Ukuphela kobudlelwane kudla ngokuba ngamava abuhlungu kubantu abaninzi. Ukuziva ungento yanto kuyabonakala, kungoko kubalulekile ukunyanga iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo. Ixesha lokuphilisa aliqhelekanga kwaye liya kuhluka ngokuxhomekeke kumntu kunye nentlungu ebangelwa ukuphela kobudlelwane. Ukuba nempilo yeemvakalelo kwimeko elungileyo kungundoqo xa kufikwa ekukwazini ukuguqula iphepha kwaye ujonge phambili ngaphandle kwengxaki.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela indlela iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo kufuneka ziphiliswe ngayo emva kokwahlukana.
Indlela yokuphilisa iimvakalelo emva kokuphela kobudlelwane
Kukho uluhlu lweengcebiso kunye nezikhokelo ekufuneka uzilandele ezinokukunceda wenze inkqubo yokuba lusizi ibe yeyona nto ingcono kakhulu:
ube nexesha
Ukuba nexesha kubalulekile xa kufikwa kukufakela ukwahlukana nokubuyela ekuziveni kamnandi. Ngokuhamba kwexesha ubudlelwane obuqhekekileyo buya kuba yinxalenye yexesha elidlulileyo kwaye buya kubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo kwakhona. Nangona ekuqaleni kunokuba nzima kwaye kunzima, ixesha liphilisa amanxeba kwaye ufunda ukuphila ngaphandle kobukho beqabane lakho.
Yenza imisebenzi
Akulunganga ukuhlala ucinga ngokuqhawula ulwalamano. Eyona nto ilungileyo kukugxila ngokupheleleyo ngoku kwaye yenza imisebenzi ethile ekunceda utyhile iphepha. Le misebenzi iya kuthathela ingqalelo kakhulu umntu kwaye incede ukuba achache ngcono. Ukuba nentloko yakho kwenye indawo kukuvumela ukuba ukonwabele ngoku nakwixesha langoku kwaye ulibale inkqubo ebuhlungu yokuphelisa ubudlelwane.
buyisela ubomi bomntu
Kuyacetyiswa ukuba ubuyele kungoku nakwimpilo yangoku kwaye uyonwabele ngoncedo lwabahlobo kunye nosapho. Ukuqalisa kwakhona ubomi kubalulekile ukuze ukwazi ukujonga phambili kwaye woyise iintlungu. Ezinye iingcebiso okanye iingcebiso kukuphuma kwaye uzame ukudibana nabantu abatsha ukwandisa isangqa sentlalo.
Kuphephe ukohlwaya okanye ukuzibek’ ityala ngokwahlukana
Akufanelekanga ukuba uzohlwaye kwaye uhlale uzibek’ ityala ngokucinga ukuba omnye umntu ebengafanelekanga. Ubudlelwane buqhawukile kwaye akufuneki uhlale kwinto ebiyiyo okanye ibinokuba yintoni. Ezi ntlobo zeengcinga ziya kubangela ukuba intlungu ibe nkulu kakhulu. Maninzi amathuba ubomi obunikezelayo ukuze ukwazi ukuhlangabezana nomntu ofanelekileyo okanye ofanelekileyo kwaye akufanelekanga ukuba uphoswe. Izinto ziyenzeka kwaye akunyanzelekanga ukuba ujike uzisole ngento eyenzekileyo kubudlelwane.
Funda kwiimpazamo
Ebomini kukho amaxesha amnandi namabi. Ufunda kuyo yonke into, ngoko ke kufuneka woyise ikhefu ukuze uqhubele phambili. Kuhle ukufunda kumava amabi ukuze uphephe ukwenza impazamo efanayo kwixesha elizayo. Kuyakhuthaza ukunqanda ukuba kutheni kwaye ugxininise ngakumbi kwinto efundiweyo kwaye yintoni enokuguqulwa.
Njonga phambili
Kufuneka siqale kwisiseko sokuba umntu ngamnye wahlukile kwaye ayilulo lonke ubudlelwane obufanayo. Akukho mgaqo jikelele osivumelayo ukuba sazi ukuba kutheni izibini ziqhawula umtshato. Kufuneka sibeke ecaleni iilebhile ezinokwenzeka kwaye sikuphephe ukwenza izinto ngokubanzi ebomini. Funda koko kwenzekileyo Kuya kukuvumela ukuba uhlalutye ngcono abantu kwaye uqonde ubudlelwane bexesha elizayo ngcono kakhulu.
Ngamafutshane, Intlungu ebangelwa kukwahlukana ibaluleke kakhulu kwinani elikhulu labantu. Xa kuziwa ekukwazi ukunandipha ubomi kwakhona, kubalulekile ukuphilisa iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo kunye nokunyanga intlungu ebangelwa kukwahlukana. Khumbula ukuba ukuphilisa impilo yeemvakalelo kubalulekile ukuze ukwazi ukutyhila iphepha kwaye ujonge phambili kwakhona.