Yinto eyamkelekileyo kwaphela ukucinga ukuba umntu othandana naye ngokwenene ungumlingani wakho womphefumlo kunye "nokhethiweyo." Ngelixa nobabini ninokuvana kakhulu, akwaziwa ukuba baya kuyenza ngonaphakade njengesibini. Mhlawumbi uyathanda ukuphuma niyonwaba kunye kodwa xa kufikwa kwimiba enzulu njengokuzinikela, ukuthembana kunye noxanduva ... ubudlelwane bufutshane kakhulu.
Unokuziva ugqibelele, kodwa akunakunceda ukuba uzibuze ukuba ungaya phi na ukuya phambili kubudlelwane bakho. Umtshato ungoyikisa kakhulu okanye wenze ulwalamano lube sesikweni ...
Ungathanda ukuphuma niyonwaba kunye, kodwa xa kufikwa kwimicimbi enzulu njengokuzibophelela, ukuthembana kunye noxanduva, bayasilela. Ngoku ukuba ufumene umntu oyibile ngokupheleleyo intliziyo yakho, uhlalutye yonke into kwaye akunakunceda ukuzibuza ukuba bakuthanda nyhani. Le miqondiso inokukunceda wazi ukuba unothando okanye awuthandi ...
Uthumela umyalezo rhoqo kusasa
Nangona sisenzo esincinci kakhulu, ukuthatha ixesha lokukubhalela umyalezo ngenye yezona zinto zimnandi umntu anokuzenza. Ibonisa ukuba ebecinga ngawe kuqala ekuseni kwaye akakwazi kulinda ukuthetha nawe, kwaye ikwabonisa ukuba wenza into ayaziyo ukuba iya kukonwabisa.
Wonke umntu wasetyhini uyakuthanda ukufumana umyalezo osuka kwisoka lakhe ekuseni embuza ukuba uqhuba njani, nanjengoko oko kubonisa ukuba ebesengqondweni yakhe, kwaye uphezu kwezinto eziphambili kuye. Ngelixa wayenokulinda ukuba athethe nawe kamva emveni kokuba eye wakhathalela ezinye izinto okanye alinde ukuba ubhalele yena kuqala, wathatha inyathelo lokuqala lokwenza njalo kwangoko, kubonisa ukuba bazimisele ukubeka kuwe kuqala.
Soloko ukulungele ukumamela xa uphantsi
Olunye lweyona miqondiso ixelayo malunga nokuba ubudlelwane busekwe kuthando lokwenene okanye inkanuko kuphela kuxa kukwazi ukuthetha ngeemvakalelo zakho. Ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo ekhaya okanye emsebenzini kwaye unokuyixoxa neqabane lakho kwaye bayakuxhasa, bafuna ukuqiniseka ukuba ulungile ... olo luthando lokwenene.
Iimvakalelo zakho zibalulekile Kwaye ukuba ufuna umntu oza kukuxhasa, akanakuba nomsindo ngenxa yakho. Ufanele ukuba neqabane onokumthemba naphantsi kwayiphi na imeko.
Ukulungele ukuncama ezinye ii-hangout kunye nabahlobo bakhe ukuze babe kunye nawe
Kulungile ukuba iqabane lakho lifune ukuphuma nabahlobo balo, kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuba abe secaleni kwakho nangasiphi na isizathu, uya kuhlala ecaleni kwakho. Uyazazi ezona zinto ziphambili kuye kwaye ungaphezu kwayo nantoni na.
Ihlala ikukhuthaza kwaye ikuxhase
Isithandwa esilungileyo esikhathalele ngokwenene intombazana yaso siyakuhlala siyikhuthaza kwaye siyixhasa kwiinjongo namaphupha ayo. Akayi kuzama ukukulawula okanye ukukukhohlisa, uya kukuvumela ukuba wenze nantoni na oyifunayo ngenkululeko epheleleyo. Ngelixa uzimeleyo kwaye womelele, akukaze kubuhlungu ukuba neqabane elizimisele ukunamathela kuwe xa kufikwa kufezekiso lwakho. Uya kuzingca ngawe kwaye uya kukukhuthaza ukuba uqhubeke.
Ukuba unyanisekile nawe, uyakunceda nanini na xa ufuna kwaye uphendula imiyalezo yakho nokuba wenza ntoni ... yintoni enye ekufuneka uyenzile ukuze uqonde ukuba uyakuthanda nyhani ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto?