Ukuvuthwa komntu akuyonto ngaphandle kwenqanaba lobomi apho ukugcwala kufikeleleke engekafiki ebudaleni. Ukuvuthwa kudla ngokufika phakathi kwama-45 nama-65 eminyaka ubudala. kwaye ngelo xesha umntu uye wakwazi ukufezekisa iinjongo ezithile ezinjengokuqala usapho okanye ukuziva uphelele kwinqanaba lobuchwephesha.
Nangona kunjalo, ngeli nqanaba kunokuvela iingxaki ezahlukeneyo zazo zonke iintlobo. njengoko kunokuba njalo kwimeko yoqhawulo-mtshato okanye ukwahlukana kwesibini. Oku ngamanye amaxesha kuba yipilisi enzima ukoyisa.
Uqhawulo-mtshato ebudaleni
Uqhawulo-mtshato yenye yezo ngxaki zixhaphakileyo ezidla ngokwenzeka kwinqanaba lobudala eliphakathi. Xa befikelela kwiminyaka ethile, abantu abaninzi abaziboni bethandana kwaye bagqibe kwelokuba bahlukane nabo ukuze baqale ubomi obutsha.
Izizathu zokuba uqhawulo-mtshato ludla ngokubakho ebudeni beminyaka ephakathi zininzi. Enye yezona zinto zixhaphakileyo yinto eyaziwa ngokuba yi-nest nest syndrome. Xa abazali befikelela kwiminyaka yobudala, baziva bengamalolo ekubeni abantwana babo bekhulile yaye baye bagqiba kwelokuba balishiye ikhaya. Kukho izibini ezininzi ezigxile ekukhuliseni abantwana bazo, zityeshele ngokupheleleyo isibini ngokwaso. Xa beshiywe bodwa ekhaya, bafumanisa ukuba uthando lwabo ngeqabane labo luphelile yaye kulapho bagqiba khona ukuthabatha inyathelo lokuqhawula umtshato.
Uhlangabezana njani noqhawulo mtshato kubomi bakamva
Ukuqhawula umtshato kwinqanaba lobomi elifana nokuba ngumntu omdala yinto enokuba nzima kwaye ibe buhlungu. Ngaphandle kokushiya isibini ngasemva, Kukho uloyiko lokuba nesithukuthezi nokuhlala kungekho mntu. Oku kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo ezingokweemvakalelo ezinokuchaphazela kakubi impilo yomntu.
Ukunqanda oku, iingcali zicebisa ukujongana ngqo noqhawulo-mtshato nokuthintela iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ekubeni ziluguqule lube yinto ebuhlungu ngokwenene. Kubalulekile ukuba ungqongwe ngabantu abasondeleyo abanokukunceda woyise imeko enjalo. Ukujamelana noqhawulo-mtshato ngokupheleleyo akufani nokujamelana noqhawulo-mtshato nabantu obathandayo onokuthi wayame kubo.
Ukuba umntu oqhawule umtshato akanaye nabani na osondeleyo kuye kwaye oku kwahlukana kubabangela ingxaki yeemvakalelo, Kubalulekile ukucela uncedo kwingcali efanelekileyo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ube nomntu onokuthetha naye ngayo yonke into oyifunayo kwaye ube negxalaba ongqiyame kuye.
Emva kokuba uqhawulo-mtshato lugqityiwe, Kulungile ukuqhubeka nosuku nosuku ukulibala imvakalelo embi yokwahlukana. Kubalulekile ukwenza imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo ekunceda ukuba ubaleke kuyo yonke into. Isenokuba kukwenza imidlalo okanye ukuzikhupha nabahlobo siye kusela. Ubomi buyaqhubeka nangona ungenaqabane kwaye akulunganga ukuzivalela ekhaya ucinge ukuba wone ntoni okanye ukuba lo qhawulo mtshato sele ukhankanyiwe belunokuphetshwa.