Ukuze ubudlelwane buhlale ixesha elide kubalulekile ukugcina ilangatye lothando livutha. Kukho iimeko apho, ekuhambeni kwexesha, elinye lamalungu esi sibini liqala ukubonisa ukungabikho komdla kwaye lide kunye nomnye umntu.
Oku kungabi namdla kunokuba kokwexeshana kwaye okomzuzwana, ngoko ke akufanele kunikwe kubaluleka kakhulu. Noko ke, kwezinye iimeko, ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kunokuba yinto enzulu ngakumbi enokubeka ubuhlobo ngokwawo engozini.
Izizathu okanye izizathu zokulahlekelwa ngumdla kwisibini
- I-routine yenye yeentshaba ezinkulu zalo naluphi na ubudlelwane. Isibini kufuneka sihoywe ngalo lonke ixesha kuba kungenjalo umgama unokubakho ongancedi mntu.
- Ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kwesi sibini kunokubangelwa kukudibana nomntu ongaphandle kobudlelwane, oko kukhupha iimvakalelo ezithile ezingasekhoyo phakathi kwesi sibini.
Iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba kukho ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kwisibini
Kukho uluhlu lweempawu ezicacileyo eziya kubonisa ukuba akukho mdla kwesi sibini:
- Iimpawu zothando kunye nothando zibonakala ngokungabikho kwazo. Ezi sampuli ziyimfuneko kwimihla ngemihla ukwenzela ukuba ubudlelwane bungasokoli kwaye buhlala ixesha elide.
- Kukho ukunqongophala konxibelelwano kwaye kukho ilahleko enkulu yomdla xa kuziwa ekwazini ukuba isibini siqhube njani. Ukuthandabuza kwenza ukuba kungabalulekanga ukwazi iinkcukacha ezithile zemihla ngemihla yesi sibini.
- Imilo neengxabano zisekukhanyeni kwemini. Esi sibini sixabana ngayo nantoni na kwaye kuhlale kungxolwa nezithuko. Ubudlelwane abukwazi ukugcinwa phantsi kwayo nayiphi na imeko, ukuba amaqela akakwazi ukuxoxa kwaye afune izisombululo ngendlela ezolileyo nezolileyo.
- Esi sibini sichitha ixesha elininzi kwiiselfowuni zabo kwaye ngokulambisa sinikela ingqalelo kwizinto ezichaphazela ubudlelwane. Umntu ukhetha ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye neselfowuni kunakwinkampani yeqabane lakhe.
- Izicwangciso njengesibini zibonakala ngokungabikho kwabo kwaye elinye lamaqela likhetha ukwenza izinto ngabanye.
Yintoni omawuyenze xa iqabane lakho liphelelwa ngumdla
Akunamsebenzi ukwenza nto kwaye uvumele umsantsa kubudlelwane ube mkhulu kwaye ube mkhulu. Ukuba ukungabi namdla kuyinyani kwaye kuyinyani, kubalulekile ukuba uhlale phantsi neqabane lakho kwaye ujongane nengxaki ngqo. Ukuba incoko yababini ayinamsebenzi, Kuyacetyiswa ukuba uye kunyango ukuzama ukuphelisa le meko.
Gcina ubudlelwane apho omnye wamaqela ekude ayifanelanga. Ayiloncedo ukolula imeko kuba iintlungu ziya kuba zikhulu kakhulu. Kwimeko apho ukulahlekelwa ngumdla akunaso isisombululo, kubalulekile ukuphelisa ubudlelwane kwaye ngaloo ndlela ugweme ukuba ukubandezeleka kunokuba kukhulu ngakumbi.