Ukuba ngumncamisi olungileyo akuthethi ngokwenza izinto ukonwabisa iqabane lakho. Imalunga nokuhamba nokuhamba, ukuthelekisa umsitho, kunye nokusebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo, kodwa ngaphandle kokuya ngaphezulu. Kuya kufuneka uzame ukuba nebhalansi elungileyo. Awusoze ufune ukubonakala uxhalabile okanye ngathi uzama ukubonisa nangayiphi na indlela. Ukukhohlisa ngobuchule bakho kubalulekile, kodwa kusafuneka ushiye igumbi lokusayina kwakho. Into ekwenza ugqame, kodwa ayiveli kakhulu.
Nini ukumanga ngolunya?
Kukho ixesha kunye nendawo yokumanga ngolunya, kwaye ukuba uyenza ngaphandle kwendawo elungileyo kunye nesakhelo esifanelekileyo sengqondo, ubeka emngciphekweni wokuphuma unqwenela okanye kulula. Ngaphandle kokuba uzame ngenene Kuya kufuneka ulandele imigaqo yokumanga okokuqala okanye nangamaxesha ambalwa owanga umntu ngawo.
Akukho sidingo sokuzama kwasekuqaleni ke ukugcina nje imipu yakho kwaye umbonise indlela oqhele ukuthanda ukwanga KODWA, bopha ngeendlela ezimbalwa zokwenza ukwanga kwakho kube mnandi, kube mnandi ngakumbi kwaye, ekugqibeleni ikhumbuleke ngakumbi.
Ungayenza njani into yokwanga okungcono: imigaqo esisiseko
Njengoko besesitshilo ngaphambili, ukuba uwanga ngolunya, umfana uya kucinga kwangoko ukuba ukulungele ukulala ngesondo, njengangoku. Ukuba awufuni ukuba atsibe ukufikelela kwizigqibo, kuphephe ukuluma imilebe yakho, ukuncanca kuyo, kunye nokusebenzisa kakhulu ulwimi lwakho de nazane ngcono.
Ukuba awunangxaki nokwenza ukwanga kwakho ngokwesondo, okanye ukuba yile nto uyikhangelayo, ke ezi ntlobo zokudlala zidlalayo zilungele ukubuyisa ubushushu.
Ulwimi lusilwa
Mye omnye athabathe ukwanga kwaye amisele ukuba kukho ulwimi okanye akunjalo. Abanye abafana abaluthandi ulwimi kwaye abanye bayaluthanda. Ungayivumela imilebe ukuba yenze uninzi lomsebenzi kwi-kisses zothando, nangona uluthanda ulwimi emva koko wonwabe kukuhlangana kwabo. Nika ingqalelo indlela omnye umntu ayibuyisela ngayo le kiss, Makhe ndikhokele ukwanga emva koko ukhokele.
Ukwanga kakuhle kuthatha umzamo ekuqaleni, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha iba yinto yesibini. Cinga ngokumanga njengendlela yonxibelelwano. Ufuna umyalezo wakho ube phezulu kwaye ucace, kodwa awufuni ukuthetha kakhulu ngaphandle kokuba, nabo bayathetha ngokuvakalayo.
Amandla olwimi
Ukuba umfana ulusebenza ngenene ulwimi lakhe, kucacile ukuba yeyona nto ayithandayo ngokwanga. Kuya kufuneka utshatise amandla okuncamisa kwakhe kwaye uzame ukufumana uhlobo oluthile lokuchasana nezenzo azenzayo ngolwimi lwakhe.
Ukwanga kunamandla amakhulu, ke iindlela kunye nentshukumo ziyatshintsha kakhulu, kodwa ngokusisiseko ulwimi lwakho kufuneka lube yin kwi-yang yolwimi lwabo. Endaweni yokuya ngamandla kulwimi lwakho kwaye ulwe nayo, kuya kufuneka uyiyeke ichaze iintshukumo oza kuzenza. Inika xa ityhala, ityhala xa inika. Kodwa ulwimi lwakho alunakufikelela emlonyeni wakhe. Akafanelekanga ukuba andise kweyakho. Ukuba kunjalo, unokufaka uxinzelelo kwaye uzame ukumnyanzela abuyele kwindawo engathathi hlangothi.