Kubuhlungu ukufumanisa ukuba lowo ubuqwalasele iqabane lakho awungowakhe. Kuloo mntu umnike intliziyo yakho kubonakala ngathi unokukhetha kuphela. Okona kwenzekayo xa ufumanisa ukuba uyathandana kwaye akukho nto unokuyenza ukuyilungisa. Mhlawumbi ngenxa yendlela eniziphatha ngayo kunye nicinga ukuba nitshatile, kodwa emva koko, ukungqubana nenyani kubuhlungu kakhulu.
Ekuqaleni konke kubonakala kumnandi, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha uyaqonda ukuba uqhubeka ethetha ngesithandwa sakhe sangaphambili, ukuba uyakuvumela ukuba ubhatale ngaphezulu kwezinto ahlawulayo, njl. Kukho imiqondiso ethile eqala ukukuxwayisa ngokweemvakalelo ukuba izinto azihambi njengoko kufanele. Emva koko siza kukubonisa imiqondiso ethile kuya kufuneka uqaphele ukuze wazi ukuba yonke into izakuhamba kakuhle okanye ayibobudlelwane obubi ...
Ikuxelela ukuba ayikhangeli nantoni na enzulu
Umntu olungileyo uya kulindela ukuchitha ubomi bakho bonke kunye nawe, kwaye umntu ekubona ngokucacileyo ukuba uya kubizwa njenge-roll call uya koyika kuphela kwingcinga yokulalanisa. Ke ukuba ebekunye nawe ngalo lonke ixesha, ekuxelela indlela afuna ukugcina ngayo izinto zikhanya kwaye zikhululekile, luphawu olucacileyo lokuba uyakubona njengombhalo wakhe. Ukuba kunjalo, awunyanzelekanga ukuba uphumle nayo. Dlulisela komnye umntu ofaneleke ngakumbi.
Ulwalamano lwakho alukho ilebula
Ewe, iilebhile azidingeki ngamanye amaxesha. Kodwa kule meko, Sicinga ukuba kubalulekile ukuba ubuncinci kufuneka wazi apho udibana naye ngokukhawuleza. Ke ukuba uyayicekisa imbono yokukubiza kwaye akubonise ukuba uyintombi yakhe okanye ukuba ukuxelela ngokukhawuleza ukuba ucinga ukuba iileyibhile azidingeki, inokuba sisalathiso esifihlakeleyo sokuba ubudlelwane bakho abukho nzulu.
Ukuba kunjalo, musa ukutyala imali kuyo. Luphawu lokuxela ukuba ungumbhalo wakhe kwaye awunakumphatha njengeyona nto iphambili kuye ukuba akakwenzeli okufanayo.
Akachithi mali kuwe
Siyazi ukuba oku kunokuba yinto ephambeneyo, kodwa eneneni, umfana ozimisele malunga nokulandela emva kwakho kwaye akubonise into aza kuyisebenzisa ngento onokukwazi ukuyenza ukuze uzive ukhethekile. Ewe usenokungabinayo i-akhawunti yebhanki etyebileyo, kodwa ngento onayo iya kuyisebenzisa ukukubonisa ukuba ungazikhathalela. Kodwa ukuba loo mntu akakwazi nokuchitha ii-euro ezingama-2 ukukuthengela ikofu, oko kunokuthetha izinto ezimbini kuphela: okanye ukuba wophuke ngokupheleleyo okanye akakufanelanga ukuba nawe.
Kuphephe ukwabelana naluphi na uhlobo uxanduva nawe
Unokuqiniseka ukuba usisicwangciso sakhe kuphela xa engafuni kwabelana nolona xanduva lincinci nawe. Umzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukuba ngumhlobo wakho wokuzivocavoca, yehla. Ukuba ufuna ukuthatha ikati elahlekileyo kunye naye, yithi uyaliwa nayintoni na enoboya. Zoba le migca icacileyo nawe kuba uyazi ukuba ayizukuhlala nawe ixesha elide. Ukuba ukrelekrele, uyakuthatha umkhondo ocacileyo kwaye ungachithi xesha kuwo.