelela kwiingxaki ezinzulu zokuziphatha. Ukukhwaza kuya kushiya iziphumo ezinzulu zeemvakalelo, ngakumbi ukuba yinto eyenzeka rhoqo.
Akulunganga kwaphela ukukhula kwikhaya apho ukukhala emini kuxhaphakile. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, omncinci uya kukholelwa ukuba ukukhwaza kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye unokuyisebenzisa ebomini babo bemihla ngemihla.
Fundisa ngaphandle kokukhwaza
Imfundo kufuneka isekwe kunxibelelwano kunye nengxoxo ukongeza ekubetheleleni uthotho lwemilinganiselo emntwaneni. Kufuneka kuphetshwe ngamaxesha onke, ukusebenzisa ukukhwaza njengendlela yokulungisa indlela yokuziphatha yabantwana. Abazali akufanele baphulukane nokulawula nangaliphi na ixesha kwaye bahlale bezolile. Yinto ebonakala inzima kakhulu, ngakumbi ukuba umntwana akaziphathanga kakuhle okanye akayihoyi imithetho.
Kuya kufuneka uyazi indlela yokuyeka umsindo kwaye ukhethe ezinye, iindlela ezifanelekileyo zemfundo. Njengoko sele sikhankanyile ngasentla, ukukhwaza okuqhelekileyo konakalisa ukuzithemba kwabancinci, into eya kuba nefuthe elibi ekuphuhliseni ubuntu babo. Ngelishwa, iipatheni ziyaphinda kwaye ukuba umntwana ukhuliswe kwaye ukhulele endlwini apho ukukhala kuyinto eqhelekileyo, ngokuqinisekileyo ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba njengomntu omdala uya kufundisa abantwana bakhe ngokukhwaza.
Ngamafutshane, Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ufundise ngokukhwaza. Bagqalwa njengokuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo kwabantwana. Ngexesha elide, ezi zikhalo zichaphazela kakubi zombini ukuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha kwabancinci endlwini.