Icandelo elinzima leemviwo zabafundi lihlala likhuthazeka. Iimviwo zingena kubomi babantwana bakho kwaye banokuqala ukuziva bediniwe, bediniwe kwaye bengakhuthazeki. Abanye basenokude baphuphe ngeeholide. Ewe, iimviwo ziphantse zaphela, kodwa okwangoku. Inxalenye enzima kukuhlala ukhuthazeka.
Iingcali zengqondo zithetha ngenkuthazo yangaphandle kunye nenkuthazo yangaphakathi. Ngamafutshane, inkuthazo yangaphakathi ibandakanya ukuzikhuthaza kwaye yeyona ndlela inamandla yokukhuthaza. Kodwa kanjani? Ezi ngcinga zinokunceda abantwana bakho.
Khumbula iinjongo zakho
Inqaku elibaluleke kakhulu ekugxilwe kulo sesona sizathu sokuba uthathe isigqibo sokufunda. Xelela abantwana bakho ukuba bazibuze le mibuzo:
- Yintoni injongo yam yokuphela?
- Yintoni endifuna ukuyiphumeza ngamabanga am?
- Yintoni endifuna ukuyenza ubomi bam bonke?
Cacisa abafundi bakufumanisa kulula ukuzikhuthaza. Ungathini ngomfanekiso wephupha lakho uze ulibeke edesikeni apho ufunda khona? Xa ulibona eli phupha rhoqo, liya kuhlala liyinyani ngakumbi engqondweni yakho, likukhuthaze ukuba uqhubeke ulisebenzela elo phupha.
Guqula imbono yeemviwo zesikolo
Umgaqo obalulekileyo ekufuneka uwukhumbule kukuba iimviwo azilotshaba. Kufuneka uxelele abantwana bakho ukuba uvavanyo ngumhlobo wabo. Isenokungavakali njalo, kodwa uvavanyo lithuba elihle lokubonisa utitshala wakho kunye nehlabathi ngokubanzi ngento onokuyenza.
Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba akukho mntu uza kukuphazamisa, njengoko abantu behlala besenza xa bencokola okanye beklasini. Unayo yonke loo seshoni yoviwo "yitsho le nto ufuna ukuyithetha." Kwaye elona candelo lililo kukuba utitshala kufuneka "amamele", utitshala akanandlela-mbini ngaphandle kokulungisa umsebenzi wakhe. Xa ubona uviwo njengethuba kunokuba usongele, ukulungiselela iimviwo kuba lula ngakumbi kwaye kunentsingiselo.
Umgaqo obalulekileyo ekufuneka uwukhumbule kukuba iimviwo azilotshaba.
Umvuzo ngomsebenzi olungileyo
Kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo, unokumvuza ngokufunda nzima. Umzekelo, unokuzivumela ukuba uthathe ikhefu emva kokugqiba ngempumelelo icandelo elithile lomsebenzi, okanye uhambe uyokwenza isandwich okanye ihambhega enencasa emva kokuba ufunde ngokunyanisekileyo iyure.
Uyazazi: uyakwazi anokukufeza ngeyure, kwaye uyazi ukuba angathanda ntoni njengomvuzo… Thetha nomntwana wakho ukuze afunde indlela yokuthatha isigqibo sokuba loluphi uhlobo lwemivuzo esempilweni afuna ukuyifaka kwiseshoni zakhe zokufunda. Xelela umntwana wakho: "Zivuze kakuhle, kodwa yiba ngqongqo kwisiqu sakho kuqala."
Musa ukutyeshela yonke enye into
Khumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba azilolonge, aphume phandle, kwaye aphefumle. Ukuzivocavoca kunokuhambisa igazi lakho kwaye nengqondo yakho isebenza kwakhona. Ukuzivocavoca kunokusetyenziswa njengomvuzo. Udinga ixesha lokwenza eminye imisebenzi oyithandayo. Njalo yenza ibhalansi ngexesha lokuvavanya, nangona uzakufuna ixesha elaneleyo lokuphonononga usuku olungaphambi koviwo