Mhlawumbi ufuna iqabane lakho likuphose ukuba uqonde ukuba bayakuthanda nyani kodwa awazi ukuba ungayenza njani ngaphandle kokujonga ujonge. Sukuba nexhala kuba akukho mfuneko yakwenza into embi okanye engaqhelekanga ukukuqonda oko Vumela iqabane lakho liqonde ukuba uyakukhumbula ebomini bakhe xa engenakho ecaleni kwakhe ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ukungabikho kwenza uthando lukhule, kunjalo. Kodwa, ngamanye amaxesha kuye kufuneke senze izinto ukuze iintliziyo zamaqabane ethu zikhule ngakumbi kwaye sifuna ukuba sibuyele ... ukulahleka ayisiyonto imbi phofu. Kufuneka wenze kuphela into encinci ukuyenza ihlawule ekugqibeleni. Landela ezi ngcebiso kwaye ubone okwenzekayo ...
Faka iziqholo
Ukuba kukho into ekhumbuza omnye umntu komnye, sisiqholo ... ivumba laso elihlala ixesha elide. Nokuba kukwimpahla yakho okanye kumqamelo, iqabane lakho liza kunukisa ivumba kwaye licinge ngawe, yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba ube nevumba elithile. Xa ukhetha i-perfume, qiniseka ukuba isebenza kunye ne-chemistry yomzimba wakho. Ivumba elichuliweyo nelikhohlisayo yile nto uyithandayo. Eminye imizekelo iya kuba yi 'Black Opium' nguYves St. Laurent, 'Heure Exquise' nguAnnick Goutal okanye 'J'adore' nguChristian Dior.
Ivumba lakho liya kuba yiyo yonke into oyishiyekileyo xa ugoduka okanye usebenza. Iya kugcwalisa iimpumlo zakho kwaye ikhukhulise i-subconscious yakho ngamnandi, iinkumbulo zenyama xa wawukhona ngobuqu.
Shiya amanqaku amancinci apho ndingazifumana khona
Nabani na othanda ukwazi ukuba yintoni esezingqondweni zethu. Oko kuthethiweyo, ukushiya inqaku elincinci kuyakwenza kanye loo nto. Inqaku elifutshane, elimnandi, elilula liya kuba yiyo yonke into emenza ukuba acinge ngawe. Ayifuni ukuba ibe yileta ende okanye i-sonnet. Kufuneka azi ukuba ucinga ngaye.
Xa usekhaya, bhala inqaku elincinci elithetha into enje ngokuthi "Ndiyaluthanda uncumo lwakho" okanye "Ubenosuku olumnandi" kwaye iya kuhlala engqondweni yakho yonke le mini. Qiniseka ukuba uyibeka kwindawo oza kuyibona khona kwangoko, njengebhedi yakhe, ifriji yakhe, okanye emotweni yakhe.
Gcina ubomi bakho bezentlalo busebenza
Naxa uthandana, isidingo sobusuku bamantombazana sisekhona. Ngelixa ungeke ube neentloni kubahlobo bakho ukuze ujolise ingqalelo yakho kumfana othandana naye, wena naye ufuna ixesha elingafaniyo. Amadoda ayayithanda xa efumana isithuba. Icacile kwaye ilula. Abafuni kubotshelelwa kuwe nge-24/7. Kwakhona, ukungabikho kubangela ukuba intliziyo ibe nothando ngakumbi.
Dibana nabahlobo bakho rhoqo kwaye wenze izicwangciso ngaphandle kwakhe. Yonwaba kwaye wonwabe. Uya kukukhumbula xa ungekho, kodwa uya kulolonga ixesha lakhe. Kwaye nawe ufanelwe lixesha lakho. Ubudlelwane akufuneki bube sisigwebo sobomi ekufanele ukuba njalo. Amadoda ayaqonda xa singachithi ixesha elininzi kunye nabo njengoko benqwenela, kwaye bayakukhumbula.
Sukubuyisa iminxeba yabo ngokukhawuleza okukhulu
Unxibelelwano likrele elintlangothi-mbini ngengqondo. Ngelixa abantu befuna ukuba sisazulu sendalo iphela yethu, akufuneki sihlale sibakhonza ngaloo ndlela. Ibenza ukuba nabo baxhomekeke kwiindlela zethu zokuziphatha. Kuya kufuneka bazi ukuba zibalulekile, kodwa sinazo nezinye iindawo ezibalulekileyo ebomini bethu.
Ke xa ekubiza okanye ekubhalela i-sms, musa ukuphendula kwangoko. Iimpendulo ezikhawulezileyo zimbonisa ukuba ulangazelela ingqalelo yakhe. Nangona kunjalo, xa uthatha ixesha lakho, uya kuziva elilolo kwaye aqale ukukukhumbula.
Ukuba ufuna ukuba ndikukhumbule, yithathe lula kwaye ulinde ngaphambi kokuba uphendule. Uya kuhlala ekhona, ekutya. Ufuna umntu wakho abe yinjanana ekukhumbulayo xa ushiya. Awufuni ukuba angakhathali ngakuwe, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo awufuni ukuba akuphambane. Thatha umoya omninzi kwaye uthathe ixesha lakho.
Amadoda anako ukusiphosa ngokungathi siyabakhumbula xa sikude. Ngokugcina umgama wethu kunye nokuthatha ixesha lethu, amaqabane ethu aya kuqonda ukuba baziva bebodwa ngaphandle kwethu kwaye baya kusikhumbula kakhulu.