Kwinqanaba lokufikisa, uthando luhlala luphila ngendlela enzulu kakhulu, ukufumana ukuyibhidanisa nokuxhomekeka komntu ngokweemvakalelo. Kuqhelekile ke ngoko ukuba ubudlelwane obuninzi bube yityhefu kwaye buzikhwebule ngokupheleleyo kwinto eqondwa njengobudlelwane obunempilo.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha ngemiqondiso esenokubonisa ukuba isibini phakathi kolutsha luyityhefu.
Kuthethwa ntoni ngobudlelwane obuyityhefu?
Olu hlobo lobudlelwane lolo apho elinye lamaqela okanye omabini afumana umonakalo ohambelanayo.. Kubudlelwane obuyityhefu eyona nto iphambili kukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo. Oku kuxhomekeka kuthetha ukuba kwisibini kukho umntu olawulayo kunye nomnye obambelela kuyo yonke into ngaphandle kombuzo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha kukho ulawulo olupheleleyo phezu kwesibini kwaye ukuhlukaniswa okoyikekayo kwenzeka.
Izinto ezenza ubudlelwane bube yityhefu
Kukho izinto ezintathu ezo zinokubangela ukuba ubudlelwane phakathi kolutsha lube yityhefu kwaye lube yingozi:
- Iqondo lokungakhuli kwabaselula. Ukuba neqabane kwi-20 akufani nokuba neqabane kwiminyaka engamashumi amathathu.
- Ukusetyenziswa kwezinto ezithile eziyingozi empilweni ezifana neziyobisi okanye utywala.
- Impembelelo yeintanethi zentlalo kwinyani yokulinganisa iindlela ezithile zokuziphatha eziyityhefu.
Ezi zinto zintathu zibangela ukuba izibini ezininzi ezifikisayo zigcine ubudlelwane obuyityhefu kwaye obuyingozi ngokwenene.
Indlela yokubona ubudlelwane obuyityhefu
Kukho inani leempawu ezicacileyo Yintoni enokubonisa ukuba umntu osemtsha ukubudlelwane obuyityhefu ngokupheleleyo:
- Umntu oselula uzenza ikheswa ngokupheleleyo kubahlobo nakwintsapho. Ubudlelwane obo kuphela kunye neqabane lakho.
- Unengxaki ngokwemfundo. Unengxaki yokuhla kwindlela aqhuba ngayo esikolweni.
- Lo mfana uyacaphuka kwaye unengxaki yokuguquguquka kweemvakalelo ngesiquphe.
- Ubandezeleka kukungakhathali ngayo yonke into. Akukho nto iyakuvuyisa kwaye akenzi izicwangciso zekamva.
- chitha ixesha elininzi kunesiqhelo phambi kwezikrini.
- Awuboni ukuba ufuna njani, ekubeni esenza njengoko isibini simxelela kwaye sifuna.
- Kwezona meko zinzima nezinzima, ibhinqa eliselula linokuba namanqaku athile emzimbeni walo. njengemikrwelo okanye imikrwelo.
Bafanele benze ntoni abazali ngaloo nto?
Ngenxa yobukho bezinye iimpawu ezibonwa ngasentla, abazali kufuneka bathathe amanyathelo ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Okokuqala, bafanele bahlale ecaleni konyana okanye intombi yabo baze bathethe ngokucacileyo ngaloo mbandela. Kuhle ukwazi ukumamela ibhinqa eliselula kwaye umenze aqonde ukuba unabazali onokuthi uthembele kubo. Unxibelelwano kufuneka lube manzi kwaye lukhululeke ukuze ibhinqa eliselula lizive likhululekile ngamaxesha onke.
Enye yeengongoma ezibalulekileyo kolu hlobo lobudlelwane ngumona. Ziqhelekile kuninzi lobudlelwane kodwa zithathwe ngokugqithisileyo, zinokwenza umonakalo wokwenene kubudlelwane. Umona ogqithisileyo udla ngokuba yinto eqhelekileyo kwizibini eziyityhefu. Zikhokelela ekubeni iqela elongameleyo lisebenzise ulawulo oluluqilima kwiqela lesifundo.
Kukho inani leempawu ezicacileyo zekhwele ezithathwe ngokugqithiseleyo: ukulawula indlela okanye indlela yokugqoka, ukubona yonke into enxulumene nolwazi olusefowuni kunye nokuhlola iqabane. Ngelishwa, kolu hlobo lwezibini ezitshatileyo, umntu ophantsi koxinzelelo akaqapheli ngamaxesha onke ubunzulu bomcimbi. Iyibona iqhelekile kwaye ayenzi nto ukuyiphelisa olo lawulo kunye nokunganyaniseki kwinqanaba leemvakalelo.
Kwezi meko, indawo ekufutshane njengabazali, abahlobo okanye izalamane kufuneka ziqwalasele iimpawu ezinjalo kunye Ukusuka apho cela uncedo kwingcali ngalo mbandela. Imekobume ekufutshane kwisifundo esincinci ibambe isitshixo sokuphelisa ubudlelwane obuyityhefu obukhankanywe ngasentla.