Iimvakalelo zisembindini wento yokuba ngumntu. Ukukwazi ukunxibelelana kunye nokuchaza iimvakalelo zakho kuko okusenza sahluke kwaye ubudlelwane bethu bubalulekile. Iimvakalelo ziyimfuneko ukuze sonwabe, kodwa kufuneka sazi ukuba sizazi njani kwaye sizilawule, kungale ndlela kuphela apho siya kuthi sizazi ukuze sikwazi ukusebenzisana ngcono nelizwe lethu.
Ukukhula kobukrelekrele bethu beemvakalelo kunceda ukomeleza ubudlelwane nabantu, ke ukuba siyaziqonda iimvakalelo zethu zomsindo, ukukhathazeka okanye uthando, kwaye ungazichonga ngokuchanekileyo kwaye unxibelelane ngokufanelekileyo neqabane lakho okanye abantu abakungqongileyo, unokuba sempilweni ubudlelwane kunye nawe kunye nabanye.
Iimvakalelo ekuhlaleni
Enye yeengxaki kuluntu yile kubonakala ngathi ukuba neemvakalelo kufana nokuba buthathaka, Kwaye nantoni na ekude nenyani! Iimvakalelo zezona zinamandla okuxhobisa ukudibanisa abantu, okoko ezo mvakalelo zilawulwa kwaye ziqondwa. Ukuba umntu uthabatheka ziimvakalelo ezingalunganga, mhlawumbi ubudlelwane bunokuba nzima nakweyiphi na indawo yobomi.
Yamkela iimvakalelo ezingakhiyo
Iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ziyimfuneko ebomini, enkosi kubo sinokuqonda ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuthi kwaye kufuneka sitshintshe ntoni kuthi. Iimvakalelo ezingalunganga nezakhayo zibalulekile ngokulinganayo kubomi babantu. Kuyimfuneko ukuqonda usizi, umsindo, ukungazithembi ... kuba ezi mvakalelo ziya kusinceda ukuba sizazi, sizazi kwaye soyise ubunzima.
Shiya indima yexhoba ngonaphakade
Kuya kufuneka uyishiye indima yexhoba ukuba ibambe ngonaphakade kuba ayikuniki nto. Iimvakalelo ezingalunganga zinokuvela ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi, kodwa zihlala zikhuthazwa zizenzo kunye namagama abanye abantu abanayo kuthi. Ingxaki kukuba uninzi lwabantu lusebenza kwaye lucinge ngaphandle kokuthathela ingqalelo iimvakalelo zabanye., ngoko ukuziva ukhathazekile kwaye ukhubekile kuya kuzenzakalisa.
Kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukuzikhulula kumgibe wokuba lixhoba kwaye uyeke ukuzisizela. Kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukuhamba kwicala loxolo kunye nokuzibamba. Xa uyiqonda lonto abantu neemeko zinokuchaphazela wena kuphela xa ubavumela ukuba bakuchaphazele, emva koko ungaqala ukuba ngumntu ozimeleyo kwiimvakalelo zakho, iimvakalelo zakho azisayi kuxhomekeka kwabanye kwakhona!
Funda ukunxibelelana
Ukongeza ekuqondeni iimvakalelo zakho, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukunxibelelana nabanye ngokuzithemba kunye novelwano, kwaye ukwenza oko kufuneka uqale uzihloniphe kwaye uzixabise. Ukuze unxibelelane nabanye ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka uzithembe kwaye ube ngumntu ozinzileyo ngokweemvakalelo. Xa uzihlonipha kwaye ukwazi ukuthetha ngokwakho, unokuba nonxibelelwano olusempilweni nabanye abantu.
Xa ukhula ngokwasemphefumlweni, uyakuqonda indlela abahle ngayo abantu abakungqongileyo.