Uninzi lwabantu lulangazelela ukufumana uthando lobomi babo kwaye ukukwazi ukuyonwabela ngokupheleleyo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho abantu abavakalelwa ngendlela eyahlukileyo njengoko bebandezeleka kuloyiko olubi lokuthandana. Olu hlobo lwe-phobia lubizwa ngokuba yi-philophobia kwaye umntu ohluphekayo unokujamelana neziqendu zoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo, ngombono olula wokuba banokuthandana nomntu.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha nawe ngendlela eneenkcukacha ngakumbi malunga nefilosofi kunye ukwenza ntoni ukuze ukoyise.
Yintoni ifilosofi?
Yi-phobia yokuba umntu ahlupheke ngokuthandana kunye nokuqala ubudlelwane. Le nyaniso ibangela ukuba loo mntu abandezeleke ziziqendu ezahlukeneyo zoxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo kubaluleke kakhulu. I-phobia inzulu kangangokuba umntu unokuzivalela endlwini yakhe ukuze aphephe naluphi na uhlobo lobudlelwane nabanye abantu.
Ukuba i-phobia ayiphathwa, ubomi bomntu ochaphazelekayo bunokuchaphazeleka ngendlela enzulu. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, inokunyanzelwa ukuba ibe yekheswa ekuhlaleni nazo zonke izinto ezimbi ezibandakanya oku. Kwiimeko ezininzi, le phobia ibangelwa ngamava abuhlungu oye waba nawo kwixesha elidlulileyo njengokuxhatshazwa kweqabane.
Iimpawu ezibonakaliswa ngumntu ophethwe yifilosofi
- Iingxaki zenyama ezifana ne-tachycardia okanye ukungalingani kwindlela yokugaya kunye iingxaki zeemvakalelo ezifana nokuxhalaba okanye uxinzelelo.
- Kukho ingcinezelo enamandla xa kuziwa ekuvakaliseni iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo.
- Kwiimeko ezinzima kakhulu, umntu ophethwe yi-phobia enjalo Unokuba likheswa ekuhlaleni.
Unokuyoyisa njani ifilosofi?
Njengoko kuninzi lwe-phobias, Into yokuqala kukuba umntu uyazi ukuba unengxaki kwaye ukusuka apha ufune uncedo lokoyisa olu hlobo lwe-phobia.
- Enye indlela yokunyanga i-phobia enjalo kukufumana unyango lokuziphatha kwengqondo.. Ngolu nyango, umntu kufuneka ajongane noloyiko lwakhe ngokuthe ngqo kwaye azame ukuloyisa. Kubalulekile ukufumana unobangela woloyiko oluxeliweyo kwaye ukusuka apho ukwazi ukwenza okuthile ukuze ukwazi ukoyisa i-phobia enjalo. Kubalulekile ukubonisa ukuba ukuze unyango lube nemiphumo, umntu kufuneka enze indima yakhe kwaye afune ukushiya uloyiko olunjalo ngasemva ngonaphakade.
- Ukuziqhelanisa neendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphumla njengoko kunjalo ngengqondo Inokunceda umntu ukuba ayeke ngokuthe ngcembe ukuyoyisa le phobia.
- Enye indlela yokuphelisa uloyiko lobudlelwane kukuthetha ngayo nabantu abasondeleyo njengabahlobo okanye usapho.
Ngamafutshane, nangona kukho ubudlelwane obungahambi kakuhle, kukho ezinye izinto ezibonakalayo kwaye zibe zilungile. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukulushiya ngasemva olo loyiko uze ujamelane nalo. Izinto zinokuhamba kakubi okanye zilungile kuba oku kuyimfuneko ukuba ungazitshixi kwaye ukhangele de umfumane loo mntu unokusenza sonwabe.