Kuyachulumancisa ukubona indlela abantwana abakhula ngayo babe ngabantwana kwaye kancinci kancinci ukukhula kwabo kolwimi kubavumela ukuba bavakalise ezabo iingcinga kunye nendlela yabo yokubona umhlaba. Usana luqala ngokubhabha amagama alo okuqala, emva koko luqale ngezivakalisi kwaye ekugqibeleni, uya kuba nakho ukuqhuba incoko ngokupheleleyo nangokufanelekileyo.
Ukuba ungumzali, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba kuninzi onokuyenza ukukhuthaza ukukhula kolwimi kwaye ke uvule iingcango zonxibelelwano lolwimi phakathi kwakho nabantwana bakho. Ungaphoswa ziingcebiso zilandelayo ukunceda umntwana wakho abe nolwimi olulungileyo kunye nolungcono.
Iingcebiso zokukhula kakuhle kolwimi lwabantwana bakho
Ukuphendula kwisandi ngesandi nentetho ngentetho
Xa umntwana esenza izandi ezingaqondakaliyo zezandulela izandi zamagama. Olunye uluvo kukusebenza ngokungathi uyazi kakuhle ukuba zithini na ezo zandi. Umzekelo: "Oh, ufuna ukuphuma ebhedini, akunjalo?" Ngamanye amaxesha ukwenza izandi ezifanayo kukhuthaza abantwana ukuba baqhubeke nokuzenza.
Ukufumana ixesha 'lokuhlala uthethe' nosana lwakho yonke imihla
Fumana indawo efanelekileyo ukuze ubuso bakho busondele kubuso bosana lwakho. Ncokola malunga nantoni na ethi qatha engqondweni kwaye unike umntwana wakho ithuba lokukunika 'impendulo' yakhe. Ungaziva usisiyatha xa uyenza, kodwa inyani yokuba ukwenza oku yonke imihla kubaluleke kakhulu kuphuhliso lolwimi lomncinci.
Unolwimi olucacileyo
Nokuba kuyangxola okanye kunengxolo yangasemva (isomisi esiwisayo, ishawawashi okanye umabonwakude)… ingxolo eninzi ingena kwindlela yokufunda ulwimi. Zama ukugcina intetho yakho icacile kwaye kwindawo ezolileyo. Ukongeza, ukukhuthaza ulwimi olucacileyo, kubalulekile ukuba ufundele umntwana wakho amabali abantwana yonke imihla.
Amagama anxulumene nezenzo
Xa uthetha nosana lwakho sebenzisa izijekulo kwaye unxibelelanise izenzo zakho namagama akho. Umzekelo: 'Ndizakuthatha ikhukhi ekhabhathini', 'Ndizakutya le mbatata', kwaye emva kokuyithetha yenze iintshukumo.
Nceda usana lwakho lunxibelelane ngezimbo zomzimba
Dlala ngokukhawuleza ukuba usana lwakho luhlale phambi kwakho. Njengokuba umntwana ekhula, qhubeka nokusebenzisa izimbo zomzimba kunye nentshukumo yokuveza izimvo zakho, ngale ndlela uyakube umfundisa ukuba izimbo zomzimba zingumbono olungileyo ukunxibelelana ngcono. Kukwabalulekile ukuba ulungelelanise ulwimi lwabantwana kunye nezivakalisi ezifutshane kwintetho elungileyo.
Kwincoko, nceda abantwana ukuba bafunde ukucinga
Thetha izinto ezenza abantwana bacinge okanye bakhumbule. "Ziphi izihlangu zakho?" Masiphume phandle phambi kwesidlo sasemini. Nceda uthathe ibhatyi yakho. Ezi nkcazo zigxininisa inkumbulo kwaye zibonisa ukulandelelana kwexesha kwemisebenzi.
Njengonyaka, buza imibuzo emininzi
Akukho nto yenza kube lula ukucinga njengombuzo; Umntwana wakho akakwazi ukuphendula umbuzo ngaphandle kokucinga ngale nto uyithethileyo. Njengoko esiya esiba mdala kwaye enezakhono ezingcono zomlomo, phendula imibuzo yabo ngombuzo ovumela iimpendulo ezininzi. Xa ufunda incwadi, yima uze ubuze: «Ucinga ukuba umvundla uzakwenza ntoni ngoku? "
Zama ukugcina ulwimi luvuya kwaye luchanekile
Ngelishwa, abanye abantwana beva amagama ambalwa aqinisekileyo, phantse bonke banezinto ezimbi. Ukuba ipesenti ephezulu yamagama abhekiswe kuye ayathandeki, unokumtyhafisa ekuthetheni. Ke ukuba ufuna umntwana wakho athethe nayeokanye umenze onwabe kwaye abe nethemba, kuya kufuneka uthethe naye ngale ndlela.
Nceda abantwana baveze iimvakalelo kwaye bafunde amagama achaza iimvakalelo zabo
"Uyadana namhlanje?" "Kuyandivuyisa kakhulu ukuba wabelana ngeento zakho zokudlala nodade wakho." Ukuba namagama okuchaza iimvakalelo kunceda ukuqonda nokulawula iimvakalelo zomntwana. Zama ukuhlala unethemba kwaye uphephe ukuthetha izinto ezinokukwenza uzive ubonakalise iimvakalelo zakho.