Abantu bakudala babesithi xa amehlo akho ehlaba kufuneka ukrweqe ngengqiniba. Zama ukuyenza, uyakuqonda ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ukrwembe amehlo ngengqiniba zakho, kwakutheni ukuze amaxhegokazi athethe ngoluhlobo emva koko? Kungenxa yokuba amehlo akufuneki akrwitswe, kuba ukwenza njalo kungakhokelela ekonakaleni kwamehlo. Kwenzeka into efanayo nakwiintsana.
Ingxaki ngeentsana xa kufikwa ekukrwemeni amehlo kukuba abantwana abazi ukuba ukukrwela kungonzakalisa amehlo abo. Baqaphela ukungakhululeki kwaye bazame ukuzama ukukhulula. Ukulandela Siza kukuxelela into ekufuneka uyenzile ukuthintela iintsana ekubeni zihlikihle amehlo azo.
Ungazikhusela njani kwiintsana ekuthambiseni amehlo
Unokuqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho uhlikihla amehlo akhe rhoqo, ngakumbi ukuba uziva ediniwe kwaye enomdla. Ukunciphisa imikrwelo kunye nokunye ukwenzakala kwakho, kuyanceda ukukhusela umntwana wakho ekuthambiseni amehlo abo. Eli nqanaba lokuthintela kufuneka lihlale ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo ukuze ukhule kwaye uqonde ukuba ungazenzakalisa xa ungabubambi ngobuso ubuso bakho.
Vala izandla zomntwana wakho ngalo lonke ixesha ucinga ukuba unokuthambisa amehlo akhe. Ukunxiba iiglavu zabantwana ezikhethekileyo okanye iihempe zabantwana enemikhono esonge izandla ukukhusela ekuhlikihlweni ngamehlo kunye nokukrwempa ubuso bakho.
Unokunciphisa nje ihempe enemikhono emide yosana lwakho ezandleni zakhe ukwenza ukuba kube nzima ukurabha amehlo. Jonga umntwana wakho ngeempawu zokudinwa kunye nokozela. Ukuzamla nokuhlikihla amehlo ziimpawu eziqhelekileyo zokuba omncinci kufuneka alale.
Xa uqaphela iimpawu zokuqala zozela, lalisa umntwana wakho ebhedini ngokukhawuleza ukuthintela ukudinwa ekuqhubekeni kuye kwinqanaba apho afuna ukuthambisa khona amehlo akhe. Jonga amehlo omntwana wakho ukuba anazo na iimpawu zokucaphuka. Unokubona ukhwekhwe olujikeleze amehlo okanye uthuli oluncinci okanye intwana yamehlo, ecaphukisa umntwana wakho omncinci kwaye enze ukuba afune ukuthambisa amehlo akhe.
Ukuba ubona into yasemzini, gcwalisa ibhola yomqhaphu ngamanzi abandayo kwaye uyikhame ngobunono phezu kweliso lomntwana wakho ukuze uhlambe into leyo. Sula naliphi na ukhwekhwe ngengubo yokuhlamba ecocekileyo ukucoca amehlo omntwana wakho. Ukuba ukucaphuka kuyaqhubeka, funa ingcebiso kugqirha wakho ukunciphisa ukucola kwamehlo. Gcina izandla zomntwana wakho kude nobuso bakho ngobunono ukuba ufuna ukuthambisa amehlo akhe. Phazamisa umntwana wakho omncinci ngento yokudlala enomdla okanye umculo ukuze aziphazamise ngokucoca amehlo akhe.
Ngala macebiso uya kuba nakho ukuthintela usana lwakho ekuthambiseni amehlo alo. Oku kubalulekile kuba ngale ndlela uya kunqanda ukuzenzakalisa ungazi. Iintsana aziqondi ukuba zinokuzenzakalisa ngezandla zazo ezincinci kwaye yiyo loo nto kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele kwaye Sebenzisa ezi ndlela zokuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ukhuselekile kakuhle ekonakaleni kwamehlo.