Ngokuqinisekileyo eli lizwi livakala liqhelekile kuwe: "Ulunge wedwa kunokuba unenkampani embi". Namhlanje baninzi abantu abakhetha ukungatshati xa kuthelekiswa neqabane okanye ubudlelwane. Kukho abantu abagqiba ekubeni bangatshati ngabom kwaye abanye abangatshatanga ngaphandle kwesibophelelo, kuba ngebengazange balufumane uthando. Into ekufuneka icace gca kukuba kukho ubudlelwane obuthile phakathi kokungatshati kunye nemeko yengqondo yalo mntu kuthethwa ngaye.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kukuxelela malunga neentlobo zee-singles ezikhoyo kwaye indlela abantu abanjalo abanefuthe ngayo kwimeko enjalo.
Umntu ozimeleyo
Lo mntu ulixabisile kakhulu ixesha lomntu kwaye akafuni kuziva ngathi ubotshelelwe kulo naluphi na ulwalamano. Bakhetha ukonwabela ixesha labo lasimahla ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunokuba babelane ngalo nomnye umntu.
Ngabodwa
Olu hlobo lomntu ongatshatanga luneempawu ezifanayo nezizimeleyo, umahluko omkhulu wokuba ixesha lasimahla ulichitha wedwa ekhaya kwaye kungabikho kunxibelelana naye nabani na. Yonwabela okuninzi ekhaya ngaphandle kokukushiya.
Ongatshatanga, onele
Aba bantu sele beqhele ukuhlala bodwa kwaye abadingi mntu ngayo. Bazisebenzisela ukwenza yonke into kwaye bakuphephe ukuba neqabane.
Ongatshatanga nokuzithemba okuphantsi
Ukungatshati yinto enyanzelwayo kwaye ayifunwa kwaye oku kuyakwenza ukuba umntu azithobe kakhulu kwaye imeko yokudakumba. Iinjongo zolu hlobo lomntu ongatshatanga kukufumana umntu oza kwabelana naye ngobomi. Umntu ongatshatanga nokuzithemba okuphantsi ubona ubomi ngendlela engenathemba kwaye engalindelanga mbuyekezo.
Uqeqesho olunye
Ubomi obudlulileyo kunye neengxaki abaye babandezeleka kuzo kwicandelo lothando, lenza abantu abaninzi bacinge kabini ngaphambi kokuthatha inyathelo elibalulekileyo lokuntywila kubudlelwane obuthile. Aba ngabantu abakhethiweyo kwaye bacinga ngayo kakhulu ngaphambi kokuthatha ubudlelwane obuthile okanye isibini njengegosa.
Umntu ongatshatanga okhoyo
Aba ngabantu abakholelwa eluthandweni kwaye abanangxaki nokuba bodwa. Bavulelekile kubudlelwane kodwa hayi ngokufuna ngamandla. Bacinga ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba nonwabe xa uwedwa.
Iingcamango ezingatshatanga
Bazibandakanya kuphela kwisibini ukuba nje umntu okhethiweyo unoluhlu lweembono okanye amasiko afana noko kufunwayo. Ukuba oku akwenzeki, umntu ukhululekile ukuba angatshatanga.
Ngamafutshane, Kuyenzeka ukuba kuboniswe ukuba kukho ubudlelwane obuthe ngqo phakathi kokungatshati kunye nemeko yengqondo yomntu. Ukonwaba okanye ukungakhathali ngobomi kunokuba nefuthe ngqo ekubeni neqabane okanye ukukhetha ukungatshati. Okwangoku, ukungatshati ayikuko ukungakhathali njengokuba yayinjalo kwiminyaka eyadlulayo kwaye lukhetho lobuqu oluhlonipheke ngokupheleleyo njengayo nayiphi na enye into. Inokwenzeka into yokuba umntu onwabe ngokupheleleyo xa eyedwa njengomnye umntu oneqabane lakhe.