Kuqhelekile ukuba oomama abaninzi namhlanje badinwe kakhulu ngokwasengqondweni. Ukunyamekela nokufundisa umntwana akuyondlwan’ iyanetha yaye kufuna amandla amakhulu engqondo ukuze ukwazi ukuwenza. Oomama abaninzi abakwazi ukuhlangabezana nale meko yaye ngaphandle kwayo yonke into ebandakanya ikhaya ngokwalo, basebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha ngezo mpawu zibonisa ukuba umama akalunganga, ngokwembono yengqondo neyengqondo kwaye wenze ntoni ukuze ukwazi ukubuyisela umva le ngxaki.
Iimpawu zokuba umama udiniwe ngokwasengqondweni
Ukunxiba kunye nokukrazula umama abandezelekayo kwinqanaba lezengqondo kubi kakhulu, ekubeni idla ngokuba nempembelelo embi kwikamva elihle lentsapho. Kubalulekile ukwazi isizathu esibangela ukudinwa okunjalo kwaye ukusuka apho ukusombulula ingxaki ngokukhawuleza. Apha sikubonisa ezinye zezi mpawu zokunxitywa kwengqondo okukhankanywe ngasentla:
- Amaxhala emihla ngemihla abangela umfazi musa ukuphumla njengoko kufuneka ngokwenene. Ukungabikho kokulala kunempembelelo embi kumama wemihla ngemihla njengoko eziva ediniwe ukususela ekuseni.
- Ukuchasana nokuxhalaba ngokugqithiseleyo kunye noxinzelelo, umfazi ochaphazelekayo udla ngaphezu kokuyimfuneko kwaye adle ukutya okungenamsoco njengeelekese, eziqhotsiweyo okanye amashwamshwam.
- Olunye uphawu olucacileyo lokudinwa kwengqondo bubunzima obunzima ukuba umntu akwazi ukugxila. Eli bhinqa kuthethwa ngalo lineengxaki ezinzulu ekulandeleni incoko ethile.
- Ukudinwa kwengqondo kukhokelela ekubeni ibhinqa liqale ukuba nalo iingxaki ezithile zememori. Kuqhelekile ke ngoko ukuba ulibale apho ubeke khona izitshixo zendlu okanye imisebenzi ethile obuyilindile.
- Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuxhalaba okugqithisileyo kunye nokudinwa kwengqondo ukwenza owasetyhini acaphuke ngakumbi kunesiqhelo. Akanamdla kakhulu ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye elusizi.
Yintoni omawuyenze phambi kokudinwa engqondweni nangokweemvakalelo
Ukukhathala okukhankanywe ngasentla engqondweni nangokweemvakalelo kuchaphazela zonke iinkalo zobomi bomfazi, ukusuka emsebenzini ngomntu okanye usapho. Ukuba akunyangwa kwangethuba, oku kudinwa kunokukhokelela kwiziphazamiso ezithile zengqondo. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukwabela imisebenzi ethile kwabanye abantu njengeqabane lakho okanye usapho lwakho. Akunjalo kakhulu kwaye ukuba uqoqosho luyakuvumela, ukuqesha ingcali yokuncedisa umama kwimisebenzi yasekhaya. Enoba kuyintoni na, intsapho yinto emibini yaye ulungelelwano lufanele lufunyanwe xa kusenziwa imisebenzi eyahlukahlukeneyo kwikhaya ngokwalo.
Ngamafutshane, ukuba ngumama yinto entle kakhulu engenakuquka idabi lemihla ngemihla. Kubalulekile ukukwazi ukunandipha intsapho ngokupheleleyo, ukushiya iinkxalabo ezithile ezibangelwa kukungabikho kwexesha. Awukwazi ukuba ngumama iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku Ekubeni ukudinwa kugqiba ukuthatha umthwalo kwinqanaba lengqondo kunye neemvakalelo.