Imilo okanye iingxabano phakathi kwesibini zihlala zivelisa iingxaki ezahlukeneyo zeemvakalelo kubo bobabini abantu. Ngenxa yoku, kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo ezinjalo ukuze zingachaphazeli ngokuthe ngqo ikamva lobudlelwane. Ngezihlandlo ezininzi, olu lawulo luyinkimbinkimbi ngokwenene, ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba ucele uncedo kwingcali efanelekileyo owaziyo ukusombulula imeko enjalo.
Ukuba iimvakalelo ziphuma esandleni, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubudlelwane buya kuphelisa ngonaphakade. Kwinqaku elilandelayo sikubonisa ukuba yintoni oonobangela bongquzulwano olunjalo kunye indlela eziyichaphazela kakubi ngayo imeko yeemvakalelo zesi sibini.
Akukho nxibelelwano kunye nengxoxo kwisibini
Ukuba akukho hlobo lonxibelelwano phakathi kwesibini, Kuqhelekile ukuba kubekho iingxabano neengxabano ezahlukeneyo. ezichaphazela ikamva elihle lobudlelwane. Ukuba oku akusonjululwanga, kuqhelekile ukuba ekuhambeni kwexesha kuya kubakho ukudumala, ukungafuni kunye nokukhungatheka okukhulu kweso sibini. Unxibelelwano lubalulekile ukuze ubudlelwane busebenze ngokuchanekileyo kwaye bungabi nangxaki ezahlukeneyo.
Umona
Umona ogqithisileyo sesinye isizathu esibangela imilo phakathi kwezibini ezitshatileyo. Lo mona udibaniswa nokuziva ungathembi kunye nokungabikho kokhuseleko kumntu othandekayo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukubonakala kwekhwele elinjalo kubangelwa ukuxhomekeka ngokomzwelo ukuba umntu onomona unomlingane wakhe. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, ingxaki kufuneka ifakwe kwi-bud, kungenjalo, Kusenokuthetha ukuphela kobudlelwane ngokwawo.
Indawo yobuqu kunye nemfihlo
Ukuba neqabane akuthethi ukuchitha imini yonke kunye nabo. Ukufunxa kakhulu kunye nokunciphisa ukusondelana phakathi kobudlelwane akulunganga kuyo. Umntu ngamnye kufuneka abe nendawo apho abo batshatileyo bangangeni ngaphandle kwetyala nangaliphi na ixesha. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba iingxabano zixhaphake kwaye zixhaphake, xa kujongwa indlela embi ngayo imeko yeemvakalelo yesibini ngokwaso.
Iingxaki zemali
Imali yenye yeejenereyitha ezinkulu zokulwa phakathi kwesi sibini. Iindleko kufuneka zithethelelwe ngalo lonke ixesha, kungenjalo zinokukhokelela kwiingxabano eziqhubekayo phakathi kwesibini. Ukuba oku akusonjululwanga ekuhambeni kwexesha, Ubudlelwane bugwetyelwe ukungaphumeleli ngokupheleleyo. Iimvakalelo zonakele kakhulu kwaye ukungathembani kuqala ukufumana umhlaba kubudlelwane.
Iingxaki zosapho
Ngamanye amaxesha Intsapho idla ngokuba yeyona ngxaki inkulu kwisibini esithile. Ukuba elinye lamaqela lihlala lisecaleni kosapho lwalo kwaye alithembi iqabane labo, kuvela imilo kunye neengxabano. Uxinzelelo luyakhula kwaye iimvakalelo ezithile ezinjengomsindo, usizi okanye ukuphelelwa lithemba ziqala ukuphuma kulawulo.
Ngamafutshane, iingxabano okanye ukulwa phakathi kwesibini esitshatileyo ekugqibeleni kuchaphazela kakubi imeko yeemvakalelo zabantu. Ukuze izinto zingabi mbi ngakumbi Kubalulekile ukuba omabini amaqela akwazi ukulawula ezi mvakalelo.