Indlela yokuphelisa ubudlelwane nomntu othanda ukulwa

I-NARCISISTIC

Uthando aluyonto umntu ayikhethayo, yinto evelayo kwaye izibonakalise ngeendlela ezininzi. Eyona nto ilungileyo kukuba uthando oluthethiweyo lubuyiselwa ngendlela efanayo kwaye ludala ubudlelwane naloo mntu.

Ingxaki ivela xa umntu othandekayo enohlobo lobuntu obungazuzi nto konke konke kwaye bube yityhefu. Yiloo nto eyenzekayo xa iqabane li-narcissistic kwaye lizicingela.

Ubonakala ngantoni umntu onama-narcissistic?

Xa uthi krwada kunzima kakhulu ukubona umntu onama-narcissistic. Kuyimfuneko ukuhlala naye kwaye ujonge indlela aziphethe ngayo kunye nokuziphatha kwakhe kuqala ukuze uchonge uphawu lobuntu. Umntu onama-narcissistic ucinga ukuba ungaphezulu kwabanye, kuquka neqabane lakhe. Ukhathalele kuphela into enye kwaye yintlalontle yakhe kwaye uya kubeka nantoni na phambi kwakhe ukuze ayifezekise. Udinga iqabane lakho ukuba likuthande rhoqo kwaye liqaqambise zonke iimpawu zakho ezintle. I-ego inkulu kangangokuba icinga ukuba yinkokeli yokwenene kwesi sibini.

Yintoni enokuyenza ukuba iqabane li-narcissistic

Akukho lula okanye kulula ukuphelisa ubudlelwane nomntu one-narcissistic. Amandla makhulu kangangokuba anika ulawulo olukhulu kumntu wesifundo, okwenza kube nzima ukuphelisa ubudlelwane. Kukho imeko yokuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo eyenza ukuba iqhina liqhubeke kwaye lingaqhawuki.

Umntu onarcissistic yi-manipulator yokuzalwa, usebenzisa ukukhohlisa kwiqabane. Kukho umonakalo omkhulu ngokweemvakalelo nangokwasengqondweni. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba uye kwisangqa esisondeleyo kwaye ufune inkxaso yabahlobo kunye nosapho. Uncedo lochwephesha lukwangundoqo xa kufikwa ekwaphuleni ubuhlobo obuyityhefu obunjalo. Into ebalulekileyo kukubuyisela ukuzithemba okulahlekileyo kunye nokuzithemba kunye nokukwazi ukuqhawula ibhondi eyenziwe.

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Musa ukuwela kwi-blackmailing behavior ye-narcissistic partner

I-blackmail yeemvakalelo sesona sixhobo anaso umntu othanda ukubhuqa. ukuze iqabane lingamlahli. Ngaphandle kokuziphatha okunetyhefu ngokupheleleyo kunye nokuziphatha, umntu othanda i-narcissistic ucinga ukuba ungaphezulu kweqabane lakhe kwaye uya kwenza konke okusemandleni ukumgcina ecaleni kwakhe. Kubalulekile ukukholelwa kuwe kwaye ube nabahlobo kunye nosapho xa kuziwa ekwahlukaneni ngokuqinisekileyo nobudlelwane.

Kuhle ukuphepha naluphi na uhlobo lwengxabano okanye umlo onokubangela amathandabuzo athile malunga nesigqibo esithathiweyo. Ubudlelwane kufuneka busekelwe kuthando kunye nokulingana kwawo omabini amaqela, Ukuba oku akwenzeki, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubudlelwane buyityhefu kwaye kufuneka bupheliswe.

Ngamafutshane, akucebisi okanye kucetyiswa ukuba kugcinwe ubudlelwane nomntu onobuqhetseba. Umntu othethayo une-ego enkulu kangangokuba uya kuhlala ekholelwa ukuba ungaphezulu kweqabane lakhe. Kumntu onama-narcissistic, ubulungisa abukho kwaye baya kuqwalasela iqabane labo njengomntu ongaphantsi kwakhe abanokumlawula ngokweemvakalelo ngalo lonke ixesha befuna.


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