Umsindo luhlobo lweemvakalelo ezitshabalalisa ngokupheleleyo naluphi na ulwalamano. Nangona uthando lukhona, umsindo wenza ukuba ukuhlalisana kungenzeki kwaye ukungonwabi kuzinze ngokupheleleyo kulwalamano oluthethiweyo. Ukuba akukho ukulawula umsindo, ubudlelwane buphela kutshatyalaliswa ngokupheleleyo.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo sikubonisa unokulawula njani phakathi kwesibini.
Iingxaki zomsindo kwisibini
Ukuxabana rhoqo kunye nokuba nomsindo kuzo zonke iiyure zemini yinto ephazamisa naluphi na ubudlelwane. Ulonwabo lunikezela ngokupheleleyo endaweni yokungonwabi, nto leyo ekhokelela ekutshatyalalisweni ngokupheleleyo kwebhondi eyenziwe. Umsindo, umsindo, ukulwa kubangela ukungonwabi okukhulu kunye nokungahambi kakuhle kumaqela.
Ungasoloko uxoxa neqabane lakho ngembeko nangendlela ezolileyo. Umsindo wenza yonke into iwele kwaye Ukungquzulana kuya kuxhaphaka ngakumbi kwisibini semihla ngemihla. Ngoko ke kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokulawula umsindo kwaye ukwazi ukuwulawula ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Indlela yokulawula umsindo kubudlelwane
- Okokuqala kufuneka ufumane ingxaki ebangela ukugqabhuka komsindo okunjalo. Wakuba unikwe oyena nobangela womsindo, kuhle ukucinga ngendlela ezolileyo neqokelelweyo ukuba kufanelekile ukuba nomsindo ngokwenene. Kwiimeko ezininzi, iimeko zivela kwizinto ezilula ezimele zilibaleke kwaye ziyeke.
- Kuhle ukucinga ngezicombululo ezithile ezingonakalisi intlalo-ntle yesibini. Akufanelekanga ukuba uzivumele ukuba uthathwe ngumsindo kunye Cinga ngokubaluleka kobudlelwane. Kwezi meko, ukuba nomonde ngoxa uphumle ngundoqo ukuze izinto zingabi nempembelelo embi kwikamva elihle lesi sibini.
- Ukulawula yenye inkalo xa kufikwa ekuqinisekiseni ukuba umsindo awulonzakalisanga ulwalamano. Phambi kokuba ndiqhume kufuneka uyazi indlela yokucinga kunye nokulinganisa iziphumo ezinokubakho kwisibini sokugqabhuka komsindo.
- Ukwazi indlela yokuvelana nesi sibini yinto enokunceda ukulawula umsindo.
- Kuhle ukuba sizibeke ecaleni ngokupheleleyo ezo ngcinga zokuzingca nezingekho ngqiqweni. Awunakugxeka yonke into komnye umntu.
- Kuya kufuneka uyazi indlela yokwamkela isibini njengoko sinjalo, kokubini ubuhle bayo kunye neziphene zayo. Ekunyamezeleni kunye nesisa ngamandla okuba nobudlelwane obuhle ngaphandle kokukhwaza okanye umsindo.
- Iingcinga ezimbi kufuneka zibekwe ecaleni kwaye ube nengqondo entle
- Imiboniso yothando kufuneka iqhubeke ukuqinisa ibhondi eyenziwe.
- Ude ukwazi ukulawula umsindo Kubalulekile ukuphepha iimeko ezahlukeneyo zongquzulwano nesibini.
- Kukho imilinganiselo ethile yokuphumla njengoko kunjalo ngeyoga okanye ukucamngca, enokunceda ukukhulula iingxabano ezithile kunye nokulawula iimeko ezithile ezinobungozi kubudlelwane.
- Kwezo meko apho umsindo uqhubeka ngaphandle kwemizamo yamaqela ukuyiphepha, Ungaya kwingcali ukunceda ukusombulula ingxaki enjalo. Kukho izibini ezininzi ezithatha isigqibo sokwenza unyango ukuze kuthomalaliswe umsindo welinye lamaqela.
Ngamafutshane, Umsindo yimvakalelo enokutshabalalisa isibini esithile. Akwamkelekanga ukulwa ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye ujike ukuhlalisana kwindawo yedabi lokwenyani. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, ukugqajukelwa ngumsindo kwenza kube nzima ngesibini ukuphila ubomi kunye obusekelwe kulonwabo. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokulawula umsindo kunye nokusombulula iingxabano ezahlukeneyo ngendlela enengqiqo nezolileyo.