Ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo kwesi sibini kungumthwalo wokwenyani kumntu ophethwe yiyo, ngakumbi xa kufikwa ekuphumezeni intlalo-ntle ethile yomntu. Kungenxa yoko le nto ukuze isibini sisebenze ngokufanelekileyo nangokuchanekileyo, kubalulekile kwaye kungundoqo ukuzimela ngokweemvakalelo kumntu omthandayo.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo sibonisa indlela yokwazi ukuba kukho ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo kwiqabane kunye nendlela yokuzimela ngokweemvakalelo kuyo.
Indlela yokwazi ukuba kukho ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo kwiqabane
Okokuqala, siza kubonisa uluhlu lweempawu ezibonisa ukuba kusenokubakho ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo kwiqabane:
- Kukho imfuneko emandla yokuba kunye nesibini ngazo zonke iiyure. Ukuba oku akwenzeki okanye akwenziwanga, Kuqhelekile ukuba kuvele imiba ethile yokhuseleko kunye nentembeko.
- Kukho uloyiko olunamandla kunye noloyiko lokuba ubudlelwane bunokuphela. Awuyonwabeli yonke imihla kunye neqabane lakho ngenxa yokuba uhlala ucinga ukuba inokuphela. Kukho ukubandezeleka okuqhubekayo koko kunokwenzeka.
- Umntu uyayeka ukwenza izinto azithandayo ngenxa yenyaniso elula yokugcina isibini sonwabile. Awunangxaki nokwenza le nto ithethwa ngomnye umntu nokuba awuvumelani nayo ngokobuqu.
- Kukho ukuziva unetyala rhoqo kwaye isibini akufanele sibe nobudlelwane obunjalo. Omnye umntu akakufanelanga kwaye wenza ubabalo olukhulu ngokuba neqabane.
- Uloyiko lokulahlwa luhlala kwaye ikho ngalo lonke ixesha.
Indlela yokuzimela ngokweemvakalelo kwiqabane lakho
Ungaphoswa luthotho lweengcebiso okanye izikhokelo onokuthi uzilandele ukukunceda ukuba uzimele ngokweemvakalelo kwiqabane lakho:
- Kubalulekile ukukwazi ukuthatha umgama othile womzimba kwisibini. Ekuqaleni oku kunokubangela intlungu enkulu kunye nokungahambi kakuhle, nangona ekuhambeni kwexesha imeko iqhelekile kwaye ibonwa njengento eqhelekileyo.
- Ukuba neqabane akuthethi ukuba kunye naye iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba ungashiyi ecaleni kwesangqa esisondeleyo, bobabini abahlobo kunye nosapho. Kufuneka uchithe inxalenye yexesha lakho uqhawula kwiqabane lakho kunye bonwabele ixesha lokuphumla nabanye abantu.
- Kuhle ukwenza izinto ozithandayo ukuze uchithe ixesha elincinane uzenzela wena. Ukusondelelana yenye yezinto eziphambili ukuze isibini esisempilweni sisebenze kakuhle.
- Ukuzithemba kunye nokuzithemba kufuneka kukhuthazwe ngamaxesha onke. Kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba ungazixabisa njani ngamaxesha onke kwaye ukusuka apha unikeze uthando kwiqabane lakho.
- Kuya kufuneka uyazi indlela yokufunda ukuba wedwa kwaye wonwabele la maxesha ukuba wedwa. Ubulolo, nangona abantu abaninzi banokucinga, akumele kube yinto embi, ekubeni unabantu abakungqongileyo abangazukukushiya ecaleni bakuthande.
Yiya kunyango lwezengqondo
Kwimeko apho ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo kwiqabane kuya phambili, Kucetyiswa ukuba uye kwingcali ekwaziyo ukujongana nomcimbi ngendlela efanelekileyo nefanelekileyo. Enkosi unyango ngokwasengqondweni, imvelaphi uthe ukuxhomekeka idla ngokufunyanwa kwaye ingxaki iphathwa ukuze ukomeleza ukuzithemba ezilahlekileyo. Into ebalulekileyo ngaphezu kwayo yonke into kukufumana umntu oxhomekeke kuye ukuba azimele kwinqanaba leemvakalelo. Okokugqibela, khumbula ukuba ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo yinto ecacileyo yokuba ubudlelwane buyityhefu kwaye abunampilo kuwo omabini amaqela.