Xa isibini sitshata, into yokugqibela abayicingayo ngoqhawulo-mtshato okanye ulwalamano lwabo oluhle lunokuphela ngokwahlukana. Kodwa ebomini akukho nto iqinisekileyo, ke, Ukuba ucinga ukuba umtshato wakho uhamba ngeengxaki, kunjalo, kunjalo. Kubalulekile ukuya phambili kwimisitho ukunqanda ukwahlukana okanye ubuncinci ulungiselele kwimeko apho kuya kufuneka kwenzeke.
Ngesi sizathu, apha ngezantsi siza kukuxelela ngezinye zeengxaki ezinokuthi zenzeke emtshatweni kwaye ukuba ziyenzeka, kungenxa yokuba babhengeza ukwahlukana okukufutshane. Ukuba uqaphela nayiphi na kwezi zinto, Kuya kufuneka uthethe neqabane lakho ukuzama ukulungisa izinto kwimeko apho kusekho uthando oluseleyo.
Nangona ucinga ukuba akusekho thando kubudlelwane bakho, iya kuba licebo elihle ukuqala ukucinga ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ungalahli iinkcukacha malunga nezi ngxaki, ukumamela / ukuba ngaba le yinto eyenzekayo kuwe emtshatweni wakho.
Awusiva isidingo sokulungisa izinto
Oku kunokupela ukuphela kobudlelwane bakho ngokupheleleyo, kwaye kunokubangelwa zizinto ezimbalwa. Mhlawumbi unike amathuba amaninzi okanye wenzakele amaxesha amaninzi. Mhlawumbi awusathandani kwaye le yeyona ndlela ilula yokuphuma. Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, ukungafuni ukulungisa izinto kwicandelo lakho okanye kwiqabane lakho luphawu oluxelayo lwengxaki.
Ukuchitha ixesha kunye ngumsebenzi
Andithethi ukuba sihlale sikunye nge-24/7, oku kuyakucutha nabani na. Nangona kunjalo, nokuba aninakho ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye, isidingo sokufuna ukuba kunye kufuneka sibekhona. Kuya kufuneka afune ukuchitha ubusuku bangoMgqibelo kunye nawe, onwabele inkampani yakho endaweni yokuba angqongwe ngabantu angabaziyo kwiiklabhu zasebusuku, kungenjalo. Okwangoku iba ngumsebenzi, lixesha lokuba usengxakini.
Uphupha ubomi obahlukileyo
Okokugqibela, ukuba uhlala uphupha ngobomi obahlukileyo obungabandakanyi yena, okanye naye esenza okufanayo, kuya kufuneka ubenayo "intetho." Mhlawumbi unamaphupha okanye iinjongo ezahlukeneyo kwaye awazi ukuba ungazidibanisa njani. Ababini abafuna ukuba kunye bahlala bevula indlela. Kuya kubakho ukulungelelaniswa okwenziweyo ukusuka kumacala omabini, Kodwa ukuhamba kwicala elinye kubalulekile kubudlelwane obuhlala buhleli.
Ayilulo lonke ulwalamano oluhlala ixesha elide, olungeyonto imbi. Unokuba kubudlelwane obuthile ukuze ukufundise izifundo ezibalulekileyo ezokulungiselela ulwalamano lwakho olulandelayo. Isitshixo ku Ukusombulula oku kukunyaniseka kuwe malunga nobudlelwane kwaye kubandakanya neqabane lakho kuloo ncoko.
Nangona unxibelelwano lubonakala luluncinci, ukuba kukho naluphi na uhlobo lwencoko ekufuneka unalo, le iya kuba njalo. Ke, biza sonke isibindi sakho kwaye uyihlonele iqabane lakho ngokwaneleyo ukuze bathethe. Isenokungabi ngamava amnandi, Kodwa ubuncinci uyiphatha ngesidima Yinto leyo kungekho namnye unokukuhlutha yona.