Ukukhulisa nokufundisa abantwana akuyondlwan’ iyanetha kubazali. Ukuze le mfundo ibe yeyokugqwesa, ifuna umonde, unxibelelwano oluhle kunye novelwano olukhulu ngabantwana. Ngaphandle koko, isohlwayo, ubundlobongela bomzimba okanye ukuhlambalaza akuvumelekanga kuba zinokwenza umonakalo omkhulu kwabancinci.
Ngendlela efanayo abazali akufanelekanga ukubangxolisa abantwana babo njengoko ingqondo ivaliwe, okukhokelela kuthotho lweziphumo ezichaphazela ukukhula kakuhle kwabantwana.
Iyintoni imiphumo yokungxolisa abantwana?
- Kungqinwe ngokwenzululwazi ukuba ungxolisa abantwana bakho ibangela ukuba ingqondo iphele ivalekile kwaye baphela behamba besuka kwisoyikiso esibangelwa zizikhalo.
- Enye imiphumo yokungxolisa kukuba abantwana banengxaki yokugxininisa nokunikela ingqalelo. Yiyo loo nto kungacebisekanga ukubangxolisa abantwana xa ufunda.
- Ukukhwaza kubangela ukuba umzimba uvelise inani elikhulu le-cortisol ukuvelisa amanqanaba aphezulu oxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Ukukhwaza kubonwa njengesongelo, ukuvelisa uloyiko olukhulu kubantwana.
- Alithandabuzeki elokuba ukukhulela endlwini apho kuhlala kungxolwa kugcina kuchaphazele kakubi ubuntu babantwana. Aba bantwana banokuphela bephinda iipatheni njengabantu abadala.
- Kuqhelekile ukuba ukuba isikhalo siyinto eqhelekileyo, abantwana abonwabanga yaye baziva belusizi yaye bengenamdla. Ukukhwaza ngoko kuchaphazela ngokuthe ngqo ulonwabo lwabantwana.
- Izikhalo zichaphazela ngendlela ethe ngqo kuqhina olwenziwa phakathi kwabazali nabantwana. Ukuba notata okwaziyo ukuziphatha nokufundisa ngendlela efanelekileyo akufani nokuba nomntu okhwazayo njengotata. Ngoko ke kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ibhondi ibe buthathaka ngokuthe ngcembe de iphuke.
- Ukukhwaza kwabazali kunokubangela ukuba abantwana benze ukuba neengxaki zengqondo ezahlukahlukeneyo ngokukhula. Uhlolisiso olwahlukahlukeneyo luye lwabonisa ukuba abantwana abakhulele kwikhaya elinesikhalo basenokudandatheka xa befikisa baze baphazamiseke ngokwasengqondweni xa bebadala.
Injani imfundo ngaphandle kokukhwaza
Kuyinyani ukuba akukho lula okanye kulula ukufundisa abantwana ngaphandle kokungxola ekhaya. Kukho amaxesha athile apho kuyimfuneko ukubetha umkhwazo ngamaxesha athile, ngakumbi xa abantwana beziphatha kakubi.
Kwimeko apho i-atmospheric ekhaya inzima kwaye i-nerve iqala ukuvela, kulungile ukuphefumla kwaye uzolile ngaphambi kokuba ukhethe ukukhwaza abantwana. Nangona inokuba nzima, kubalulekile ukukhulisa abantwana abanemilinganiselo ebalulekileyo engqondweni. njengentlonipho okanye uvelwano.
Abantwana abanako yaye abafanele bavunyelwe ukuba bakhulele endlwini, abakhwaza ngalo ngawo onke amaxesha emini. Kufuneka ukwazi ukuzilawula kwaye uyeke ukuziphatha okunomsindo, kuba kunokuba nemiphumo emibi ngokumalunga nophuhliso lwabantwana bakho. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubalulekile ukuzibeka ezicathulweni zabancinci ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni engalunganga kubo kwaye kutheni benokuziphatha okubenza baphambane.
Ukulandela ezi ngcebiso okanye izikhokelo kukuvumela ukuba ucinge ngeziganeko ezenzeke kwaye akunyanzelekanga ukuba abhenele ekungxoleni njengendlela yokufundisa abantwana. Khumbula ukuba ukukhuliswa kakuhle akubheneli ekungxoleni okanye ekuziphatheni kakubi xa kufikelelwa ekubuyiseleni indlela yokuziphatha yabantwana. Kungcono ukubethelela uthotho lwemilinganiselo efana nentlonipho, ukunyamezelana okanye ukuqonda.