Ukukhutshwa kwezisu kuxhaphake kakhulu kuluntu, kodwa nganye kuzo yahlukile kwaye inokukhokelela kwiinkqubo ezahlukeneyo zokulila kwabasetyhini abahluphekayo. Nokuba umntwana ebengazalwanga, afele esizalweni; Umntu obhinqileyo waziva elusana lwakhe kwasekukhawulweni kwakhe kuba nokuba wayengalubambi ngengalo wayemkhulisela esibelekweni.
Nokuba ubukweyiphi iveki ngexesha lokulahlekelwa kwakho, ungaziva unetyala ngento eyenzekileyo kuba akukho mntu unetyala. Ukuze uphilise elo nxeba likukhathaza kakhulu ngoku, unokukhumbula ezinye iingcamango zokukhumbula usana lwakho olungekazalwa ngonaphakade. Iya kuba yinkwenkwezi yakho esibhakabhakeni, sUya kuba nguye okhanyisela umendo wakho ukususela ngoku ukuya phambili.
Oomama abajongene nokuphuphuma kwesisu badla ngokuthuthuzela ukwenza uhlobo oluthile lwesikhumbuzo sokukhumbula umntwana wabo. Enyanisweni, ukuhlonipha umntwana kusenokuba yeyona ndlela isempilweni nebaluleke kakhulu yokuhlangabezana nokulahleka kokukhulelwa. Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokwenza oku, ezinye zezobuqu kunye nezabucala ngokumangalisayo kwaye ezinye zivumela abahlobo kunye nabantu obathandayo ukuba babe nesabelo kwilahleko.. Ezinye zazo zezi zilandelayo.
Xela usana lwakho olungekazalwa
Abasetyhini abaninzi bafumanisa ukuba ukunika umntwana igama kubanceda bafumane ukuvalwa ngokuvumela ukuba bavume ukulahlekelwa ngumntu kunokuba bacinge. Ukuba bekuselula kakhulu ekukhulelweni ukwazi ukuba unentombazana okanye inkwenkwe, khetha igama elimele indlela ombona ngayo umntwana okanye Sebenzisa igama elingakhethi cala kwisini ukuba awuyazi okwangoku ukuba ibiyinkwenkwe okanye intombazana.
Ubucwebe besikhumbuzo
Kukho iivenkile ezingenakubalwa ezithengisa izacholo zesikhumbuzo ezintle ezenziwe ngezandla, njengemisesane okanye ipendants ezineengelosi kunye neenyawo. Unokwenza iqhekeza lezacholo ngegama losana lwakho olungekazalwa.
Bhala idayari
Nangona le nkqubo inokuba nzima, ukubhala iimvakalelo zakho phantsi ephepheni kunokuba ngamava amangalisayo kunye nokuphilisa. Ukubhala ijenali kufana nokuthemba umhlobo ongasoze akugwebe. Ungaphinda ufune ukuqala ibhlog okanye iphepha lesikhumbuzo kwi-Intanethi ukuze wabelane ngezimvo zakho nabanye abanokuba bafumana ilahleko okanye ilahleko efanayo. abafuna ukwabelana ngento eyenzekileyo kubo.
Tyala umthi
Ukutyala umthi okanye umyezo yindlela emangalisayo nehlala ixesha elide yokukhumbula umntwana olahlekileyo. Abanye oomama bathanda ukutyala umthi ngomhla wesikhumbuzo sokuphuphuma kwesisu okanye ngomhla omiselweyo wokukhulelwa. Izityalo eziphilayo ekugqibeleni zizukisa ubomi kwaye zimele ukukhula kunye nekamva.
Ezi zezinye zeembono onokuthi uzigcine engqondweni ukukhumbula inkumbulo yosana lwakho olungekazalwa. Yinkqubo esondele kakhulu kwaye nguwe kuphela onokukhetha eyona uziva ukhululekile kuyo. Cinga ngendlela oya kuziva ungcono ngayo kwaye ulandele ithuku lakho.